Today, I had a date with this really cute guy. He invited me over to make dinner at his place. Eventually we end up in his bedroom to have sex. He pulls down my panties and says, "You need to shave that shit." FML

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ouchhh can u say insensitive?

there's nothing wrong with pubes, but if you need a machete to get through the jungle, it might be time to start shaving

Do men have any idea how much of a hassle that actually is?

did you leave?

I'm a guy, and I personally don't give a fuck. IF you are really concerned about extra-curricular pussy, then I think you may be a tiny bit gay, or at least just a prude.

I don't shave my balls, so why should a girl shave?

Stupid.

I agree with #3
OP should have said "you first"

wow hypocrite?

you need to shave that shit then, sorry to be harsh but really.....not many women dont shave anymore.

i have to agree with the OP's date. I just find it displeasing when it is not clean cut down there. However, i wouldnt turn down the opportunity

Does he shave?

If it's insane down there, you might want to fix that. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions and bodies, but you should and want take care of yourself, which does include being well groomed. Not necessarily shaved, but atleast managed.

I don't get why some people can't deal with hair...it's like the guy's saying "sorry, I prefer the prepubescent look to the woman's look".

Ain't nothing wrong with you. He's just a moron.

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All these stupid fml's about not shaving would be saved if women would JUST SHAVE. 'Nuf said.

to #3. Just use fire and BURN your pubes off ;)

If he doesn't shave HIS pubes he has no right to complain. Anyway, why would you want to look pre-pubescent?

@ youaresofucked: after you

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#3 and #6: i'm a guy and yes, i shave my balls. It's not that big hassle as you bode, nor take it more then 5 minutes and a good razor to do it.

OP: If you have a jungle between your legs, YDI, else leave the moron. Nothing wrong with a groomed pub

shave your beaver bitch
;)

@ Horde: You probably don't have to put up with a week or more of razor rash on the bikini-line as the hair starts growing back.

nothing wrong with a little trim

Well, men should shave their balls, too. A women usually doesn't find it attractive to pull your pubes out of her teeth.

agree with #20: it might not be that bad shaving down there and everyone's got their own opinions on if you should shave down there or not, but the aftermath is horrible...especially on such a sensitive area.

i'm a woman and to all the people who are asking if men understand what a hassle it is to shave....men have to shave their faces so i'm pretty sure they get the concept. don't tell me you wouldn't ask your man to shave if he had a big, scraggly, tangled beard on his face! shaving excess body hair is good hygiene! many guys also shave their pubes if they get too out of control. it's ok to have pubic hair, even a large amount, just keep it neat! if you keep letting it grow until it looks like a jungle, obviously people are going to find it unattractive! it doesn't mean they like a "prepubescent" look, maybe they just don't like the idea that a bird could be nesting in there and they wouldn't even know it!
still, it sucks for the OP that the guy was so rude about it. maybe next time before she goes on a date she could shave/make sure she's dating a guy who's into the bush.

I would have screamed PEDOPHILE and left, cause only little kids have naturally hairless.........

#25 have you heard of this thing called "oral sex"? It's generally the whole idea behind a guy liking a girl to shave.

YDI for getting into bedroom @ first or second date. It seems you didnt talk about your preferences in sex at all. You should have ran away way before getting into the bed.

what, too blunt

I would have said the exact same thing, that shit is disgusting shave it lol. #19's got it right

YDI for being an oompa-loompa faced monkey problem, shave that shite.

It would be interesting if someone with alopecia universalis gave their opinions on this.

Sounds a little like me...

Anyone accusing people who prefer shaved partners of being a pedo is wildly off the mark. Maybe these people just like a clean junk? Like the feeling of it? Or (echoing ladidadi) if I shave my facial hair, does that somehow mean I'm trying to impersonate a child or attract only pedophile women? Get real.

In any case, if I wanted a chick to shave down there, I would be just as willing to shave myself. No reason to be hypocritical -- and yes, Luckster, men are every bit as capable of experiencing razor rash as women. You don't have a monopoly on having hair grow back stubby. :P

He was an ass. That said you should shave.

It's a turn off to many people. I prefer it shaved.

Why wax my chest and ab region? It looks better in my opinion.

Well, you *should* shave that shit. Gross.

Also, if you don't know this guy very well, how do you expect him to be sensitive? I'm sure "this really cute guy" isn't your boyfriend, so it's not like he's going to think about your feelings when he fucks you. :) You get what you pay for.

"He invited me over to make dinner at his place"....dude was on a winner, you'd already cooked for him.
But, I wouldn't be stopping the game then.
However, as #27 said, if you want him to 'really' look after you, a tidy up doesn't hurt a bit. That sid, he could have been a little polite about the deal.
As I said, he was already on a winner!!

I don't think it's gross to not shave. Just manage it & keep it neat or at least trim it :). & was his shaved? If not, what a hypocrite!

Some hair is ok, but if its the jungle as your message seems to imply, you need to trim it down.

