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Hopefully you plan on having a serious talk with him. Unfortunately there's a good chance it won't work out and he's just going to come up with an excuse. I wish you the best, OP. you deserve better <3

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Before you jump straight to the obvious conclusion, consider that many profiles on dating sites are set up by scammers using stolen photos. You need to check this out. Don't say anything you can't unsay till you're sure it's really him. Many scammers are from foreign countries and their English is a little 'off'. Maybe set up a fake profile and send a message. See what he says. If he arranges a meeting, go - and confront him. But have a friend nearby in case it goes pear-shaped, or someone other than him turns up.

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OP can just find out if he has to go somewhere on the day of the planned meeting, at that time....instead of risking showing up herself. And he doesn't seem to have anywhere he needs to be, then it might be best to notify the police instead.

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  species4872

Is that from experience?

Be wary, but don't jump to conclusions. It's possible that it's a scammer, his sibling/"friend" trying to play a prank on him, etc. If there has been no recent activity and/or the account is very old, it might be even an account he made before you got together, and he has entirely forgotten about.

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I've always found those people 'only looking for friends' on dating sites are full of it. It's a dating site. Make friends on Meetup, or Facebook, or at school or work.

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excuses, excuses.. There are much better ways to meet and find a friend. Yah ever heard of actually going outside? Go volunteer, attend a Tea with Strangers meetup, connect with old friends you haven't seen in a while... so many possibilities, if you only look around.

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