Today, my long-distance boyfriend was at my house for a 10-day visit. He told me that we'd never spent so much time together, so he didn't know me well and now, he'd finally met the "real me". He doesn't like it. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
My long-distance partner came to visit me for the weekend. When he arrived he seemed moody and tired, and refused any kind of physical contact. Upset, I asked him what was wrong. Turns out he's mad for coming to see me because I've put on weight, making the trip a waste of his time. FML
Today, I saw my long-distance boyfriend for the first time in 8 months. He dumped me on the spot because I was "uglier" than he remembered. FML
Today, my long-distance boyfriend wanted to spend time online with me. He kept quiet on Skype and went on a hundred different stupid websites, laughing by himself. Afterwards, he told me he really enjoyed our time together. FML
Today, I met my long distance girlfriend after two years of being separated by 900 miles. She brought her short distance boyfriend to the meeting. FML
Today, my boyfriend, who lives 100 miles away and whom I haven't seen in 2 months, told me he was visiting my city with some friends. I assumed this was an opening to an invitation, but no, he just asked me about the best places to get drunk. FML
Today, my long-distance boyfriend decided to tell me he found a girl in his hometown he’s become attracted to, and that he doesn’t love me anymore. He says we can "still be friends." I’d just driven 100 miles to see him. FML
Today, I learned that my long term/long distance (two hours away) boyfriend has had not one, but two regular "girlfriends" closer to his home. He'd told them that we broke up while still coming to visit me weekly. He did stop coming by a few months ago because "work was crazy" but that didn't stop him from sending "pics" though. FML
Today, my boyfriend told me that he becomes a boring version of himself whenever we are together. FML
Today, my boyfriend came home from college for the first time in weeks just to visit me. I was so excited that I spent two hours getting ready. Turns out he was only coming back to dump me. Now I'm single and out of foundation. FML
Today, my boyfriend is acting more distanced, leaving me on seen or delivered. We do long distance, he’s supposed to come visit me in three weeks. I don't know what to think. He’s always been sweet and stuff, but now it feels like he’s not trying. This makes my stomach hurt. FML
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Top comments
amandawins 0
Honestly, long distance relationships are hard. A similar situation happened with me and my bf, but we worked through it - not that we didn't like each other, but we fell off the pedestal. It happens in every relationship, but it's worse in long distance.
kamichama 0
I feel your pain. Happened to me. 10 day visit, dating for 4 months. After day 6, he just kind of ignored me.
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cardsfan2620 0
Brazil? Let me guess, your boyfriend's name was Mark Sanford...
wroughtinfire 0
lol.
containsnosoy 0
You know, that's not so bad, at least he was honest. (and he was the one visiting you and not the other way around.) Two tears in a bucket, you know?
spillproof 0
Stop acting, YDI
desmoshes 0
I'm sorry, the same thing pretty much happened to me hun. **** him, find someone worth your time ;)
lucky_nooot 0
well if he just got to know you now, its weird. because even in long relationships the couple talk a lot and learn a lot about themselves. if he said that, he probably is a jerk, really. you'll find someone better than him, for sure! i am torcendo por você! =)
bmw_rules 0
im in a long distance reletionship the gurl lives 7 hours away ive been talking to her for like 5 months and finally getting up to where she lives in 4 days i hope this doesnt happen to us, :( btw ul b ok im sure hes just an asshole
breathemein 10
good luck!!! :))) my and my boy got planned to see each other in nov.. but we couldn't see eachother in nov so we changed itD: but im happy for you!!!! (:
cwl727 33
That sucks.
lamblady12 2
Im sorry about your experience, OP. I was in a long distance relationship (11 hours away) for about a year before we met, we clicked right away, I never thought about us not liking each other irl. 4 years later and now we live 5 minutes from each other. Sure, long distance is extremely challenging and not without its risks (if you've never met them before) but it can also be very rewarding. I got to meet an incredible guy who I otherwise would have never met without the internet.