Today, my long-distance boyfriend was at my house for a 10-day visit. He told me that we'd never spent so much time together, so he didn't know me well and now, he'd finally met the "real me". He doesn't like it. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
My long-distance partner came to visit me for the weekend. When he arrived he seemed moody and tired, and refused any kind of physical contact. Upset, I asked him what was wrong. Turns out he's mad for coming to see me because I've put on weight, making the trip a waste of his time. FML
Today, I saw my long-distance boyfriend for the first time in 8 months. He dumped me on the spot because I was "uglier" than he remembered. FML
Today, my long-distance boyfriend wanted to spend time online with me. He kept quiet on Skype and went on a hundred different stupid websites, laughing by himself. Afterwards, he told me he really enjoyed our time together. FML
Today, I met my long distance girlfriend after two years of being separated by 900 miles. She brought her short distance boyfriend to the meeting. FML
Today, my boyfriend, who lives 100 miles away and whom I haven't seen in 2 months, told me he was visiting my city with some friends. I assumed this was an opening to an invitation, but no, he just asked me about the best places to get drunk. FML
Today, my long-distance boyfriend decided to tell me he found a girl in his hometown he’s become attracted to, and that he doesn’t love me anymore. He says we can "still be friends." I’d just driven 100 miles to see him. FML
Today, I learned that my long term/long distance (two hours away) boyfriend has had not one, but two regular "girlfriends" closer to his home. He'd told them that we broke up while still coming to visit me weekly. He did stop coming by a few months ago because "work was crazy" but that didn't stop him from sending "pics" though. FML
Today, my boyfriend told me that he becomes a boring version of himself whenever we are together. FML
Today, my boyfriend came home from college for the first time in weeks just to visit me. I was so excited that I spent two hours getting ready. Turns out he was only coming back to dump me. Now I'm single and out of foundation. FML
Today, my boyfriend is acting more distanced, leaving me on seen or delivered. We do long distance, he’s supposed to come visit me in three weeks. I don't know what to think. He’s always been sweet and stuff, but now it feels like he’s not trying. This makes my stomach hurt. FML
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Top comments
amandawins 0
Honestly, long distance relationships are hard. A similar situation happened with me and my bf, but we worked through it - not that we didn't like each other, but we fell off the pedestal. It happens in every relationship, but it's worse in long distance.
kamichama 0
I feel your pain. Happened to me. 10 day visit, dating for 4 months. After day 6, he just kind of ignored me.
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Comments (88)
meme3 0
Ha pwned.
mzmartinez92 0
seriously
amandawins 0
Honestly, long distance relationships are hard. A similar situation happened with me and my bf, but we worked through it - not that we didn't like each other, but we fell off the pedestal. It happens in every relationship, but it's worse in long distance.
shelbtron 0
this sounds like an internet relationship...not a long distance one.....
Alex_95 0
I don't really get this It happens a lot in long distance relationships And he probably didn't say it in that blunt words In fact, it happens even in non-long distance relationships
Kamon97 23
Hey YDI for going long distance
Fire_lights 0
Dang. Harsh. Don't worry though, OP, you'll find someone someday 8D
alexgisforme3 0
4th?
alexgisforme3 0
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thats really heartbreaking...im sorry boo :(. find someone hotter and better
lailax3 0
absolutely. :)
M13LO 0
YDI for having long distance bf
diabetic_rage 0
Agreed.
darkmis1 18
So? My bf lives 5 hours away, and we text basically all day every day, and when he comes over, I always spend the whole time with him, AND if I ever ask him to, he'll come rite down to c me. Long distance relationships aren't hard if u really luv eachother.
vers_fml 0
#37, you don't really get to tell people if they love each other or not thanks
snocap12 0
5 hours is a bit easier than other cases....mine lives 14 hours away...so he just cant come on down whenever i feel...and we both work a lot..so it makes it hard to talk....but ya..its possible to work thru if they are worth it...but it is NOT easy
nubber 0
Wow at least your bf/gf is only hours away.... mine is Ontario and i'm in Alberta lol But I've known her for 4ish years and only recently asked her out so I think it's all good =D
RustedMetal 0
Well what if your really in love and one of you is forced to move away ? It's not that easy to break up, eh
Ohhaithar 0
then don't break up -- doofus. keep it working even if you are on opposite sides of the world.
kusiobache 0
14 hours... That really isn't a long distance relationship, considering you can actually see eachother on weekends if you really cared. Try dating someone who lives 9 hours away by plane.
allmidnighteyes 11
Ouch =/
goalie20 0
ouch
kaelendra 0
Not a ydi but not really a fyl imho... this is why you need to meet people and frankly it's nothing to do with you being a bad person but you can't be sure you'll really click irl till you meet.
cocky 0
I met my wife that way, so it can work out. :) it'll be ok, get you a new aoler! a real hacker this time.