Today, I told my girlfriend of 2 years that I was sexually abused as a kid. She was only the third person I've told. She reacted by breaking up with me because I "might do something" to her kids. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, I told my girlfriend that I'm breaking up with her because she's very abusive. After a couple of seconds of awkward silence, she kicked me in the nuts and ran away. FML
Today, my girlfriend broke up with me after finding out my parents are divorced. Same reason my last three girlfriends broke up with me. FML
Today, my girlfriend broke up with me after 3 years. Why, do you ask? Turns out her dad used to bully my dad in highschool and my dad kicked his ass after all this time and sent him to the hospital. FML
Today, my girlfriend broke up with me telling me I have problems communicating and that I didn't understand her. When I asked her why she didn't talk to me about this before she said "I didn't want to talk about it." FML
Today, my girlfriend broke up with me because "we don't communicate enough". She got her friend to tell me this for her. FML
Today, my girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She wants to try dating women. This is the second time this has happened to me. FML
Today, as things were getting hot with my girlfriend, it came up that I'm a virgin. She broke up with me. FML
Today, I told my wife I wanted a divorce. I haven’t been in love with her for a long time and I've fallen in love with a girl at my job. When I told her this, she responded with, “No, fuck that, we're going to couples' therapy and you are gonna be a father to our kids!” I guess that’s a “No.” FML
Today, I took my girlfriend of 3 years out to where we had our first date. I proposed to her. She breaks down in tears as she tells me she's been sleeping with her co-worker for the past year. FML
Today, my girlfriend broke up with me because I was too tired for sex, which she interpreted as me confessing to not wanting to have sex with her because I’m having sex with other women. FML
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bernzz 0
what a insensitive bitch
FFML_314 12
Abuse is a horribly traumatic thing to endure at any point in your life. I'm sorry OP that you had to go through that. I hope the person that hurt you is rotting in jail or in hell. I have 0 tolerance for abusers. I hate people that make excuses for someone that's abusive. You shouldn't be able to walk this earth if you allow such evil to escape from your body! I have dealt with so many sex offenders and it makes me sick to think about the things these people would do. Your girlfriend is obviously being insensitive, but she may just be scared.
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Comments (386)
AK69_fml 9
this is precisely the reason you dont tell people stuff about you
Celestia1982 5
#76, so we should all go through life hiding our essential selves from everyone, including our family, significant others, and closest friends? Sounds awfully lonely...
Benjaminator 0
I am in the same boat as you i.e. it happened to me too, although the girlfriend I told was a lot more sensitive and caring. I have heard that there is a higher chance of it happening; but this bitch is out of line.
unilpentium 0
Please, someone, anyone, tell give me a single reason how this could ever be a YDI.
Invioletlight 0
Insensitive and already has kids with some other dude? Sounds like you dodged a bullet, man.
HappyPickles 11
Wow. So unfair on so many levels. The sad fact is that statistics show a large majority of abusers were abused themselves. So the GF is "right" in that way to protect her children. But ... the statistics show a majority - not every one. So OP gets a double whammy - abused with no say or control over it - and then marked for life as a "potential" abuser himself as a result. It just gets worse and worse! I've certainly never been abused, but I have been unjustly accused of being a "potential" abuser (I'm male, have a dick, and am therefore apparently a potential abuser...) and I know how hurt and angry that made me feel. I can't begin to conceive how OP feels about all this. Thanks for sharing - you will find someone that can take you and see you and believe in you as you are - not just the potential result of your past. Keep faith OP.
Elly99 0
"The sad fact is that statistics show a large majority of abusers were abused themselves. So the GF is "right" in that way to protect her children. But ... the statistics show a majority - not every one." I'm not sure how to convey to you how absurdly stupid you are. The majority of abusers were abused. THE MAJORITY OF THE ABUSED DO NOT TURN INTO ABUSERS. Do you understand how that works?
joeinthedark 18
All roosters are chickens, but not all chickens are roosters. Pretty straight forward logic.
trogdoorknob 0
you know what you must do. spit acid at her
brey_fml 0
baha. that's horrible op:(
Domonator 16
Draegoncode, I feel for you. I am also happy for you because it sounds like you are doing things to prevent your life from being f***d by what happened in the past. You are coming to grips with what happened, you are in therapy, and you are telling others about it. If she left you, then she wasn't the one for you. You will find someone who can know you and trust you. Good luck, and keep on your good path.
triggerit 5
be a man keep this horror in your heart... do not fear your friends...
RoadDoggCR 0
is she that stupid?