But really, who want to fuck someone who hasn't gone through puberty?!

or atleast looking like they haven't.
must be wrong on some level.

#3 Yes we do, as our junk has about twice the surface area, and yet I can still manage to somehow "miraculously" shave it within 3-4 minutes despite the "hassle"

Women probably spend more time putting on cosmetics that no one cares about

Dear number 3: It's not that hard to shave. Unless you're fat.. then maybe.. lol

and OP: Maybe you should have at least trimmed it.. a lot.. No one likes bushes.

You need to shave that shit

Haha fuck him. You do what you want. It's a personal choice.

FYL for being reminded in such a mean way. Forget him. YDI for not having tamed the beaver.

Well, maybe you should...

Ok ignore everyone who says you need to shave. YOUR body and YOUR body hair are YOUR business. If someone has a problem with the way you care for and maintain your genital regions, then they have NO business near them.

FYL though. And F him. I wouldn't see him again.

It takes like 5-10 mins to shave, don't be so lazy

Show some respect next time and make it presentable when your about to get some.

My girlfriend doesn't like to kiss my lips when I have a beard, and I don't like to kiss her lips when she has a crotch-beard. Fair is fair.

If men had hairy dicks, women would require us to shave before oral action.

Agree with #5.
You shoulda answered with "What, do ten-year-olds turn you on?" or something.

YDI If you knew you had a big date, you should have shaved. Even if you aren't into shaving, there's so many ways to keep things neat and tidy down there, so no excuse. Not everyone has jungle fever. If he had a whacko bush, you would have said the same thing.

Don't shave it leave it be, some guys like me prefer our women to actually look like women down there and not 7 year old girls. Nearly every girl shaves it now and every porn the girl is shaved, it is quite boring to she a girl shaved nowadays. I don't understand why men like that I am not a pedophile

Mow the lawn and you'll get more folks a'knockin.

But seriously? At least fucking trim. Only times I don't shave my junk is when I'm on my period, and when I was 9 months pregnant.

Plus sex is so much nicer when you can actually feel that shit. You get more sensitive the barer you are. Don't like razor rash? Use shaving cream, then lightly dab lotion on the bikini line every night after. Or get it waxed. And use a nice razor to, it helps really.

I'd be pretty annoyed with him.
im about to have sex with you...shut the fuck up.
Anyway...just groom a little...

YDI for being so hairy.

I hate shaving... waxing is the way to go... and he better trim his...

should probably shave that shit

Ugh. I hate shaving. Such a hassle to deal with the itchiness of hair growing back in. Not to mention ingrowns, etc.

That being said, a good solid trimming is always a good idea. While shaving is not necessary, maintainence is.

It's not a hassle at all to remove body hair, you sooo deserve this. Disgusting.

the way he says it makes it sound like you have a fucking jungle in your pants >_< with that being said, I agree with him lol..i'm 8 months pregnant and still keep my grass mowed lol ^_^

I keep trying to shave down there but I always end up with little bits of hair left even with a new razor.... I guess maybe I'm not going close enough to the skin but I'm not the best at shaving, I've taken many cuts out of my ankles and knees, I have a 2cm scar on one ankle.... I cut it as short as I can get it though.

its interesting to see how (it would appear) plenty of women associate pubic hair (especially untrimmed) with woman/adulthood, and the lack of pubic hair with preteen age. While it is an understandable association, it is important to realise a lot of men do NOT have this association, so please dont accuse guys that prefer trimmed/shaved of wanting to have sex with kids.

For guys, I think it comes down to a few things:
1) visuals - while a guys genitals rise above (pun intended) the bush in all but extreme cases, a girls private parts are obscured by pubic hair. Men in general tend to be quite visually oriented (which is why guys tend to prefer visual porn while women often prefer dirty novels) and its not really a turn on when you can't see where you're going.
2) Hygiene - the reason humans are mostly hairless but still have pubic hair is to trap smells/scent. Supposedly to attract a mate but in these days its just gross. Ofcourse, proper personal hygiene mostly voids this issue, but many guys still associate untrimmed pubic hair with a lack of hygiene.
3) Convenience - a lot of guys like to go down on a girl. Guys DONT like getting hair in their mouth/teeth. Its just not appealing and it is very annoying. Shaving/trimming greatly reduces this.

Also, it is completely fair for a woman to expect a guy to trim or even shave his pubes - excess bush is gross regardless of gender. And if you are worried about looking like a preteen, leave a landing strip or something.

...wow, pubes are serious business...

Um, the whole reason we even have pubes is for hygiene...so dust and weird shit don't get up there. Also, if you have lots of sex/contact after you just shaved, you'll itch like hell and possibly get an infection. Yeah, shaving is a LOT more hygenic...

All these men (and even women! omfg!) who are disgusted by pubic hair are making me want to puke.

Yes, we all agree, it shouldn't be a jungle. It should be "tamed." But if you're saying that all women should shave it all down there, you obviously are insensitive. Do you have any idea how much it HURTS to have a man banging against that area after it's shaven? We don't rub and irritate your face after you shave it.

