Today, my long-distance boyfriend was at my house for a 10-day visit. He told me that we'd never spent so much time together, so he didn't know me well and now, he'd finally met the "real me". He doesn't like it. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
My long-distance partner came to visit me for the weekend. When he arrived he seemed moody and tired, and refused any kind of physical contact. Upset, I asked him what was wrong. Turns out he's mad for coming to see me because I've put on weight, making the trip a waste of his time. FML
Today, I saw my long-distance boyfriend for the first time in 8 months. He dumped me on the spot because I was "uglier" than he remembered. FML
Today, my long-distance boyfriend wanted to spend time online with me. He kept quiet on Skype and went on a hundred different stupid websites, laughing by himself. Afterwards, he told me he really enjoyed our time together. FML
Today, I met my long distance girlfriend after two years of being separated by 900 miles. She brought her short distance boyfriend to the meeting. FML
Today, my boyfriend, who lives 100 miles away and whom I haven't seen in 2 months, told me he was visiting my city with some friends. I assumed this was an opening to an invitation, but no, he just asked me about the best places to get drunk. FML
Today, my long-distance boyfriend decided to tell me he found a girl in his hometown he’s become attracted to, and that he doesn’t love me anymore. He says we can "still be friends." I’d just driven 100 miles to see him. FML
Today, I learned that my long term/long distance (two hours away) boyfriend has had not one, but two regular "girlfriends" closer to his home. He'd told them that we broke up while still coming to visit me weekly. He did stop coming by a few months ago because "work was crazy" but that didn't stop him from sending "pics" though. FML
Today, my boyfriend told me that he becomes a boring version of himself whenever we are together. FML
Today, my boyfriend came home from college for the first time in weeks just to visit me. I was so excited that I spent two hours getting ready. Turns out he was only coming back to dump me. Now I'm single and out of foundation. FML
Today, my boyfriend is acting more distanced, leaving me on seen or delivered. We do long distance, he’s supposed to come visit me in three weeks. I don't know what to think. He’s always been sweet and stuff, but now it feels like he’s not trying. This makes my stomach hurt. FML
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Top comments
amandawins 0
Honestly, long distance relationships are hard. A similar situation happened with me and my bf, but we worked through it - not that we didn't like each other, but we fell off the pedestal. It happens in every relationship, but it's worse in long distance.
kamichama 0
I feel your pain. Happened to me. 10 day visit, dating for 4 months. After day 6, he just kind of ignored me.
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Comments (88)
Glam_fml 0
That sucks, but having a long distance relationship work is extremely hard. You would be better off dating someone you can see on a regular basis.
kamichama 0
I feel your pain. Happened to me. 10 day visit, dating for 4 months. After day 6, he just kind of ignored me.
mobius8 0
Did he tell you on the first day? Because that would make for a long 10 day visit if he did...
meniacle19 0
me and my girl met on halo. she lives in cali and i in michigan, shes gonna goto school in Pittsburgh though and i just didnt think i could handle seeing her like once a month so i broke it off. long distance can be hard when you want someone to hold onto ya know? maybe your both better off finding someone you can be with more often than not.
ChucklesTheClown 4
Halo is the best place to find love. /sarcasm
Astraea 0
Well ydi for not being open enough to your bf. You could have avoided such an incident by describing ''the real you'' to him so perfectly. One does not necessarily need to share a living with the another to discover his/her true personality. Speaking of it should be enough, of course on condition that both sides are reliable enough.
Einstein714 0
sometimes, reality sux
cljc 1
i'm sorry :( i hope you find someone who loves you :)
SimpleSimon 0
People are being harsh on the BF here. Something similar happened to me (minus the distance, mostly) where the more time I spent with a girl the more I realised we weren't right, and she couldn't see it. Breaking her heart was one of the hardest things I've done, but in the long run it's better than trying to force the relationship for her sake, only to have it fall apart even more catastrophically at a later date.
Zoa_fml 0
Actually....no one was really being harsh on the BF....
drinkupgorgeous 0
you'll get over it.
breathemein 10
i hope that doesn't happen to me when my boy comes see's me for the first time =/