Today, my boyfriend declared he doesn't feel ready to move in with me for at least "some more years". We have already been together for five years. When he bought an apartment one year ago, he kept it a secret for three months. Maybe I should learn to take a hint. Or several hints. FML
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Today, my boyfriend of 3 years announced that he is not ready for marriage, and won’t be for 'at least' another 2 years. Of course he waited to tell me this 2 days after he had proposed to me in front of hundreds of people, I said yes, and we announced it to all our family members and friends. FML
Today, my boyfriend broke up with me, claiming moving in was a bad idea and he is the type who needs his privacy. It was his idea to move in, he had to convince me. Now we are stuck, under lease together for the next 6 months. FML
Today, I finally got the courage to tell my boyfriend that I love him. We've been dating almost a year and in a few days we will be moving into the same apartment building and attending the same college. He said, "I'm sorry, I don't feel the same way." FML
Today, my partner of 5 years and I sat down to talk because I expressed hope for a proposal in near future. He instead believed that we should wait, and talk about a potential future for us in another two years. FML
Today, my boyfriend of 8 years moved in with two other women. He's spent the past 2 years telling me he can't afford to move out of his parent's house. FML
Today, my boyfriend of almost 5 years told me that his reason for staying with me is because he doesn't want to go through our storage unit to decide who would get what. We've had the storage unit for 2 years. FML
Today, my boyfriend admitted that he never thought we had a future together. He just wanted to move in together so he could get "cheaper rent for a while." FML
Today, my boyfriend said that we can "maybe have sleepovers" at his house when he FINALLY moves out. He's 24, and we've been dating for 6 years. FML
Today, I told my boyfriend of three years that I wanted to get married and have a child within the next five years. He responded by packing up my things and showing me the door. FML
Today, my boyfriend of six months said he wanted to take our relationship one step further. I thought he was going to ask me to move in. He meant he wanted to fart in front of me. FML
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Top comments
lexiieeex3 32
He doesn't seem to be the commitment type or even the honesty type. Looks like it's time to move on OP.
invadermaythe1st 35
Agreed.
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Comments (73)
worldclassrager 41
Five years should be more than enough
entangledVines 1
Shouldn't OP's age be relevant too? I assume OP isn't that young, thereby justifying her complaints more, but if she started dating him in high school, I could understand the bf being very much not ready.
jlaw2000 6
So comment section looks exactly how I thought it would, women thinking that a relationship isn't worth it if it doesn't come with a house and marriage. Just because he doesn't want to move in with you or get married doesn't mean he doesn't value you or the relationship. Wake up women, men don't owe you a house and ring. Proceed to thumbs down this comment to oblivion so it doesn't challenge your entitlement. :)
Queen_of_Night 20
Don't look at is as moving on OP, look at it as moving up! :)
GeorgiaBea 28
Learn to love yourself a little more. Any man worth your attention would actually want you around... Blow him off and find someone else.
brew44 15
a very similar thing happened to me. It's hard to leave when you love them. Try to keep your chin up.
hbs11476 9
Leave. Now.
jlaw2001 3
You are not owed a house/apartment or marriage or anything just because you have been together for any amount of time. That type of mentality should have gone out in the 1950's with the idea of barefoot pregnant women that never leave the kitchen. It's anachronistic and stupid. And to everyone who's crying commitment issues or that he's cheating you can be committed and faithful to someone and still not have to move in with them or get married. To think otherwise is the height of entitlement. You deserve it.
tlnorman 18
Move on OP you deserve someone who wants to commit to you.
mooreajah23 7
smh mine ain't get the apartment yet but makes every excuse why he's not ready to.move in yet smh