Please take a look at the link at the bottom of my post (the "www") Maybe then you'll understand.

take his advice... it's always better to shave. I shave every other day, just do it in the shower. And btw #66... it hurts if you do a shitty job at shaving... and shave in the morning so it won't a problem at night. And also I'm a dude and I'm not disgusted by pubic hair, I just prefer the smooth ride. When I shave everything gets shaved down there, it drives my gf crazy ;)

#64 is a winner

Pubes in your nose and mouth are gross so a trim is a must, otherwise I could just as well lick my cat ... it's a pussy, smells like fish and purrs when you give it pleasure ...

#67, why do you think it's the same for men and women? Your hair is never in contact during sex as much as women's hair. And what shitty job at shaving? You don't think we're bad at shaving our legs are we? We can shave as carefully as we want, and it'll still hurt because that skin is so sensitive and gets so much rubbing during sex.

The only plausible choice I see is waxing, but that sounds so painful I'd cry before I even step foot in the salon.

What #64 said.

Oh lord, here we go.

Seriously, though, who wants to make bets on when jandersoniii is gonna show up?

Douche. You should've taken his pants off and said the same. Or if he was shaved told him that his penis was small, or some other insult to his manhood. Jerk.

People DO realize the difference between trimming and shaving though, right? Shaving implies ALL of the hair gone.... so while personally I do agree that keeping it neat down there is essential for all sexes, shaving isn't necessarily a must. Personally I hate it because I feel like an 8 year old, regardless of the whether my partner feels the same.

Also, #64, while I do agree about the visual stimulation with men thing, do you lick a woman's labia when you eat her out? Maybe you do... but I usually go for the clitoris, which is not covered by hair and can be easily seen if you just look.

And you can get pubes in your mouth from giving oral to guys, too. It's equally gross.

I hope you left! What a dumbass.

@#64 i agree excess pubes on any gender is gross

If it was alot then YDI i mean would it really hurt to shave or a tleaset trim

Some of us have skin that is too sensitive.

YDI, I don't see what is so hard about shaving all that shit off...and keeping up with it everytime you shower...when you do that it takes like 10 seconds, and you never have to worry about looking like a damn cave woman. Even though I'd never have to worry about being in this situation...I couldn't even imagine letting a guy go down there if I was all hairy and disgusting. If I skip ONE day of shaving, I dont even let my boyfriend down there!

#73: not all woman have a large clitoris and it can in fact by covered by quite a bit of hair, and while its usually the best place to get a woman to climax, the labia can help some women get going when their clitoris is too sensitive.

also, you're absolutely right pubes in your mouth is just gross (regardless of gender) which is why it should be avoided at all cost (by removing said hair).

oh and #70, shaving your legs is nowhere near similar to shaving your face or private areas. If you use the same technique, no wonder it hurts. As long as you use a high quality razor, shaving cream and shave WITH the grain, it should be fine.

Or wax ofcourse, but that has always seemed painful to me...

I find it interesting that Americans refer to their genitalia as "junk" whereas the local slang here would be "family jewels". Says a lot about the American human condition...

YDI For not shaving. A little bit doesn't matter, but a lot is a HUGE turnoff. Especially for foreplay - no one wants to pause and pull a hair from their mouth.

How is this an FML????

#72 - Soon. I hope. I'll give it an hour.
Jandersoniii where are you?

Well at least next time you'll be smart enough to shave!

hahahaha maybe you should shave that shit then!!!!!!!!!!

why dont you shave? this is clearly your fault not his...

Jeez, what a dick. Tell him to shave.

the media system has convinced everyone that shaving is sexier.

pube shaving actually started in the 80's with gay porn stars.

NATURAL IS BETTER, STOP LETTING THE MEDIA AFFECT YOUR PREFERENCES!

Whether YDI or not really depends on what he was complaining about
if you have a fully unkempt bush, then yes YDI for not at least trimming to keep the jungle down to a respectable level
but if you have done such and he was complaining about the presence of any pubes even if they were well kept, the still YDI for dating such a prude

this shave stuff is just fashion style...
believe me.... in less than 10 years, hairy pussehs like in the 80´s or even 70´s will be fashionable again.

I'm a dude and I keep my area in check. It's just common courtesy. Nobody wants to floss twice.

Many women still don't shave (or wax, whatever). My younger sister learned the hard way when she had an infected hair that swelled up to the size of a jellybean. That guy is well on his way to alienating himself from available pussy. And he deserves it.

I'm sick of reading all these posts saying it's so easy to shave down there. Not for everyone. I have really thick hair, and it sucks to shave down there. I'd rather sleep in an extra 15 minutes than worry about having to shave each day. Plus because it's thick it itches when it grows back in.

I do keep it trimmed nicely though. That's the most I'm going to do. It's my body and if other people don't like it, tough.

