Family, Death and Kids: RIP

RIP

By widow - 19/10/2010 22:58 - United States

Today, I received two cards in the mail for my late husband for his birthday. He has been dead for four years now, and the cards were from our two children, who live several states away. This is the fourth time it's happened, and neither of them answer my calls. Ever. FML

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By Anonymous - 20/12/2009 11:03 - United Kingdom

Today, I sent a christmas card to my husband's uncle and aunt. I'd forgotten that the uncle died last year. FML

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Birthday Boy

By Anonymous - 07/04/2019 16:00

Today, it's my birthday, I received two cards, one from my mum and one from my son, that my mum gave to him to give to me. My entire family said they couldn't be bothered going out for dinner for my birthday. My two 'friends' didn't even send a card, never mind a gift or want to meet up. FML

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Bigmouth Strikes Again

By Username - 25/10/2010 11:03 - France

Today, it was my first day as a mailman. One of the houses got a bunch of cards, and the owner coincidentally opened the door as I arrived. So I said to the owner that someone in the house must really be popular. He replied, "She died this Tuesday." FML

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By anonymous - 15/08/2016 03:35 - United States - Bloomington

Today, I received a birthday card from my dad, over a week late. It was addressed to me using my maiden name, the enclosed check also made out to me using my maiden name. I've been married for over 10 years. FML

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By Anonymous - 26/06/2021 14:15 - United States

Today, I'm still trying not to cry. Yesterday was by birthday. I got an email from my dad with three words, "Happy Birthday (nickname)". I got a Facebook post from my mother. No card. No phone call. No gift. I have become nothing more than a Facebook friend to my parents. FML

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Supportive

By Anonymous - 14/08/2022 18:00 - Australia

Today, it's my husband's funeral. My adult children never made it secret that they didn't like him, but I'd hoped they'd come to support me. Their replies when I asked them went from, "You know I hated him", to "No, I have work", to "I'm not going anywhere near that fanatic's church." FML

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Harsh

By SkipBeatOtaku - 29/08/2020 23:02

Today, my estranged father died. No one bothered to tell me, and the only reason I found out was because his wife texted my sister. When I asked about the service, I was told I was no welcome in the state he had lived in, because I was no longer family. FML

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By nochance - 05/03/2009 16:06 - United States

Today, I received a card in the mail. It was from my vet's office. Written inside was "We send our sympathy during this trying time." I haven't been home in three days. I can't find my dog and my mother won't talk about it. My dog was 7. She hated that dog. FML

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By Anonymous - 21/11/2015 13:47 - United States - Kenosha

Today, my deadbeat dad threatened to press charges against me for harassment if I ever contact him again. I've contacted him twice in the last two years, once to tell him he was going to be a grandfather, and once to send him a birthday card from my son. FML

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Thanks for reminding me

By Anonymous - 02/04/2022 18:00

Today, my son's school called and made a comment about only calling me because my wife didn’t answer her phone. My wife is dead. It’s in his record that his mom is dead, and yet they still tried to call her before me, because I suppose dads aren’t real parents like moms are. FML

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pwincessa23 1

Wednesday 20 October 2010 9:03

Wow. I'm so sorry

FerrariCake 2

Wednesday 20 October 2010 9:13

Set up a Facebook page for your dead husband and set his status to "deceased". Then send them both a friend request. Maybe they'll accept and see his status and finally get the message.

Comments

Charlotteeexx 0

Wednesday 20 October 2010 19:09

that's really sad

chobitschibi1369 0

Wednesday 20 October 2010 21:06

Those are not kids, ma'am. Those are inconsiderate little brats that should not even send cards. FYL for sure.

Farion 7

Wednesday 20 October 2010 21:19

At least they send cards.

peachezthelette 22

Wednesday 20 October 2010 21:30

My dad still gets mail..

Hunterchick85 0

Wednesday 20 October 2010 21:32

Ever heard of leaving a voicemail or calling from a different number

Sparx1_1 16

Wednesday 20 October 2010 21:54

Step 1: Write "deceased - return to sender" on the envelop and put it back in the mail. Step 2: whatever problem you're having with your kids - fix it instead of sitting there feeling sorry for yourself.

jaded_gal 0

Wednesday 20 October 2010 22:13

I'm sorry for you, that sucks. next time you call, leave them a message calmly explaining why your late husband doesn't need to receive anymore birthday cards. then charge your voice to full volume, let both of them know in no uncertain terms that they can go **** themselves, that obviously they are both behaving like massive assbags to be so callous to send him cards when they know he's dead (I'm assuming), then tell them to eat your ass. I bet you they call you back after that! fyl.