By thenewgirl29 - 05/02/2015 16:42 - Canada - Sherwood Park

Today, the guy I've been seeing for a few months told me he couldn't stay overnight because his mom would yell at him for not coming home. We're both 30 and I didn't know he still lived at home. FML
I agree, your life sucks 35 553
You deserved it 4 217

Same thing different taste

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The yelling is an excuse. He actually needs to be tucked into bed with his favorite teddy bear and read a bedtime story by mom.

There's a reason he was single when you met him apparently :p

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hugozac88 22

Oh living with ones parents is a deal breaker??!! I thought it showed commitment..lol

JustinJK 21

I think him being worried about being yelled at for staying the night is the problem

there is a chance he works away from home and can't be bothered to rent a place he won't be living in half the time. cheaper to stay with family. or she may be sick and need him at home

I feel like that should have been discovered by now...that still sucks though, sorry op

There's a reason he was single when you met him apparently :p

Well everyone is single before you start dating them so that logic makes no sense at all.

The yelling is an excuse. He actually needs to be tucked into bed with his favorite teddy bear and read a bedtime story by mom.

"I'll love you forever, I'll like you for always, As long as I'm living my baby you'll be."

orbit 22

"Soft kitty, warm kitty, little ball of fur"

Am I the only one thinking that his "mom" is his wife. If he doesn't come home, there will be hell to pay!

I think you should start seeing new people

Fantastic parenting. Note the sarcasm.

Isn't like he can't leave at any given time. Looks like OP has a stage 5 momma cling-on.

Actually, that was super ******* shallow of me. There's so many factors or possibilities... Could be married, mom could be unwell and he cares for her, he or his mom may not be financially able to support themselves alone.

#63/64 - The first person to ever correct their comment.

64- you're totally right that there could be a valid reason for him to be living with his mom, but to be worried about getting in trouble for not coming home at age 30? No. That's not normal. Either he's lying/making excuses to OP for one reason or another, which is a pretty big red flag, or he's telling the truth in which case he needs to grow up and stand up to his mother, and she needs to learn to let go. Either way, not the best situation to get involved in...