Today, after spending a week defending my marriage to everyone, I found out my husband has an addiction I never knew about. Hookers. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I found out my husband has been sleeping with one of the women in our marriage counselling group. FML
Today, I found out my husband is addicted to porn. Granted, it's free porn and he has not spent a single dollar on anything (I saw the bank statements), but it's still just tearing my heart apart. FML
Today, I found out that my wife had an affair with our marriage counselor. FML
Today, I found out that my wife has been having an affair with the guy who's been trying to get our relationship back on track. FML
Today, I found out my happily married father has been hiring escorts on-line for 3 years. FML
Today, I discovered my husband hadn't stopped his dangerous gambling habit, even though he'd promised to stop after I caught him the first time two months ago. I'm hurt, sad, confused, and angry. FML
Today, I found out the girl my husband's been calling "Sister" isn't actually his sister, but instead a hooker whose work name is "Sister". FML
Today, I found out the real reason for my parents' divorce. Not because they had grown apart as they claimed, but because my dad was sleeping with hookers. FML
Today, I found out my husband is still friends with someone who talks a lot of crap about me. FML
Today, I found out my husband of 7 years has been cheating on me with "10-15" people. FML
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Top comments
DBallin 10
Don't let him off the hook this time!
Faff 20
why would you have to defend your marriage to other people?
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Comments (71)
DBallin 10
Don't let him off the hook this time!
yeti37 16
I wouldn't take that laying down, OP.
Jdizzle666 6
Pun intended?
adam3650 12
Well hopefully you'll make the right call, girl
Epikouros 32
Make him pay!
LaLince 40
The wife's the last one knowing.
hotshot0185 15
Hookers are really cheating though, there's no emotion
MrClean17 15
Definitely counts as cheating in my opinion
Sinamoi 18
Assuming you meant "aren't", you're wrong. Having sex with another individual besides your partner, hooker or not, is cheating.
Mauskau 36
Also, think about the diseases he could be bringing home to his wife. I'd be going nuts if I ended up with an STD that neither of us had before. Not only is her husband being selfish, he is also spending money to have sex with other women. We don't know the reason why he's done it, but OP could have been holding back for a while due to having just given birth or had surgery and he couldn't put up with his hand for a little longer. OP could have deserved it in a very small percentage because she withheld sex from him for silly reasons or just didn't have sex or intimacy with him. But their sex life could also be very active with eachother which would mean that the husband has no reason whatsoever to even think about sex with anyone else. There is a lot more we need to know. Prostitutes count as cheating by the way, just like kissing someone else counts.
mn_shr 22
So physical cheating doesn't count as cheating? That is why you'll probably end up being forever alone.
stargirl_95 24
#16 I agreed with you until you said that OP could have deserved it a little. No one, no matter what they've done, deserves the level of emotional betrayal that comes with cheating. If their sex life was suffering so much that the husband was having a serious issue with it then he should have sat her down and spoken to her about it like an adult, not gone off and had sex with hookers who could have given him a serious STD.
thats_my_job 11
16 the husband has an addiction. I don't think it has anything to do with OP. At least you found out OP you need to take care of yourself now no matter what. Good luck hun!
hotshot0185 15
Sorry, did mean aren't , my apologies
challan 19
I'm assuming you know this from personal experience. Note to all FML ladies... you are a walking std.
Mauskau 36
I only mean a tiny bit of deserving it if she doesn't give him anything for a long time, like a few years, and she refuses when he asks or gets her in the mood. I know it's wrong but that's the only time I would understand if someone did such a thing, but it doesn't mean it'll ever be right. Also OP could have cheated on him in the past we don't know.
whostolemylama 12
Stop talking. Obviously cheating is still cheating. Whatever the reason, if the only concern is sex in a relationship, then best of luck to you. I'm not saying that there should not be sex in a relationship, I am merely suggesting that there is NO excuse for cheating, whatsoever. If you want to have sex, leave the significant other. Done.