Oh and #8, did you take a survey or something? I call BS on that.

haha so wait you started SHITing while about to have sex????????? and how do you shave your feces anyways?

lol.. actually 65 is right about the hygiene thing. Hair is not there to "trap" smells or sent. It's there to protect!
and 79.. Oh, shut up. Are you really trying to analyze American society because someone referred to their genitals as "junk?"

79 - meh, we call them the family jewels in the US, too -- just depends on preference.

and OP, do whatever you're comfortable with, because there will always be people who like it that way no matter what you choose.

Both men and women should groom before going on a date. It's a general rule that if you think someone is going to be seeing your fun place, you should clean it up as courtesy to the other person.

I'm not specifically talking to you OP nor am I saying hair on a woman is gross, this is just a heads up to everyone.

Your body and your choice. He's an ass.

Having hair down there is natural, obviously. But liking girls to shave doesn't make you a pedophile. I don't think a woman should have to shave down there if she chooses not to, and he was an ass to say it to you in such a harsh way. On the other hand, if it was highly excessive hair, then maybe you could just trim it back? I mean, I have no problem with a guy having hair, but I also shave myself because I prefer to keep it neat. If a guy said he preferred bush I would grow it out, it all comes down to preference really.
But all in all, he was a bastard, whatever his preference was.

You don't *have* to shave. Especially if he doesn't, then he has no room to talk.

That being said, good hygiene is important. If you choose not to shave, at least keep things neat and tidy and not disgusting.

IF this FML is even real...
YDI if you still gave him some. I get the feeling you will continue to let him put you down and you will continue to provide him with pleasure until you find the next guy to spread your legs for.

#3 yes i do i swim and i shave every part of my body except my head and eyebrows so i think i know what its like...to the op...dont have a rainforest down there at least keep it neat

Wow. Personally, every time I wax or shave, I get a rash, so forget that. Too, we're freaking human. Animals if you will... If a guy doesn't like my hair, then he won't get any from me. My guy's response is: "It's your body and it's beautiful. Why change it?"

Correct dude was correct. Shave that shit, no one wants to have to bushwack to get some.

I like what #48 said.
#65 has a point too.
Basically, this whole shaving thing is nothing more than a fad. Soon enough hair will become a sign of adulthood again. Culture is always changing.
It's hard for some women to shave down there. It's a very sensitive area. Waxing your crotch? Can you imagine how painful that would be?
But, if you've got a bush, that's not okay either. Keep it trimmed, at least. If anyone's got a problem with that, then they're obviously not for you.

Really? i'd be like Nigga do u want some or not (no offense ) :P #103 do you shave? it's QUITE annoying. esp for girls....

Why didn't you shave before your date...especially if you thought you might be getting some

#99 shaving has nothing to do with hygiene as long as you take showers quite often. Shaving isn't even necessary its just a cultural thing. As was stated. People over seas don't shave shit. They barely take showers.

agree with #5

all these women who say its hard to shave or leaves a bad rash, i shave every other day. i have no problems with it. in fact if i ever do let it grow out at all it starts getting itchy and uncomfortable. i prefer to shave. but i do expect my boyfriend to shave as well otherwise i wont go down on him. guys shouldnt expect girls to shave if they dont.

sorry to be a forum troll.. but #109 Everyone is different.

I shave for myself, my boyfriend likes it but that's just an added bonus - I don't expect him to do it. Also, it's very hygenic, especially when you're on your period. Saves it all getting ikky and stuck down there.

It's not hard to do, only takes a few minutes, but it can leave a rash and if you shave too soon, it can be rather painful. Lads - imagine shaving a day or two after you already shaved. It can get sore.

We dont actually know JUST HOW MUCH down hair south we are talking about here - everyone keeps jumping to conclusions, and saying itz a Jungle down there! Im a guy, and I say I like a well kept hedge too - but the dude in this story was an arrogant cockhead - you'd already cooked him dinner - and then he wanted to criticize you?! Fucking knob jockey - tell him to fuck off, and learn some respect... And raise your standards, stop chasing dickheads who dont give respect...

Pubic hair is natural sweetie! Having hair does not make your pubes unclean, but natural. It's your choice. If he thought it was gross move on to someone who doesnt. I know plenty of guys who do not care.

Shaved genitals did not come into 'fashion' until porn stars started doing it in the early 90's. Before then you had hair. Look at old Playboy magazines and you will see. It's your personal choice and I dont see a problem with it

i agree with #65. next time i'd just trim it up a little if you know you might get some, but shaving gets so fuckin itchy

YDI.

I've never heard of anyone saying "Omg! You're SHAVED? Gross!" when presented the opportunity.

If I'm going to risk a piece of sharp metal around my dong and nut sack for the sake of courtesy, you better believe I expect the same in return.

