Today, a girl I've been casually seeing just gave me the, "You're a great guy, but I'm not ready for a relationship" speech. A few hours later, I see a video in a group chat of her making out and laughing with another guy, while my other friends just watched and laughed. I'm just done trying, why am I always getting shit on? FML
Collection
Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, I got rejected by a girl I was talking to. We had mutual feelings, and I waited a long time for her to be single again. We talked, made out, and now she has gotten into another relationship, acting like she doesn't like me anymore… but still wants to be friends? FML
Today, the guy I had to let go because he told me he didn’t “want a relationship or anything serious” started becoming exclusive with someone else. This is the fourth guy this has happened with. What’s wrong with me? Why am I not good enough to date? FML
Today, I had a date with a woman I had been talking to for a month. We hit it off, the date went fantastic, and we agreed to see each other again. Fast forward a few hours and I'm told she decided to pursue someone else, equates it to "bad timing", but wants to be friends. If not for bad luck, I'd have no luck. FML
Today, after talking to a girl for a little over a month, and both of us saying we liked each other and FaceTiming each other for multiple hours each day, she told me I’m “too easy to talk to” and friendzoned me. FML
Today, the person I was seeing asked to be just friends. A few hours later, they tried to talk me into having sex. FML
Today, the woman who wanted a relationship, sent me heart kisses multiple times a day every day, and claimed that everything was perfect, bailed on me after I asked her if she could fit in one more than the current four days a month we see each other. FML
Today, I decided to break up with my girlfriend. I sat her down and gave her the speech. She broke down in tears and said, “Why does every guy always abandon me? Why am I never good enough?” I felt so bad for her that I took back the breakup and we’re still together now. FML
Today, the girl I’ve been crushing over for so long told me that I’m a great guy and a catch, but then went on to tell me all about the other guy she’s been sleeping with. FML.
Today, I once again listened as the girl I've loved for the past three years ranted about how she’s gonna be single forever and give up on dating. She asked, “Isn’t there one guy out there, just ONE GUY who will love me and cherish me?” When I brought up that I, once again, would love to do so, she rejected me; AGAIN. FML
Today, a girl I was dating broke up with me for her previous fling. She was scared of committing to a relationship, even though she ended it with him for me. But now she would rather be with this other guy in secret, who is married, and has no plans on being with her for long term. FML
Feel like sharing it with the other FML users?
Thanks, your FML was submitted, and will appear in the moderation queue soon!
Top comments
Nikki 17
Maybe she just didn’t want a relationship and didn’t owe you anything and it’s nice of her to tell you before hooking up with someone else
Crowned Sataness 12
you're failing to understand what casual means. casual is no commitment no strings. people date casually because they don't want a commitment
Add a comment · Reply to
You must be logged in to be able to post comments!
Comments (10)
Crowned Sataness 12
you're failing to understand what casual means. casual is no commitment no strings. people date casually because they don't want a commitment
Nikki 17
Maybe she just didn’t want a relationship and didn’t owe you anything and it’s nice of her to tell you before hooking up with someone else
Lora Wood 11
Be happy you are young and have fun. Expand your horizons, volunteer some where. Then when you least expect it some girl pick you. Good Luck.
And1 12
She was being polite. Just move on…
Silver_helmet 10
Typical polite refusal. Sorry but she has no obligation to date you, at least you did not get just ghosted (which is rude). So move on, maybe try to be less of a 'nice guy'.
Brightside86 31
Relationships are a numbers game, be glad she pulled this now and not after you'd wasted more time investing in her.
RichardPencil 32
Put on your big boy pants! You weren't shat upon. Someone you are "casually seeing" can make out with whomever else they want, and so can you. Move on.
IHaveThePower 18
Have you considered that no one wants to date you because you feel entitled to a girl?
Hangryko 32
If this really keeps happening to you, it's time to consider that you're the problem. Time for self reflection.