Family, Death and Kids: RIP

RIP

By widow - 19/10/2010 22:58 - United States

Today, I received two cards in the mail for my late husband for his birthday. He has been dead for four years now, and the cards were from our two children, who live several states away. This is the fourth time it's happened, and neither of them answer my calls. Ever. FML

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By Anonymous - 20/12/2009 11:03 - United Kingdom

Today, I sent a christmas card to my husband's uncle and aunt. I'd forgotten that the uncle died last year. FML

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Birthday Boy

By Anonymous - 07/04/2019 16:00

Today, it's my birthday, I received two cards, one from my mum and one from my son, that my mum gave to him to give to me. My entire family said they couldn't be bothered going out for dinner for my birthday. My two 'friends' didn't even send a card, never mind a gift or want to meet up. FML

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Bigmouth Strikes Again

By Username - 25/10/2010 11:03 - France

Today, it was my first day as a mailman. One of the houses got a bunch of cards, and the owner coincidentally opened the door as I arrived. So I said to the owner that someone in the house must really be popular. He replied, "She died this Tuesday." FML

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By anonymous - 15/08/2016 03:35 - United States - Bloomington

Today, I received a birthday card from my dad, over a week late. It was addressed to me using my maiden name, the enclosed check also made out to me using my maiden name. I've been married for over 10 years. FML

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By Anonymous - 26/06/2021 14:15 - United States

Today, I'm still trying not to cry. Yesterday was by birthday. I got an email from my dad with three words, "Happy Birthday (nickname)". I got a Facebook post from my mother. No card. No phone call. No gift. I have become nothing more than a Facebook friend to my parents. FML

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You deserved it 222

Supportive

By Anonymous - 14/08/2022 18:00 - Australia

Today, it's my husband's funeral. My adult children never made it secret that they didn't like him, but I'd hoped they'd come to support me. Their replies when I asked them went from, "You know I hated him", to "No, I have work", to "I'm not going anywhere near that fanatic's church." FML

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You deserved it 1 155

Harsh

By SkipBeatOtaku - 29/08/2020 23:02

Today, my estranged father died. No one bothered to tell me, and the only reason I found out was because his wife texted my sister. When I asked about the service, I was told I was no welcome in the state he had lived in, because I was no longer family. FML

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You deserved it 333

By nochance - 05/03/2009 16:06 - United States

Today, I received a card in the mail. It was from my vet's office. Written inside was "We send our sympathy during this trying time." I haven't been home in three days. I can't find my dog and my mother won't talk about it. My dog was 7. She hated that dog. FML

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By Anonymous - 21/11/2015 13:47 - United States - Kenosha

Today, my deadbeat dad threatened to press charges against me for harassment if I ever contact him again. I've contacted him twice in the last two years, once to tell him he was going to be a grandfather, and once to send him a birthday card from my son. FML

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Thanks for reminding me

By Anonymous - 02/04/2022 18:00

Today, my son's school called and made a comment about only calling me because my wife didn’t answer her phone. My wife is dead. It’s in his record that his mom is dead, and yet they still tried to call her before me, because I suppose dads aren’t real parents like moms are. FML

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pwincessa23 1

Wednesday 20 October 2010 9:03

Wow. I'm so sorry

FerrariCake 2

Wednesday 20 October 2010 9:13

Set up a Facebook page for your dead husband and set his status to "deceased". Then send them both a friend request. Maybe they'll accept and see his status and finally get the message.

Comments

Syriangrl 0

Friday 22 October 2010 7:42

I'm sorry. I would return the cards in the mail.

Syriangrl 0

Friday 22 October 2010 7:42

I'm sorry. I would return the cards in the mail.

iluvme4never 0

Friday 22 October 2010 7:57

wow, that's really depressing. i'm sorry :(

missytessemma 0

Saturday 23 October 2010 14:11

if they are that ignorant that they don't return your calls leave them a very awakening voice mail

starberries 0

Saturday 23 October 2010 23:07

If your children won't speak to you there's probably a very good reason. Go to hell.

rpri214 0

Monday 25 October 2010 1:03

omg that's seriously sad

Jay_JWLH 0

Wednesday 27 October 2010 4:06

About time you got through to them, don't you think?

AddyMilla 0

Friday 29 October 2010 10:38

i agree with #2 and like #9! send them mail back! but maybe they dont leave a return address? if so i am really sorry that your kids are being idiots to their mother.

AddyMilla 0

Friday 29 October 2010 10:41

102, my father kept me while my mother did drugs even though they had court ordered custody, mom lived in a diff state. even thoughshe did that crap, i still loved and contacted her.