... well you did kind of deserve it xD but still, hardened stomach muscles are quite hard to resist.. mm....

I'm sure you'd feel the exact same way if your boyfriend did this with a woman. Men doing this is something every woman bitches about ENDLESSLY. Women seem to think there's a double standard where when a man does something it's "wrong" and when a woman does something it's "ok". Then women wonder why men don't respect or trust them. It's because they can't because of double-standards like that. Worse yet, you're from my neck of the woods.

I think he's insecureeee. Poor guy. My mom helps my dad decide which of the women who hold the suitcases are hotter on Deal or No Deal. In a secure relationship, a couple should be able to talk about the attractiveness of others with their partner, because your partner should know that he/she's the one that you want, not any other person. (and by "they should know" I mean "you should remind them regularly") Nothing's more fun than rating how hot the people passing by are.

i'm just wondering why "Promptly" is capitalized... and used... is it really necessary? I think "promptly" is turning into the new "proceeded" in fmls.

that's what you get. dumb bitch

I didn't realize I was playing a "pretend sympathy" card, sorry if that annoyed you. I have no sympathy for anyone who walks into pole. :P And personally, if I saw my boyfriend ogling another girl, I'd poke him, say "So you think that's hot?" and laugh when he said yes. (or laugh harder when he said no while really meaning yes) I wouldn't say YDI if the OP was a guy in this situation, I'd just say the girl was insecure instead.

Oh yeah, because everyone lives in the mindset that once we're in a relationship, the rest of the world doesn't exist. I'll look at a nice set of abs while my boyfriend is with me. And he might stare at a nice rack. Whatever. It's not like he's going to leave me to go hump some random chick while we're walking down the street. Everyone, just grow the **** up.

i like your mindset...my GF happens to be as awesome as you, to the pont where if we're out and a hot chick is behind me, she'll be like, 'look at the **** on her.' she's even down for the good kind of 3-way. think that ones needs no further explaination.

because your ex is a perfect angel that never would even think about glancing at a woman barely clothed. What a douche, FHisL.

Haha, my boyfriend (now ex) and I used to do that when we saw underage girls. :3

I have to stick up for OP on this one. While it is understandable that it's a little rude to do it on occasions like a date or something, you can't really expect the other person to think you're the only attractive person to them ever. And if you do think this, you're naive. But girls do have to be careful with this because guys can get VERY jealous when it comes to women, even if the girl just thinks someone else is attractive. It's kind of sad really...but it's true. As for OP, he definitely should not have dumped you for that, it's absurd he would have done the same thing if a hot girl walked buy in a bikini. Find a new boyfriend.

you can't stare at another dude if you're on a date... that's really rude and annoying. YDI you douche.