Actually, he actually is telling you to use more lubricant and try it, because that will actually help you if you use a ***** and lots of live, he's giving you good advice.

Love the phrasing

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Painful sex is not just something you can live with and it will go away. Go to a different dr. Yours is an asshole.

There is actually a condition were the muscles of the ****** tighten closed in response to sexual anxiety or stress. It's called Vaginismus, The Locked ****** Syndrome. This might be it. The treatment, besides counseling, is to slowly stretch out the ****** with a series of increasingly larger inserts when it happens and you want to do something fun down there. Once properly addressed, it tends to occur less and less frequently as you resume having pleasurable intercourse and become less anxious about it. Having vaginismus can be a vicious cycle. Sex was painful or frightening last time, so your muscles tighten, leading to a painful or embarrassing experience this time, which in turn creates anxiety that influences you when you try to have more experiences in the future.

No he's telling you how to make it better.