Joey_Mutiny 2
You should stop talking. There isn't one set of rules for every relationship. And there are plenty of great relationships allowing sex outside of the two people. And sometimes there even is a pretty damn good reason to cheat. Tons of people have sexless relationships and not everyone is willing to abandon their partner to have their needs met. There's no 'obvious', or 'NO excuse' when it comes to other people's relationships. Two people don't have to abide by your rules. They should make their own.
Redglare 8
65: The only "good" reason I could possibly fathom for cheating would be if someone were kept in a relationship against their will. If your relationship is sexless, this is why communication is key; Talk to your partner, put some ******* effort into getting a spark going again. If the spark died and the sex won't be improving anytime soon, break up and move on. So no, a "sexless relationship" is a bullshit reason to make cheating valid.
\ 28
You guys need to stop thumbing down people who clarify themselves...
IHATEFMYLIFE 26
3 Doesn't count as cheating because there's no emotion? Are you insane? If a man's penis goes inside another woman's ****** besides his wife or girlfriend, that my fellow commenter is called cheating. I'm not sure where you're from, but I'll guarantee that everyone on this site will agree with me on this one.
ozpunker 20
What an ass.
fsomelife 26
That was probably what the husband said, too.
GoodLookingGeese 10
fsomelife you made my day with your comment, thank you. Let a good ass be with you ass well :)
fsomelife 26
Have yourself a fantasstic day.
Faff 20
why would you have to defend your marriage to other people?
Jdizzle666 6
Because people can be ass hokes. I agree with you
sammyjanette 17
They may be assholes, but they were right. They could probably see huge character flaws in OP's husband, and they just wanted to help the OP see them too.
xStaciexLynnx 15
I'm wondering why its been for only.week. Are they only married a week or what?
TheDrifter 24
Perhaps they're visiting family our have family in? That would put them around a number of people with a predisposition to inquire about visible troubles in their marriage.
lulubelles 33
Or maybe he's been really good at keeping his nice-guy mask on in public until an incident of bad behaviour prompted people to reevaluate their opinion? My friend's partner was a real asshole to her but you'd never have known if you saw them in public, he made himself seem the perfect gent. It was only when he got drunk in front of us that we realised how bad he was, and begged her to leave him when she confessed it was a common occurrence at home.
AngelSpit 18
Before I got married all my friends met my husband and everything was all okay everybody like each other they really all got along and it wasn't till after I got married to him that my friends told me they never really liked him they were just being nice for my sake way to speak up and tell me you think I'm making a big mistake my "good friends"
Zebediabolical 45
Every time I have ever spoken up to a 'good friend' to tell them I thought they were making a mistake, I was ignored and the mistake was made anyway, and a friend lost because I didn't have their back. I've given up and let people dig their own holes now.
RedPillSucks 33
@18 ass hokes? I'm having problems coming up with a visual image. Perhaps that's not a bad thing.
mister_mazda 8
People sure can be ass hokes.
nutcrackers 2
There's always a reason when people around you don't approve your opinion.
MrClean17 15
Ahh. Good luck coming up with an excuse defending that
fsomelife 26
Does he smoke or shoot them?
RodzillaX 30
Hookers always remind me of Grandma's Boy.
Enslaved 38
Why is that? There aren't any hookers in that movie. Now I'm thinking you're an odd ball that's attracted to older women and would like to pay them for their services.
showmeyourears 19
"They're not hookers. They're massage therapists." "They'll massage your **** for money. " "There's a word for that. I think it's hooker. " "YOU'RE A HOOKER!"
Enslaved 38
Damn! I forgot about that beginning part. And I even own the movie. :P kudos to you!(:
oj101 33
Usually, if you have to defend your marriage, there is something wrong because you have multiple people looking out for you that is based on at least a grain of truth from somewhere as compared to what you want to believe in - that is your biased view alone.