I'll even raise you one: I shave my ass too--both crack and cheeks. Say "Goodbye, dingleberries!"

i would like to point out that it does not take five minutes to shave down there for a girl especially when you havent done it in a while. I'm not saying this girl should leave it all natural, I believe in shaving, but I do see why she wouldn't its annoying trying to get all the spots down there especially since not everyone is flexible enough to get allllllllll the way down there. I agree with most ppl, if the guy doesn't enjoy it the way it is then fuck it and move on.

I don't know, I've never been with an unshaven girl who didn't have a fishy scent about them. If it's clean, then pubes are fine either way. Whatever works.

Shaving for women is difficult? I don't see how it's more or less difficult for women then men, I really don't. A little hair isn't bad, but it it sticks up more than a little less than an inch it can be disturbing... Honestly I have a guideline, if it's hairy I won't complain but I also won't go down on ya :-D.

@116 - It only takes me 5 minutes to shave, even if I haven't done it in a while, lol. Oh, I'm a girl btw, lol.

Shave your #$%^

The dude's an asshole.

hey if girls can complain about facial hair we can certainly ask for a clean pu***. the most disappointing thing is finding out the girl you're about to get with has a huge bush

@93 - We should probably keep sixth graders off this website.

#3, it's easy for you guys. For us men, we have all the nooks and crannies to go around if we want to shave.

you deserve it, why would you want the rain forest jungle between your legs? thats just disgusting

you should. it not a big deal to do it...

Thats kind of horrible....But take it like this; now you know what that one particular douche thought so now you know to shave between your legs. Take it as constructive critism. I'm sorry that must have hurt a little bit on the inside hahaha.

No one likes a bush

He sounds too dainty to fuck, anyway.

I actually find a bush kina sexy. I don't shave my balls, females shouldn't have to unless their guys REALLY want them 2

Oh and wait a minute--he "invited" you to come over and cook dinner FOR him, and then had the nerve to bitch about your bush? OMG. Quit playing up to this fool's ego.

3 and 5, took the words right outta my mouth

ha everyone's so angry that he said something about the bush. have you people ever seen a full one, or are you all the all-natural type? it can get to be a fucking rainforest down there, complete with humidity and fuckin spider monkeys.

This whole hypocritical shit is total bull. Basically girls should be clean and guys should be free to choose their preferences. Do you like giving hand jobs? no? Do you like getting Hand jobs? yes? well then your a goddamn hypocrite.

Thank you, #5 !
As long as it's clean, guy shouldn't care, you should try giving a blowjob to hairy guys.
I'm a girl and i just cut a bit so it doesn't cover too much (my fiancé got a little injury on his penis because it was too long one, you know, paper cut etc

Firstly, I love what number 5 said, very sweet.

Secondly, I need to clarify the difference between hygiene and over maintained. I think there is the expectation that a woman should be completely shaved/waxed bare. If a woman leaves everything to grow like a jungle, your right- it is not clean, it’s not healthy for the woman or her male partner. However waxing it or shaving it all off is even more unhealthy because not only does it led to painful in-growns, it also leads to common vaginal infections such as the typical yeast infection because there is lo longer any pubic hair protecting the vulva. Hopefully this answers why women have the ‘fishy’ smell- it’s a yeast infection.

What is real hygiene? A bikini wax and a really good trim, still a slight hassle, but definitely the cleanest, sexiest look and feel.

Guys, same to you, a really nice trim is more than sufficient :)

people are saying he's a hypocrite, but there's no indication whether he did or not. the idea is that it at the very least needs to be trim, otherwise it's disgusting. in fact, i've had this discussion with a bunch of my friends, and ALL of them hate the forest and make sure they don't have one.

#5: dude it's not really the balls, there's not as much hair there. but around the dick, THAT's where you trim. seriously.

It should be trimmed.

bottom line.

shave it on a special occasion, but if he has to dig to find it, then its a problem.

Hahaha. That's funny, but it's messed up. I'm sorry he said that to you.

shaved it out of style.

Ugh, sorry that happened. But just for the record, you don't have to shave it all, just trim it at least.

No one likes pubes in their mouth.

#5. I love you

YDI. Seriously, no guy wants to go down on a hairy pussy.

you gotta keep the hedges trimmed, thats not that tough to do

#3 - amen.

Don't shave. Do what YOU want with your pubes.

#27- Men have been eating pussies for centuries with no problems. Not until recently have they become pansies in that area. The whole "I'll eat it as long as it doesn't look like a pussy, smell like a pussy or taste like a pussy" attitude is just unmanly and is a complete turn off.


The best oral comes from men who love to do it and taste it. To the OP, I've had different kinds of men down there and trust me, this guy sounds like the type that you hope finishes really fast so you can leave. Nothing to miss out on.

