I didn't know which to vote. I've been there. They're not all liars and skanks.

Whoaa. Cheating is never ok. It is totally unfair to the spouse and in this case, mother of their child. Now if you have talked this over with your wife and have some sort of understanding that you can sleep with whoever you want then that's one thing, but if your spouse has no idea then it is completely 100% wrong. Just because you have made it clear to the other woman that you are married is not ok, your wife would have to be ok with you sleeping around. And if this is an agreement you both have than why even be married.

You waited till the third date before you did any sort of research?

I would find the wife and tell her what her husband is up to

That's what you get for waiting until the third date to do some basic online research.

I love your sarcasm. Lol.

How can you go on three dates with somebody without searching him on Facebook? That's the first thing I would do ...

Always check who your dating. Do some creeping.

Oh my gosh, I feel so sorry for you! I could understand not wanting to spoil your image of him by holding out on a Facebook search. It's not like you get everyone's first and last name on the first meeting anyway.

Not-so lovely anymore!