And some people have decided it's an outdated tradition and that it's okay for the woman to propose rather than waiting around forever for the guy to propose. Strange, I know.

My boyfriend turned me down with at least a "I'm not ready for that yet, but I am serious about you," when I tried. A few months later he did propose to me, though. I guess it's a lot easier when you have a good idea what the answer will be... Maybe you'll have the same luck (if you still want him, that is...) Really sucky that your guy couldn't at least pull together a respectful answer.

I know that not everyone likes tradition but most guys don't like when you take take on traditional roles they handle. Most importantly though, if he hasn't asked you it's because he's not ready. Asking him takes you out if the feminine role and won't get you desired results. You shouldn't even have to ask. He's supposed to want to take you off the market. If he hasn't then maybe you're not the one and wasting your time.

He was embarrassed she shouldn't have proposed to him. You know how embarrassing it is to have a girl propose to you? It takes away your manhood

How does she know he wasn't planning on proposing to her in the close future. Leave proposing to the guy

Major props to u. He should've said yes since ur so wonderful. But if he doesn't want it he's prob not serious for u. Move on

Well, at least he stayed. You proposed so I'm assuming you are sane and had discussed marriage with him previously. He probably had his own way of proposing in mind and hopefully he'll be ready soon. Hang in there op!

Give him time to apologise, if you get no apology have a serious talk, seems he isn't ready for marriage but that is no reason for him to be so hurtful about it. He is selfish op, I'm sorry. :(

U sounds not pushy and annoying

I would take that as a "no" then?