Today, I was talking to my boyfriend about how I'm self conscious about my weight. He looks at me and says, "Don't worry babe, I've always been kind of a chubby chaser." FML
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Today, I told my boyfriend that I gained a few pounds and thought I looked fat. He replied that I looked the same and that I shouldn't worry because he likes fat girls. I never thought I was fat before this. FML
Today, I was telling my boyfriend about how self conscious I am and how I obsess about my weight. He said, "Don't be ridiculous, you don't need to lose THAT much weight." FML
Today, the guy I've recently started seeing confided that he's relieved I'm on the heavier side, and that he has a thing for watching chubby women eat. I just reached my ideal weight after losing 40 pounds. FML
Today, I was hanging out with my boyfriend. Everything seemed to be going well, when all of a sudden he turned to look at me with a pensive and thoughtful expression. I expected him to say something important, but instead he just said, "I was wondering, how does it feel to be fat?" FML
Today, my chunky boyfriend told me that he'd be less attracted to me if I gained weight. I have low self-esteem. FML
Today, I noticed that I've been gaining some weight. Don't worry, my boyfriend doesn't mind. His new favorite thing is putting my boobs on his head and saying he feels "safe". FML
Today, my very handsome, fit, Russian boyfriend tried to make me feel better about being a little overweight by telling me, "It's okay, you're American, everyone expects you to be fat." FML
Today, my boyfriend let me know that when we met, he wouldn't have even talked to me if I was as fat as I am now. But lucky for me, he stays with me because, "there's love or something." FML
Today, I told my boss about a coworker that had been hitting on me. She looked me dead in the eye and said "I was afraid that would happen. He's a bit of a chubby chaser." FML
Today, I asked my boyfriend to honestly tell me if I had become overweight. He replied that yes, I had, but that it was OK because I was his "Lumpy Space Princess." FML
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anjyu22 0
Oh god, your boyfriend finds you attractive? That's terrible.
DumbStruck79 0
YDI for fishing for complements and wanting your boyfriend to say "you are really thin" , but you know you are FAT.
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Comments (96)
RigChan 0
That's a good thing for you. So it's not an FYL.
dcbog123 0
wow thats what you get for asking around and not doing anything about it. go to the gym, stop eating fries, do something other than look for compliments. and btw, your bf is lying, no one likes fat chicks.
DarthRant 0
I agree, Meek: Real women have curves.
Nikkitaria 9
Insulting fat girls is just as bad as insulting skinny girls. A real woman should not be determinated by her physique.
MrsDruidess 23
OP YDI for saying it first. What else what he supposed to say without lying?
DumbStruck79 0
YDI for fishing for complements and wanting your boyfriend to say "you are really thin" , but you know you are FAT.
popatia 0
i agree YDI for fishing for complements
Rayn4u_fml 0
I agree; if anything, the guy is a smooth talker.
dspadres 0
I agree as well. Shit like that is a trap. No matter what you say it's the wrong answer...and saying nothing is even worse. We're just screwed all around.
FranzFerdinand 18
40- Actually, your wording is making me think…maybe the reason most women don't like sex as much as men is because they've already screwed them all day with their behavior. OP, I agree with this comment thread. If you're on the chubby side/fat, then don't tell people about it and expect tell you you're skinny or badmouth thinner girls or whatever. What your boyfriend said was probably the best thing- he didn't lie and he accepts you the way you are (even though maaaaybe his wording could be a bit better. Still, not gonna call him out for that since a lot of guys aren't great with words.) Although you might have issues with it, the reality is that as long as you're healthy, your size (not weight- SIZE) will do what it wants. You just need to embrace it. If your weight is really messing with your self-esteem, then you could try losing some, although I understand that it's easier said than done. But it CAN be done, so… good luck if you try it. I would say YDI for fishing for compliments, but you kind of sound like you really need some help for your self-esteem issues if you want to be called skinny even when you're not.
lovebug177 21
Welp the truth comes out ?
Anna-nymous 8
she was telling her boyfriend about what makes her self conscious!! that's not fishing for compliments, it's opening up to him!
ennuifilled 0
Your fat, your bf finds that sexy, and this a problem for you? YDI for dating a guy who finds you attractive when you don't find you attractive.
_Noon_ 0
That's a classic example of a boy trying to make you feel better and, obviously, failing at it.
bluehero 17
That'd make me feel better if I were a girl. Knowing I could get fat and he'd still want me.
anjyu22 0
Oh god, your boyfriend finds you attractive? That's terrible.
IllegalLight 0
At least he doesn't care you are chubby right? Don't go fishing for compliments.... so YDI.
angryseatroll 5
Don't fish for compliments. It's annoying.
faxe 0
So you want him to lie to you and still like you? If you are unhappy with your weight then do something about it fatso. He isn't the problem, you are.
Epicsmile123 6
Shut up be nice
owlowl 0
Be thankful he likes you the way you are. This is an FML how?
dul_fml 2
Why are you so self conscious about your weight when your boyfriend likes the way you are? This is not a FYL or a YDI.