Love sucks. Same exact thing happened to me. That year of college was pure hell, and I eventually moved out as they got engaged last year :/ I'm the maid of honor, and I'm still completly in love with him.

Then the threesomes will be awesome! They can be awkward if the other girl is not really into the guy. You won't have that pesky problem.

you can so be in love with him if you dont go out with him .. dumb ass

And you don't think snatching someone else's partner from under their nose is violating rights? Not only are you treating the former like shit, you're treating the partner like an object or prize, and you are completely disregarding both of their feelings because you are selfishly putting yourself above them. YOUR MENTALITY IS YOUR WAY OF THINKING. Dictionary: men·tal·i·ty (mĕn-tăl'ĭ-tē) 1.Cast or turn of mind: a vindictive mentality. 2.The sum of a person's intellectual capabilities or endowment. Oh, and, okay, so you can go out and **** five guys in a week because you're totally in love with each of them, eh? It doesn't matter how sick in mind someone is, though, what you SAID was that you CAN NOT tell a person what they feel isn't love just because you don't agree. Since it is their OPINION, regardless of their state of mind, that they are IN LOVE and aren't going too far, it is OKAY for them to rape and stalk. THAT is what your mentality, your WAY OF THINKING, your STATEMENT is supporting.

How is it violating rights and how is it snatching i am saying TALKING. its not doing anything wrong. Its just clearing things up. You are treating the person like a prize because you are not stealing anything from them if its not an object. OMG how the **** did this turn into my ******* situation i have my boyfriend and and i have my way of thinking and my personality i really do not need anyones approval. And if a person is in love with five guys then go ahead i really do not care what anyone does. No its not okay to rape and stalk because that is violating the persons rights. My way of thinking is do whatever you want as long as you don't violate someone else's rights. now leave me the **** alone

OP I feel bad for the situation your in

happened to me too more than once

That sucks...a lot. I have a rough idea what that's like, the girl I've liked for months and one of my roommates kinda have something going on. It's not as bad as what you've said, but it's a bitch.

"'your a good guy. Thats rare these days.' quite implies you think the majority of men suck, but darlin', only the sad saps you've saddled with suck, because you are essentially a magnet for suck, because you suck." best. phrase and/or sentence. EVER.

hey jenny444 ur a ******. stop being a ******* bitch and get a life. stop talking shit that you can't back up. god damn

and, jenny444, ur logic is ****** up. ur probably some 12 year old who thinks she's hot and perfect. well, just about everyone here hates/disagrees with u. it the roomates bf, not hers. so you and the op can go **** off.

and Damegreywolf, ur awesome.