Squirting and peeing aren't the same thing....

I have encountered multiple partners who ****** better while holding a bladder. I would also note that I, personally, am not troubled in the slightest by that, and honestly really quite enjoy them skipping the 'holding' part when they're ready to do so - I'd note that the first woman I admitted this to responded "you'd be surprised how many men feel the same way" (naturally, the vast majority are unwilling to admit it to other men, but being willing to publicly admit it is the thing that makes me unusual, not the enjoyment thereof) But to my mind, the correct response to such possibilities is a strategically placed well folded towel so the bed is still decently serviceable afterwards, not to worry about it. Well, or, given I have a futon mattress lying around that has already ... suffered ... have the sex on that, and then retire to the actual bed afterwards while it dries out. I am sorry if this wasn't what OP had in mind, but there are plenty of men out there who either wouldn't care or would actively appreciate such things, and I am genuinely sorry that she encountered one she otherwise liked who wasn't either of those ... but still. I hope she finds what she's looking for.