By painfulintercourse - 22/11/2010 19:36 - Canada

Spicy
Today, my doctor told me to buy some KY Jelly and a dildo to help "loosen me up" so sex isn't so painful. I haven't been able to have sex for 6 months because it hurts so badly, and now my doctor has basically told me to go fuck myself. FML
I agree, your life sucks 39 618
You deserved it 8 376

Same thing different taste

Top comments

TheB0a 5

You should get a second opinion might be something else other than you being not loose.

perdix 29

If I were your doctor, I'd tell you just to stick to oral and anal. Let me know if your national health care system up there covers physician-prescribed ******.

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phreshboi 1

why was the first comment moderated? did it say first? and also I would suggest going to him to loosen up a bit ;) haha

# 21 you called? it's not the size it's how you use it...well that's what my girlfriend tells me when I cry at night

free2speak 14

Wow. I didn't know that was even possible. I always thought that the muscles in ****** can stretch and contract enough to fit an average penis. I guess you could try to ********** using your fingers and take it slowly from there because if you can't handle an average penis then the vibrator won't be much help and I am assuming you had been having sex with lube because if not, that would explain why it hurts. I know when I started it was awfully painful and I dont produce much fluids so I had to use lube an the lube just made it sticky and even more painful so now we just use spit. I hate it but to b honest it is a lot more natural and surprisingly cleaner than using lube.

TheB0a 5

You should get a second opinion might be something else other than you being not loose.

yeah, sometimes the pain comes from a swollen cervix as a result of an infection. when something bumps into it, it hurts. a lot! definitely get checked out by another doctor.

A *****? Your doctor advised a ***** to loosen up? I don't know why, but I think you really should go to a professional. A real one. If intercourse is painful, than you have a serious problem that can't be cured with a *****. Dyspareunia, I think. A *****...djeezes.

i was told the same thing by my doctor over 5 yrs ago. I'm a petit person, I'm 4'11. (so maybe all my orifices are small)... I know for me, sex with my husband was painful for years. we tried lots of lube, different positions and toys. truthfully it only got better after i had a vaginal birth with our daughter.

bittersweets 2

Why not try the lube and ***** suggestion? It's not something dangerous where you really should get a second opinion. Just try it and if nothing changes, go for another opinion.

tktom7 6

how the **** does this apply to the post?! if you wanna see some pictures of something that's hard to believe, try looking at ur family album

perdix 29

If I were your doctor, I'd tell you just to stick to oral and anal. Let me know if your national health care system up there covers physician-prescribed ******.

Yup, that's Canadian healthcare for you. Glad to live in the U.S.

He didn't mean to hurt your feelings. Someone is butthurt.

If that's the case, then she's doing it wrong. ;).

haha I live in BC as well idk where u are but that's funny sorta... but still FYL... I hope everythings okay and it isn't anything serious

you fail gosh "hope its not anything serious" ffs she just need to put a ***** in her pussy to get it larger so it wont hurt

did you miss 13's post regarding the possibility of the pain being a symptom of something more serious? you fail for not recognising that

for something like that, unless those have already been ruled out, a second opinion would be a good idea... there are doctors out there that are not thorough enough, and make the wrong diagnoses.... I had glandular fever years ago (mono for those not familiar with the term) and my family doctor told me it was just the flu, after doing a white cell count blood test.... the university doctor also did a blood test, but it wasn't for a white cell count.... I did indeed have glandular fever.... Some doctors will be very thorough, and others just take the face value... It's not always clear at first, which is which