Today, the guy I had to let go because he told me he didn’t “want a relationship or anything serious” started becoming exclusive with someone else. This is the fourth guy this has happened with. What’s wrong with me? Why am I not good enough to date? FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, a guy I had developed feelings for broke things off with me, giving me a version of the “it’s not you, it’s me” line. This was the first person I had liked/wanted to date in almost 8 years. I think I’m destined to be alone. FML
Today, the guy I’ve been in love with for almost a year, who told me he “wasn’t in the right headspace” for a relationship is actually dating some girl. Every time I try to get close to a guy, they make up excuses. I’m starting to lose faith in love and think I’ll never be good enough for anyone. FML
Today, the man I love chose yet another woman over me. For months and months on end I’ve been trying to make him see that I would make a great girlfriend and life companion, yet he dismisses me and chooses other people. What do they have that I don’t? What do I have to do to be good enough? FML
Today, a girl I've been casually seeing just gave me the, "You're a great guy, but I'm not ready for a relationship" speech. A few hours later, I see a video in a group chat of her making out and laughing with another guy, while my other friends just watched and laughed. I'm just done trying, why am I always getting shit on? FML
Today, it seems that my four previous girlfriends all left me because they found better, more attractive, more wealthy, more interesting men. My entire love life feels like I’m the warm up act for the main event of other dudes getting laid. FML
Today, a guy I went on a few dates with and was looking forward to seeing again this Wednesday told me he is not sure he sees this going anywhere. This always happens and I have no idea what I am doing wrong. I have lost hope in finding a boyfriend ever. FML
Today, I found out that the man I’ve been dating for four months still isn’t over his ex and that’s why he doesn’t want to make it official between us. FML
Today, a guy I was into and who denied me because he “saw me as a friend only” began to date another girl. I asked him, “Why her and not me?” and he wouldn’t tell me. After pestering him, he finally caved in, saying, “Fine, plus sized girls are not my thing. Happy now?” So in other words, I have to lose weight to find love. FML
Today, the guy I was seeing told me it wasn’t gonna work out and that he wished me the best. Apparently I acted “too desperate” for his liking. Gee, I’m sorry, but I guess showing basic decency like buying you a birthday present, buying you lunch everyday, and allowing you to use my Netflix, AKA being loving, is too much. FML
Today, I realized that every guy I get with or try a relationship with always ghosts me or friendzones me, and chooses to date someone else. It’s been a repetitive pattern for the past three years or so. I think I’m just going to adopt a bunch of pets and forget dating altogether. FML
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Top comments
RichardPencil 32
How the **** should we know? We'll need to see some pics and learn about your personality and intelligence before we can pass judgment, um, I mean, provide constructive criticism for your benefit.
Brightside86 31
Interesting, do you really not know? I feel like most people project their deal breakers so extravagantly you can see them from space. Maybe ask a friend who can be honest with you, if you're actually willing to change something.
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RichardPencil 32
How the **** should we know? We'll need to see some pics and learn about your personality and intelligence before we can pass judgment, um, I mean, provide constructive criticism for your benefit.
molly009 2
I’m here if you ever need someone
Brightside86 31
Interesting, do you really not know? I feel like most people project their deal breakers so extravagantly you can see them from space. Maybe ask a friend who can be honest with you, if you're actually willing to change something.
D J's MOM 17
you obviously have potential or no one would want to be with you to begin with. maybe it's just that you lack self confidence and possibly come across as a little desperate. work on yourself first. once you're happy with yourself and being alone, they'll come to you, the worthy ones anyway...
lalalaila777 24
compatibility matters
Pink_Turnips 14
i would ask a male family member, as they have no sexual interest in you. friends of both sexes will most likely lie in some way