Today, after talking to a girl for a little over a month, and both of us saying we liked each other and FaceTiming each other for multiple hours each day, she told me I’m “too easy to talk to” and friendzoned me. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I had a date with a woman I had been talking to for a month. We hit it off, the date went fantastic, and we agreed to see each other again. Fast forward a few hours and I'm told she decided to pursue someone else, equates it to "bad timing", but wants to be friends. If not for bad luck, I'd have no luck. FML
Today, the woman I thought I had friend-zoned dumped me because she has "met someone new." I really like her as a friend but felt zero attraction, so after one date I went out of my way not to give off the wrong signals when talking or meeting. It turns out she thought I was on my way out of the "relationship" anyway. FML
Today, I got rejected by a girl I was talking to. We had mutual feelings, and I waited a long time for her to be single again. We talked, made out, and now she has gotten into another relationship, acting like she doesn't like me anymore… but still wants to be friends? FML
Today, the girl I’ve had a crush on for months told me she scored a Tinder date and she’s so excited to go out with him. Just last week, I worked up the courage to ask her to be my girlfriend and she told me she doesn’t want a relationship, and “doesn’t believe in love anymore.” FML
Today, I was cuddling with the girl I've been seeing for the past few months. She was saying how much she liked me and how much I meant to her. Reciprocating those feelings, I asked her to be my girlfriend. It was a HARD no for her. Then she drove me an hour and a half home. FML
Today, the girl I really thought I had feelings for told me she kissed me on the cheek because I’m a sweet person, but she doesn’t want to be my partner. FML
Today, I proposed. She immediately said no and then broke up with me. FML
Today, I finally told the girl I'm in love with how I've felt ever since we first met six years ago. She let me know that not only does she not feel the same way, she's always considered me a creep and only ever hung out with me because of our mutual friends. FML
Today, the woman who wanted a relationship, sent me heart kisses multiple times a day every day, and claimed that everything was perfect, bailed on me after I asked her if she could fit in one more than the current four days a month we see each other. FML
Today, I went out to dinner with the girl of my dreams. Wanting to get to know her, I asked her what she’s looking for in a relationship. She scoffed and said how relationships are for the weak and that it’s better to not catch feelings to avoid being hurt. I guess I don’t have a chance. FML
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Chazzster 32
In the USA there was a common line “It’s not you, it’s me” that was a way of trying to break up without hurting the other person’s feelings. Now another perspective in essentially the same thing is “friend zone”… It matters less what reason she said than the fact that the two of you just didn’t have the chemistry for her. And frankly there is nothing that you can or should do to change that. All you can do is to move on and find another possible partner who will be as interested in you as you are in them. Human relationships are complicated and there has to be a compatibility on both parts for it to work. But despite what some might say, there is no “one love of my life” there are only people who are more or less compatible with each other - That means that if a relationship doesn’t work out there are other possibilities out there. But focusing your attention on one person who has told you that they don’t find you appealing only keeps you from eventually finding someone who will value you for who you are as will you value them for being themselves… So move on from this relationship that was not to be and don’t spend any more time pursuing them. But look carefully at yourself and talk to a hopefully, brutally honest, friend who will tell you if there are minor things about the way you present yourself that could be polished up a little. We need to be ourselves and be honest about who we are, but you need to show your best qualities without being a braggart or self-centered which is highly negative.
cuz803 46
Life goes on. Since she friendzoned you, she provides little to know value to you anymore so I'd ignore her. Maybe block her if it's mentally stressful to you. Move on and keep doing you.
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cuz803 46
Life goes on. Since she friendzoned you, she provides little to know value to you anymore so I'd ignore her. Maybe block her if it's mentally stressful to you. Move on and keep doing you.
Chazzster 32
In the USA there was a common line “It’s not you, it’s me” that was a way of trying to break up without hurting the other person’s feelings. Now another perspective in essentially the same thing is “friend zone”… It matters less what reason she said than the fact that the two of you just didn’t have the chemistry for her. And frankly there is nothing that you can or should do to change that. All you can do is to move on and find another possible partner who will be as interested in you as you are in them. Human relationships are complicated and there has to be a compatibility on both parts for it to work. But despite what some might say, there is no “one love of my life” there are only people who are more or less compatible with each other - That means that if a relationship doesn’t work out there are other possibilities out there. But focusing your attention on one person who has told you that they don’t find you appealing only keeps you from eventually finding someone who will value you for who you are as will you value them for being themselves… So move on from this relationship that was not to be and don’t spend any more time pursuing them. But look carefully at yourself and talk to a hopefully, brutally honest, friend who will tell you if there are minor things about the way you present yourself that could be polished up a little. We need to be ourselves and be honest about who we are, but you need to show your best qualities without being a braggart or self-centered which is highly negative.
RichardPencil 32
A little less conversation, a little more action, please. She probably concluded that you are all talk, no action.