You should have been like "I'll shave when you shave". And then really, you should have walked out. If you didn't that is.
Make him regret saying that.

i can't find who said it anymore, but someone pointed out that oral was much more likely if you are neat and clean. and that is true true true. so for me the hassle is worth it.
however, what the definition of "neat and clean" is is up to you. and the guy you're about to have sex with, obvi.

lol. this is rediculous.
me, and im pretty sure most other guys, wouldn't have said anything if the hair was at least short/well maintained. but for ANY

wow, fuck, continuing from my last post (#150)


...but for ANY guy, no matter how much of a douche bag, to say that is ridiculous unless it is way out of control down there. nobody is going to jeopardize their chances at getting some by saying something like that unless there was wayyy to much hair down there.

therefore, YDI for not even trimming in the past several years.

wow, he sounds like a loser, i hope you didnt give him any. just to add my 2 cents to the discussion...i won't turn a shaved guy down if i otherwise like him...but i definitelyl prefer fur, on face and balls...so not everyone is a shaving freak, although i shave. i guess i do hold a double standard for women. its not fair and im not sure whats up with it, but i play into it...i do agree that this guy would have prbly been an AWFUL lay. but if you do something unconventional (like not shaving) you have to live with the consequences and go for unconventional guys...

#115, I actually dated a guy for a few months who preferred hair - not a bush, but neatly trimmed. He thought being completely shaved was gross. Everyone has a preference.

If you are just going to hook up with someone then you should expect anything.
However if it's someone you are talking to, and aren't being a slut with with then topics like this should be covered.
No hair is my preference.
It is not that much of a hassle.
for the girls who said it's a hassle, I say stop being lazy.

People have different likes.

#24 - Obviously the face isn't nearly as sensitive as the nether regions. They also don't have to shave anything else (e.g. legs, armpits, anywhere else, even though armpit hair on anyone is fuckin gross).

I man-scape, and yes, that shit can get quite uncomfortable. The twig-n-berries are constantly prodded with every step, sometime ingrown hairs if you're not careful. Like it's been said, good hygiene is just a good policy. The guy was a dick about it, but don't take so much offense towards the truth.

LMAO WHAT A LEGEND!

#24 and #64 are the only two making sense on this page. It's perfectly fine for a women to have pubic hair, but naturally it should be kept neat and trimmed. That's simple hygiene. As for pain with shaving, for most of my life, I never shaved. Then I started dating a guy who, at one point, mentioned he preferred it. I surprised him one day by shaving. I wasn't necessarily planning on keeping it that way, but I noticed how much cleaner and less smelly it was in general (no matter how well I washed before). Now I shave entirely for my personal preference, and there is no pain or razor burn so long as I moisturize properly. I just wish people who don't shave wouldn't look down so much on people who do. It has nothing to do with preferring a prepubescent look, it's just better hygiene and it makes for better sex in my experience.

i shave.
i feel nasty if i dont

If he shaves his pubes then I have no problem with his comment. If he doesn't, then you should have kicked him in the balls.

What a jerk. Shaving is a personal preference. He could have been a bit gentler about it. A guy once asked me if I'd ever considered shaving and said the area would be more sensitive if I did. That's the way to do it.

it all depends on how you look down there, if its like a jungle then you should think about trimming it up, there is nothing wrong with shaving it, there is also nothing wrong with having hair, all those people who are calling it prepubescent are saying that because they feel like a pedophile, which they probably are, or afraid they might be so it scares them, anyways, do what you have to do.

#3 do you realize how much of a pain it is for guys to shave? YDI, I dont like to floss while I eat, I'm sure the girls dont either. SHAVE THAT SHIT! I expect my girls to be shaven, and in turn I shave myself. Everything is cleaner that way.

#147 You are correct. Oral sex on women has been document in Ancient Rome, Greece, Medieval Europe and Africa without regards to pubic hair. It is only because porn stars started shaving that it became the "in" thing for girls to do.

Newsflash, pubic hair has a purpose. Shaving/waxing is not worth the pain of razor burn or an ingrown hair. As long as you wash before sex than there will be no smell

P.S. a fishy smell from a woman's genitals does not come for the external vulva but the enternal vagina. Fishy smell means you have a bacterial infection and need to see your gyno ASAP. Too much sperm left in the vagina after sex, antibiotics et al will throw off the pH level in the vagina and cause the fishy odor

well i think YDI.. c'mon if u knew there was a chance of getting some.. you couldnt took the time out and shave ur beaver?.. apparently u would take the time to get hair done, make up and etc... but not at least trim down there? shoot i am a mom and college student...i manage to keep it at least trim but i always try to keep hairless... just invest 5 mins every day and you wouldnt be in that position!

lol @ everyone this is tff. she made a bad choice, with a clearly immature guy. life goes on...not an FML
this can be fixed....stop sleeping around and find someone that likes you the way you are or at least motivates you to change your thinking on shaving

maybe you DO need to shave that area. nobody likes a hairy jungle vajay-jay lol

#66 is doin' it rong, and ROFL @ #69.

Also yes, for a lot of guys being shaven is a big turn-on.

#5, Dude, I Worship Your Comment! I Back You Up 100%

Here's The Fact: Your Body, You Do Whatever You Want With It, Shaved Or Not Shaved.IDC. My Guy Doesn’t Have To Do Anything.

