Today, whilst trying on wedding dresses with my mom, she told me that I looked fat and awful in the dress I liked. When I told her how hurtful she was being, she told me that I should be grateful that she told me what she thought instead of laughing at me behind my back. FML
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You tried at least
Today, I finally gave my mum an expensive designer dress I spent months saving to buy for her as she had been very depressed. However she has gained so much weight from stress eating she ripped it when trying to put it on, and now won't talk to me because, "I wanted to make her feel fat". FML
Today, my dad informed me that my prom dress makes me look chubby from the side, gives me "back fat", and that I wouldn't want to go to prom looking like that. I tried to ignore his hurtful comments and tell myself I was beautiful. Then the clasp broke. FML
Unnecessary
Today, my mom and I were looking at dresses for me at the mall. The cashier pointed out a dress, and my mom said, "She's definitely not going to fit into that. She's too flat-chested." FML
Today, while having dinner with my boyfriend's family, his mom told me that it looks like I've gained quite some weight. When my boyfriend told her that this was a rude thing to say, she said it wasn't rude, just the truth. FML
Today, my sister told me she didn’t want me in her wedding pictures because I looked fat in my bridesmaid's dress. FML
How rude
Today, I bought my fiancée a dress for her birthday. She accused me of saying she was fat, because I bought it in medium rather than small. After trying on the dress, she's now not only mad at me for buying it, but also because the dress fits perfectly. FML
Whatever People Say I Am, That's What I'm Not
Today, I finally told my mom that it hurts me every time she calls me fat. She got offended that I'm offended. Now our whole entire extended family wants me to say sorry to her and them, because apparently they also call me fat behind my back. I'm a size small by the way. FML
Today, feeling very self-conscious about my looks, I told my mom I felt ugly and wished I could be as beautiful as her. She only said, "Yeah, I'm pretty, I wonder what happened to you." FML
Honesty
Today, I was trying on wedding dresses with my future sister-in-law who is a little bigger than me. We tried on a similar dress and she said it looked better on me because I'm skinny. Instead of saying, "No way" or "It looks great on you", I accidentally said, "Yeah, I know." FML
Shush
Today, I went in to pick my wedding dress. My fiancé's ex-girlfriend was my consultant. She basically hinted that I looked fat in every dress. FML
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shadowedpixie 19
Better now than at the wedding.
RpiesSPIES 27
Honesty is the best policy. She could've been nicer about it, but you can still try on plenty more dresses to find the one you LOVE instead of the one you LIKE ;)
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shadowedpixie 19
Better now than at the wedding.
RpiesSPIES 27
Honesty is the best policy. She could've been nicer about it, but you can still try on plenty more dresses to find the one you LOVE instead of the one you LIKE ;)
Ameel_fml 19
I agree. Sure, the mother could be nicer about it, but I'd rather people be honest about how an outfit looks on me than lie and tell me I always look good when I don't.
CubanBitchh 10
^especially for your wedding.
vehementbitch 4
Thats extremely true but......her mom is a bitch
CaiDog 20
People need to become masters at the form of communication called TACT. It's goal is to balance truth and kindness in harmony. like kung fu, but better
CrookedCook 14
honestly, the truth really doesn't need to come out EVERY time. ( and when I mean truth, I mean the mother's opinion ). I hope what she's said doesn't keep you from having a happy wedding OP.
whiteboy896 9
Exactly what does Paul Pierce have to do with this...?
tigerisabelle 31
Absolutely nothing, #12.
aliadk 7
I hope you replied with, "oh, so I look just like you do everyday?"
meekthekit 6
Don't let her opinion get in the way of the best day of your life!! Congrats op, hope you have an amazing wedding.
SirTalkaton 22
That's rude. Sorry OP, but don't stoop to her level, just raise above it and keep your chin up.
ComaWhiteLove 18
Oh that motherly love of hers..
darwinism 30
Show her the wrath of Bridezilla. That should shut her up.
dead_insects 18
that's something more frightening than a horror movie! "IM THE BRIDE!!"
dead_insects 18
wow... that's more than a little cruel. I wonder if she's always like that. your fiance thinks you are beautiful, and beauty does NOT come in one size. your mother needs to learn some ******* tact and get some maturity. I'm sorry one of the special parts of your upcoming wedding was ruined by rudeness
andrekrivo 20
hey, I was going to write that!
dead_insects 18
great minds think alike! ;)
liblob 6
so okay maybe it was rather blunt. but i would rather know than turn up on my wedding day possibly not looking my best.
BrotherPhil 35
You can tell someone that the dress doesn't suit them without being insulting.