Today, I realised just how cripplingly self-conscious I am, when I couldn't even fantasise about having sex with a guy without feeling shy and insecure about my body. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I was feeling a bit insecure about my body, and I told my boyfriend I don't know how he can even stand to have sex with me. He replied, "I know, right?" FML
Today, I realized how sex-deprived I am when the thought of owning condoms gave me a rock-solid erection. FML
Today, I realized how bad my depression has gotten when I caught myself fantasizing about suicide while having sex with my husband. FML
Today, my girlfriend wanted to try having sex despite her serious body image issues. Unfortunately, I couldn't get it up due to how utterly terrified she looked. Now no matter what I say, she thinks it's all because her body is hideous. FML
Today, I realized that I'm so depressed that I can't even watch porn without getting upset about how I can't get laid. FML
Today, I got more turned on by the idea of sex with my boyfriend than actually doing it. FML
Today, I was so insecure, I got scared of what people might think of my fingers. FML
Today, I realized how truly insecure I really am when the guy in the show I was watching looked straight into the camera and I immediately looked away. FML
Today, it’s been so long since I’ve had sex I’m seriously considering hiring a professional if you catch my drift. I try to put myself out there but I’m so self-conscious about my mastectomy scars that the thought of anyone seeing me naked sends me into a heaving sobbing anxiety attack. FML
Today, I realized just how much my bad sex life has started affecting me, when after not being able to climax from masturbating, I instinctively faked an orgasm. FML
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etoilenuit 15
:-( don't be so hard on yourself. No one is perfect.
ohcheriecherie 20
Sorry babe, I know that feel. That was how I felt when I was anorexic. You gotta love yourself...
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Comments (188)
Mideoyeo 12
Its ok OP, don't push yourself if you aren't ready!(: everyone has limits~
Nbrandwine 7
Don't worry. Everyone has a flaw, nobody's perfect. :)
n1988e 8
I used to feel that way before. Once u find the right guy, he'll know how to make u feel comfortable in ur own skin and get u out of ur shell :)
Dogbite1313 5
Then walk out on you!
n1988e 8
No not walk out. If you read correctly I said the right guy. Not just a random guy.
gracehi 33
36, Thanks a lot, Debbie Downer. :( Anyway, you shouldn't need a man to tell you you're beautiful and make you feel good about yourself...but it does help.
can2012 0
Looking for sympathy comments god annoyed of girls Sayin that shit
AClassActx3 7
You're a PIG.
cordelay98 10
It's okay, I have the same problem =
skullofdarkness 18
Seriously? You're hot as hell! At least if your profile pic is actually of you...
AznSamoan52 10
Same here........ Except I don't fantasize about anything.
Icejza_DaChilla 7
If that's you in your avatar pic then IMHO you look rather pretty. People's insecurities about themselves sometimes outweighs the problems they are worried about in the first place. I'd rather be with a girl who has flaws but is secure with herself over a girl who is nearly flawless but is insecure about it and self-deprecating.
Dogbite1313 5
It's very hard I know, i hate how i look I'm constantly told I'm sexy and tiny, 5'7 about 120, but I hate to even wear form fitting cloths. I have curvy thighs and hips from soccer and riding horses. But I now can take a few deep breaths now and it's getting easier to say I'm being silly about it.
Icejza_DaChilla 7
Strong soccer thighs = hottt
challan 19
op, its a fantasy! give yourself your dream body!
every1luvsboners 11
Whenever I'm feeling a little self conscious I stare at the mirror and fap 3-4 times per day until my confidence is restored. Try it out.
AznSamoan52 10
Don't you think that's a little TOO much fapping?!?!? Especially if you're doing that EVERY DAY.
unknown_user5566 27
Who said he does it EVERY day? It's only when he's feeling a little self-conscious. For all we know, that's only a couple of times per year. However if he IS fapping very frequently, his stamina is probably god-like! ;)
the_shrink 2
Little known fact, fapping actually reduces longevity. It conditions the, ahem, member to reach the end goal faster. So, the fastest way to premature ejaculation is spanking the monkey too frequently. A little food for thought for the men out there!
unknown_user5566 27
Everyone looks the same in the dark, OP! ;) Naw, but seriously OP, you have to try and perceive yourself in a more positive manner. Try writing down a list of all the things you love about yourself, and read them out-loud every day. Soon you will begin to realize that you shouldn't be so self-conscious. :)
The_Big_Boss 20
I hate these types of fmls.. Quit bitching