If You REALLY LOVED The Person, You Honestly Wouldn't Give A Fuck.

Here' Something Everyone Forgot To Mention: You Are Not Having Sex With Someone Depending On How Much Hair They Have, You Are Having It Because Of Love.

Today's Generation Is So Fucked Up. Nuff Said.

#3 Do WOMEN have any idea how much of a hassle it is? you got a field, be got a mountain and two hills to work around. How bout you try shaving YOUR balls. and Idc about pubs but i wanna be able to see the clit.

Your body is YOUR body. He can jerk it if he doesn't like your bush; someone else will. And if you DIDN'T get dressed and leave, you deserved what you got and worse.

lol at #105 and I agree so much with #147. If you're so unmanly you're going to squeal at the sight of hair I am not interested.

There was no way this guy is hot enough to fuck under any circumstances. There's nothing wrong with telling a chick that you'd like to eat her out if she shaves and offer to assist. Believe me, most girls will gladly do shave for some head. However, if a guy acts *frightened* by pussy hair (like this guy clearly was), then he is definitely a bit gay as #5 said. Obviously the only way he can get it up for a girl is if she looks like she has porn pussy and that's only because he's really picturing the big dick that is fucking her. GAY.

Take note boys, if you too are scared of pussy, just come out already. JUNE IS COMING OUT MONTH.

it realy makes me sick to hear there are girls who dont shave, i'm not into 7 year old girls but i still think bald is hot, its cleaner and i gives more of a "smooth ride".... and i drive a 63 impala lowrider i know alot about "smooth riding" xD

and YDI for doing it on the first date, wait a month or something dont be easy to get

Shave ur damn pussy, bitch...end of story.

YDI for not shaving that shit.

So he likes having sex with hairless children?

Well, he could have been a little more tactful about it.

#3 is right.
Plus, the guy is kind of an asshole...
He could have said it in a nicer way.

Okay, shaving it is quite painful (red and itchy bumps). Waxing it is even worse. We're not suffering so you have fun. We're giving you sex, can't you just accept that?

I agree with #138.

# 69 for the win

wtf! why is anyone defending her? I would U-turn this chick so fast if she had any bush!

Just because a guy wants his chick to be shaved doesn't mean he's a pedo, it just means that he doesn't want ur pubes in his face when hes going down on you or scratching his dick when you're having sex. Besides...who wants to look at a bush??? that shit is a big turn off for most guys

I prefer shaved. I don't say shit about it to girls I get with, though. Just seems more hygienic and makes my job easier.

No, I don't shave. I would be a hypocrite if I asked others to change while not changing myself, but alas, I do not.

Also, it's funny that the "omg he likes sex with hairless children" is pretty much preempted and refuted already in the passage, but people still come in and say it.

If I don't shave my face, someone's going to bitch, and the proper response isn't "what do you like hairless children or something?"

What an asshole. To hell with him.

Personally I like myself hairless too. However, the itch and irritation that rages on in the area for days afterwards just make it not worth it. I keep it neat and trimmed. Anyone who has a problem with that can go fuck himself.

#17 just wanna say that i am a part french chick curently living in france and my bush is trimed, my armpits clean, my legs smooth and i have no moustache. and having lived in the usa as well i've found that french girls were much more hygienic and appearance conscious than american's. :)
although i must admit i like hairy guys and i do think completely hairless v are gross.

You sound exactly like my slutty ex housemate.

Nasty.

Jeez, shave. No one wants to see a hairy pussy.

That's hilarious!! I actually laughed out loud.
Really stupid of him, you be who you want to be :D

you should take him up on that advice

It's actually rather hard to shave down there. But if it's a bloody forest, you definitely need to do something about that. Like trimming.

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Sounds like he cockblocked himself. What a moron. He should've said it AFTER the act.

Look, to both sides of the argument as to if it's hard to shave or not- IT DEPENDS ON THE PERSON. Some people get razor burn more easily then others. Personally I get horrible razor burn. I still shave, but it does happen, and it's not comfy. My bf gets it too. My best friend miraculously never gets any. Stop thinking that just because something is true for you means it is for everyone!

Secondly I still don't understand why people have to apologize for their naturalness. Yes, I shave, and I prefer to be shaved, but that doesn't mean everyone does or even should. People who demand others to shave have insecurity problems with their own looks.

To all the women saying "Wah Wah Wah Shaving is SOOO HARD" I used to have the same problem. I never wore bikinis because of it, which was frustrating for me because I do have a moderately cute body and otherwise DO feel comfortable in a bikini. So after 21 years of being unable to shave (due to it being so thick) I got it waxed. It is not that bad. And it will solve your problems. Stays clean for about 4-6 weeks and grows back finer, I know it sounds like a myth that hair can grow back thinner, but mine did.

