Dammit

By Lvdkinda - 18/06/2009 18:34 - United States

Today, after a month of planning, I started to tease my boyfriend of 3 years about the wonderful anniversary plans I had made for us. It was a secret, so I let him try and guess. He said, "As long as it's not a spa day. That would suck, I'd never go." It's a spa day. That I've already paid for. FML
I agree, your life sucks 42 591
You deserved it 26 572

Same thing different taste

Top comments

FYL for already paying for it, but YDI for not knowing what he likes.

Take your best friend and get him something else and just don't tell him about your original idea. It's not that big of a deal. P.S. You'd think after 3 years you'd know if he liked spa days or not.

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You're not married and you tried to get him to go to a spa with you? Why didn't you just have an anniversary dinner or go to Hawaii like normal people and not treat your love interest as "just another girlfriend"?

jasey_rae 0

it sucks that you wasted the money but after three years you should know him better. honestly you should have gotten to know him better after all this time.

Hmmmm... after three years together you don't know he doesn't like going to the spa? Either you're totally self-absorbed, ignorant, or this "FML" (like 90% on this site) is total bullshit.

wwhatnext 0

why would you get your BOYfriend and yourself a spa day gift? You should have known better than to get anything to do with a spa for your boyfriend. also, is it something you really thought he would enjoy? or did you actually want it for yourself and found this as a reason to go to a spa?

fmlforever_2 0

ur stupid youve been with this dude for 3 years and u dont know that he doesnt like the spa and wat guy wants to go to a spa? only gay guys go to the spa stupid! ydi

hmm i'm a straight guy - i'll take a spa day! real men like to be pampered :)

Sorry but YDI. I don't know a single guy that goes to a spa or would even consider it, lmao

emmexox 0

Why would a man go to the spa??

MakeMeAnonymous 0

YDI...why would you think a guy would like a spa day??

im really shocked by people. i know lots of guys that like massages and spas (and they're not gay, but i salute you all for stereotyping quite well). No, he probably wouldn't do that w/ his friends, but it's something for them to enjoy as a couple and to relax together. we're all so busy and stressed all the time all she was doing was trying to relax and spend some time together. i think she picked something good to do for a couple and those saying she should've known he didn't like spas...how? they've obviously never been. In fact, I've never been and i have no idea if the person im dating likes them either. but like the others said, take a gf and find something else to do