tbh I'm about half and half. but I don't get crazy unless I have too (ya know when a man starts to show his true colors of being a f*ckboy) and I most definitely to not show crazy that quick. however I do give a fair warning before anything even moves in that direction of being a couple. it's the man's decision to want to take that chance with me or not and if he decides to then he already knows what he is in for leaving him no room to bitch about it if or when he pushes me to the edge.

Thank you for making me even more concerned about our gender. Maybe you need some help.

There are definitely more sane girls out there than abusive ones like the bone in the FML. What it is is that the stories about the "crazy girlfriend" type spread faster and further because, objectively, they are more interesting than the girl that has a healthy, equal power relationship based off trust with her partner. Same with why the "fuckboy"/two timer boyfriend stories spread faster and further than "guy who works with his partner to maintain a relationship that is healthy and happy for them both" stories. It's not actually that these people outnumber the rational adults of maintaining healthy relationships, it's that the stories that occur from them trying to date are more interesting due to the weird things they do, so people spread them around. Add in that people who have these traits are more likely to be the type of person that HAS to be in a relationship, and they bounce from person to person, leaving a trail behind them that inflates the perceived quantity of these kinds of people. Really, the vast majority of people fall in the "average dater" range, with outliers like the over possessive girl in this FML and outliers on the opposite side of the spectrum that can adapt very well to any partner, be happy, and make their partner happy.

*picks up your eyeballs* Ma'am, I believe you dropped these.