Today, I slept alone again in bed. After travelling 15000 km across the world to be with my long-distance husband, he has refused to kiss or hug me in the week I've been here. I never thought I would be in a sexless marriage. FML
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Today, I got back from an 8-month deployment ready for relaxation and lots of sex with my husband. He said he’s come to realise he likes living alone, didn’t miss me much, and hasn’t been looking forward to me coming home. He gave me divorce papers and kicked me out to go sleep in a hotel. FML
Today, my long-distance boyfriend announced he’s sleeping with someone else and he can’t take the distance anymore. I literally drive 12 hours to see him every weekend. I just took a week off to spend time up there with him. So basically he can’t go 5 regular days of the week without sex. FML
Today, at last, my husband instigated sex for the first time since the honeymoon a few months ago when he started fondling me in bed. Then I realised he was asleep. FML
Today, I've never been so lonely nor felt so romantically neglected as when I got married. FML
Today, marks the second week straight without sex. Being a newlywed isn't as great as I thought. FML
Today, my boyfriend came home, chugged a beer, and passed out in our bed without saying hello or goodnight to me. I've been on vacation for a week and was hoping to cuddle. But no, if I try to touch him, he hits me and growls. FML
Today, my husband told me that he could not love me without sex. My love for him is utterly unconditional. My heart is just broken now. FML
Today, I finally had sex with my live-in boyfriend after a long dry spell. It was passionate and great, until I hurt my back changing positions. Now he refuses to touch me, going as far as sleeping on the couch to give me "enough space". Hello new dry spell. FML
Today, my boyfriend left our bed at 6 a.m. to go upstairs and go back to bed with his son and soon to be ex-wife. I then had to ride in the backseat of a car for 6 hours while they talked and laughed. Not once has he asked if I'm okay or what's wrong. I've barely spoke all day. FML
Today, my wife, who I haven’t seen for over a month because we both travel a lot for work, got home. The last thing she said to me was that she couldn't wait to get home because she just wants some alone time. FML
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chosha_fml 27
He won’t even hug you? You need to ask him straight out what is going on. That is pretty harsh.
interesting33 37
I'm really sorry to hear that. it might be worth getting some couples counselling, or if he won't come with you, getting it by yourself.
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Comments (18)
kieralumina 30
its time to break it off. that's obviously not the relationship for you. it sounds more like crashing at someone's house because your hotel messed up your reservation.
lifeis4me 20
I’ve heard of long distance girlfriends/boyfriends, but never husbands/wives. Even so, I think it may be time to think about a divorce if he doesn’t even want to touch you.
alycion 39
Oftentimes, spouses work out of country for set periods of time. Or more commonly, deployed. Athletes, musicians, anyone who spends more time on the road than at home are also long distance.
tounces7 28
Sounds like it's time to go back home.
mssileas 25
So you and your husband live hours away from each other and when you visit, you sleep alone and you have no physical contact whatsoever? That's pretty much the relationship you have with 7 billion people on this planet, including me and everyone who commented here. I think it's time to reconsider this marriage before you waste time and emotions and resources on someone who might as well be a clerk at a hotel.
Adam Michael Valenzuela 7
He cheated.
ninjaaudrey 4
He is banging someone else. Probably someone younger and with bigger ****.
Hangryko 32
I hope you divorced him, and happier for it.