They're totally right it's supposed to be the other way around, she takes your last name. Ps she probably thinks your a wimp too and my crystal ball tells me there going to be trouble down the line.....

People are upset when they don't have sons for a reason. You can't ******* cheat the system like that. Totally agree with your family dude.

Lol! Dumbass.

Be a man Stan

Dude,you are more of a man than any guy I know. This just means you put your feelings first,not your frustrations. It means that you are a self-confident man without the need to prove your masculinity with trivial and cave man acting. BRAVO!!!

If you want to change your last name to hers go for it. But there are also other ways. Two aunts I have are the only children in her family, both of them kept their last names but my uncles kept theirs. And their children, one a set of twins with one of each last name, and the other a single child with my aunt's last name. So you don't have to change it if you don't want to. If you do then power to you! Ignore your family and do what makes you feel happy.

Eh, don't listen to them OP. My friend's husband did that, though I think it was to avoid a stalker ex lol

That's really noble of you. Don't listen to your dumb ass family who can't understand why your doing it

I don't get the people acting like this is a "noble" thing to do. Do you even realize where the whole taking your spouse's last name came from? It's a medieval thing. Property was passed down along paternal lines, thus the wife taking the husband's name. The few times a matrilineal marriage took place, it was because the wife was of a higher rank in the nobility than the male, a duchess marrying a count for example. These days, the sharing of the last names means nothing and there is nothing noble, on either the male or female side, about it.

At least your getting pussy, ask them whens the last they got laid?