Today, my chunky boyfriend told me that he'd be less attracted to me if I gained weight. I have low self-esteem. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I was talking to my boyfriend about how I'm self conscious about my weight. He looks at me and says, "Don't worry babe, I've always been kind of a chubby chaser." FML
Today, my boyfriend sent me a text that said, "I can't be seen with you anymore. You're too fat." FML
Today, my boyfriend of a year and a half informed me that he had "accepted" my stomach, even though it didn't conform to his "preference" for a flat stomach. He then added that his acceptance doesn't extend to my "chunky thighs". FML
Today, I told my boyfriend that I gained a few pounds and thought I looked fat. He replied that I looked the same and that I shouldn't worry because he likes fat girls. I never thought I was fat before this. FML
Today, I was doubting my boyfriend's feelings for me, so I asked him if he found me attractive. He replied, "Well, you're thin enough…" That's all. FML
Today, I was telling my boyfriend about how self conscious I am and how I obsess about my weight. He said, "Don't be ridiculous, you don't need to lose THAT much weight." FML
Today, my boyfriend broke up with me because I'm now about 15 pounds overweight. When I called him a hypocrite as he's over 40 pounds overweight, he said that his weight didn't matter because "it's the girl's job to look hot." FML
Today, my boyfriend encouragingly told me that he could tell I was losing weight, all because I had one roll fewer than usual on my stomach. FML
Today, feeling confident, I asked my boyfriend what he thought of my new body, since I had lost 16 kilos over the past month. He told me that he missed the old me and wanted me to gain weight again. My boyfriend was the one that encouraged me to lose weight in the first place. FML
Today, my boyfriend admitted to purposely sabotaging all my weight loss efforts. When I confronted him, he said it’s because he doesn’t want me to get thin and turn into one of those stuck up, snobby, mean girl types that wouldn’t date him in high school. We’re in our 30s dude, get over it! FML
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Top comments
core01 30
Tell him you find judgmental assholes with chubby bods unattractive.
AlanShore 12
Time to find someone new. If you found him, you can find someone better.
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Comments (5)
core01 30
Tell him you find judgmental assholes with chubby bods unattractive.
RichardPencil 32
Double standards. Men don't care if women are poor, but a poor man can't get a date. None of them are fair, but they just are.
Carys Burke 4
aww, poor baby, was the conversation not about you for two seconds?
AlanShore 12
Time to find someone new. If you found him, you can find someone better.
Brightside86 31
That seems pretty normal, weight gain can be very unhealthy.
xxcutekatxx2 13
Except he is over weight himself so I don't think it has anything to do with health.. just being shallow
OnReceivingEnd 18
"Funny, I was about to say the same thing to you...only you already did that. When your boobs are smaller than mine, you MIGHT be allowed to comment."