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It would be even more wrong if OP's bestfriend saw this FML and thinks "Oh my boyfriend would never do that, such douches, i would never date one of them!" then later today OP tells her bestfriend the bad news.

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  oneFUCKINword  |  8

If it were me, id be trying to catch him with another girl. If he slept with you OP his probably sleeping with other girls too. Catch him with another girl, tell the best friend, she finds out what an ass he is, and the friendship remains intacts. Win win. :)

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  starsfan_9  |  7

If she's really your friend, you owe it to her to tell her. If OP didn't know he had a girlfriend when she slept with him, she really has nothing to hide. Not to mention, that douchebag deserves to be caught

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I think the easiest way to let her know without her knowing who it is would be put a letter In her mail box or a note on her car.

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  your_face  |  15

63 - Easiest, not best. OP, you have to tell her. If he passed himself off as single, she can't blame you, it just shows you guys have similar taste! She might get mad, but she'll realize it wasn't your fault. Of course, there's a possibility you knew he had a girlfriend, and slept with him anyway because you didn't think you'd know her. In that case you're a b**ch and deserve to lose your best friend.

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  starflyer59  |  17

well for starters, they're best friends. most of the time, best friends know each other's boyfriends/girlfriends. I hate to say it, but I'm thinking OP just lost a friend. I expect the thumbs down, but here's my reasoning: I'm a girl. and we all know girls don't think clearly when they're upset or hurt. especially in cases like this... she's going to flip out. but another thing, since they're best friends, they probably have been thru a lot of stuff already. maybe they can work thru it; maybe not. my bet is going towards this is a friendship destroyer.

By  RedPillSucks  |  30

Well, if he did something egregious, you might want to let her know, otherwise, stay out of it.

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  onlychildFTW  |  33

The friend does deserve to know. If OPs friend really likes this guy and he does has one night stands then he isn't really committed to the relationship and OPs friend needs to know. It'll be a horribly awkward thing but it has to be done for her friends sake.

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  Squeaky_Tomato  |  14

62 it might not be a monotonous relationship, however I've never met a person in an open relationship who thinks that "open" means "sticking my dick in any bag I want (or vis versa)"

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  downtime  |  12

62, I agree completely. This could quite possibly be an open relationship and therefore he did nothing wrong. I don't however understand why it being an open relationship negates the need to tell their friend...She doesn't know that they're in such a relationship, of course she needs to tell the girl.

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  citymayer  |  7

Although its possible, I think it's highly unlikely. I'm sure OP would have known if it was an open relationship. They are best friends after all. And if that was the case, then there wouldn't be an FML

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  Haven74  |  6

70- I think the word you're looking for is monogamous... It doesn't (usually) become monotonous til you've been married for several years and a few kids have been thrown in the mix, hindering the social life/quality alone time.

By  hateifyouwant  |  3

Pfft...why would you have a one night stand with a douchebag? That's just a poor choice. Altho still a better choice than having a three month relationship with one...

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  downtime  |  12

I think their idiotic point was that you shouldn't have one night stands with people you don't know. Effectively negating the point of the one night stand, and suggesting that only committed monogamous relationships are acceptable.

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  hateifyouwant  |  3

Congrats. Completely wrong. I really couldn't care less if people have one night stands. Committed relationships aren't for everyone. I was just kind of thinking that if you have a one night stand with someone and he turns out to be an asshat you can't really complain since you didn't bother to find out before. But thanks for getting your panties in a twist over it :-)

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  downtime  |  12

...Yes, that is almost exactly what I said. So, completely wrong might not be the best term. Perhaps "Congratulations, you've interpreted my point" would have been better suited?

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  hateifyouwant  |  3

nope not quite. because as i said before i never said you shouldnt have one night stands. theres absolutely nothing wrong with them. I just think if youre going to have them you maybe shouldnt have high expectations of the person youre having them with.

By  JessalynVictoria  |  6

Damn what a predicament. I would hope to God that if I was on the other side of that situation, my friend would tell me... Let her know. If she gets mad, she will eventually understand you were just trying to save her the heart ache later.

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