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Anonymous Arcata, United States

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Today, a girl I was dating broke up with me for her previous fling. She was scared of committing to a relationship, even though she ended it with him for me. But now she would rather be with this other guy in secret, who is married, and has no plans on being with her for long term. FML

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Her fear of commitment is exactly why she has gone back to her former boyfriend; there will never be any expectation from him to commit. He’s ‘safe’ when it comes to her fears.

It’s best to end things now rather than years down the road when you are fully committed in the relationship. Go and don’t look back.

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Her fear of commitment is exactly why she has gone back to her former boyfriend; there will never be any expectation from him to commit. He’s ‘safe’ when it comes to her fears.

^ 100% this. OP, if she is this scared of commitment, don’t even fret over her - she truly isn’t worth it.

It’s best to end things now rather than years down the road when you are fully committed in the relationship. Go and don’t look back.

Where did you find this lovely human? You don't want to get stuck with trash like that. Just "hit it and quit it" and move on.

Life's too short. Don't get back with her and spend years figuring out you're with her by default. Don't ask how I know.