It really pisses me off when people call it a prepubescent look. My body has curves. Even without hair I look womanly. You'd have to have no hips, no breasts and be baby faced in order for it to look prepubescent. My guy shaves down there for me, and yet I love his hairy, manly chest. Just because I don't want to choke on a curly hair when I go down on him doesn't mean I want to go down on a 5 year old.

The OP didn't specify if she's hairy or not down there or how bad her "condition" is. And unless she was well trimmed down there we can assume the guys just an asshole. But calling someone "sick" because they like the look/feel of a shaved genitals, whether it be male or female, is stupid.

shut up 193, just because no one will sleep with you doesn't mean other people shouldn't have sex.

OP you DO need to shave that shit.

Oh and another thing. Shaving is not hygienic. It is purely cosmetic. It might be unhygienic if it doesn't get washed regularly...but assuming it does...it can be unhygienic to shave actually because of the risk of rashes and ingrown hairs.

Guess who's not getting any any time soon..."CUTE GUY"!

You don't deserve to fuck if you can't accept hair.

u whore

I shave because my boyfriend LIKES me to, and also because I kinda like it myself; however, a guy who wants a one night stand has NO right to even mention it. The jackass.

i don't understand people that judge hairless people and suggest that it's a bad thing by calling it "prepubescent." Perhaps I should stop shaving my underarms and legs too because I didn't used to have hair there either in my "prepubescent" days....its a personal choice, the hair down their gives me the creeps and i find it really itchy. However, I cannot shave due to a highly sensitive area. I start bleeding and everything if i try to shave. I have to wax, but unfortunately, it has to grow some in order to do that so if someone were say "shave that shit" and give me attitude in between waxes, i'd tell them to go F themselves...

Bush is only good in terms of music. In terms of hair growth, running backs, and presidents, stay clear.

lmao what an ass.

What a jerk, though sadly his type is all too common.

Shaving is personal preference. If you don't like shaving, you shouldn't feel pressured to do so. If you like shaving, then that's perfectly fine, too. Now, if you prefer your partner shaved/not shaved, you can politely suggest that if they do a bit of trimming or let it grow out, it would be really sexy and special, and you'd really appreciate it ;)

But going "You need to shave that shit" is bloody rude and disrespectful. Particularly at that moment in time. Be glad you're even invited to the party; if you can't suck it up and deal with a bit of hair, you're obviously not worth the time nor effort.

And for those saying that having a full bush isn't hygienic, it's only as hygienic as you make it. All it takes is splashing some water on the vulva and running your fingers through the hair whenever you have a shower (don't use soap, though. It can irritate the skin and throws the pH level off, increasing the chances of infection). If you have a strong smell coming from your crotch even after washing, odds are there's something going on and you should see a doctor.

Plus the hair, as I recall, is there to stop bacteria from actually reaching the vagina. The bacteria that get trapt on the hair would otherwise be transfered directly onto the vulva, and from there it would be easy to enter the vagina (particularly if the woman is sexually active) and trigger a yeast infection.

But in the end, it all comes down to personal preference. It's that plain and simple. If a woman doesn't want to shave, it's her decision; you have no right to insult her and her body for that choice.

That's what ur Ass Gets for being a hoe on the 1st date. What did u expect. P.S. The guy is a jerk too, but most of em are.

It doesn't matter if you shave, get a bikini wax, or a Brazilian, but you need to at least trim it...who wants to choke on hair balls as they are going down on you? This is the 21st Century people, clean up down there!

@ #198
It servers a purpose other than just looking clean. as 196 mentioned, a girl doesn't want to get curly pubes in her mouth anymore than a guy going down a girl does. Males/females should shave if they enjoy oral sex...which is probably everybody. The date said that because he wanted to go down on her.
Shaving makes oral sex 10x better both ways, giving and receiving.

I'm a girl, and I don't understand why so many other girls think guys want a prepubescent look when they say that. Girls, why do you shave your armpits then? Or your legs? Or your upper lip? After all, only KIDS are hairless there...

Body hair just isn't attractive on woman. And if you're like me, it isn't on guys either, but I'm sure that varies. Heheh

# 42,
you might say that no one cares about cosmetics.
but im sure, if you saw all the chicks you know, without makeup.
you'd probly be pretty sicked out..
i know lots of girls who appear gorgeous, and then they take it off..
its like.. ew.. :\
and as to this FML.. its not like you HAVE to shave.. your choice.
im'a say, yeah i do? i just think its cleaner, or looks cleaner.
but did you knooow, everything on your bod is there for a reason. and so is the pubes.. this is sick, but it keeps moisture in, its not supposed to be dry. jusssssssst sayin (: ! ahhaha.

YDI for not being prepared knowing that it could happen. or you're gonna tell me you didnt know you were gonna have sex with him when you went to his house to have dinner?

You disgust me

"it realy makes me sick to hear there are girls who dont shave"

I need to stop reading FML comments, they are so depressing. It makes me sick to know there are males out there that are so brainwashed, they need girls to stick blades to their genitals in order for them to be attractive.

And all the people saying to shave down there? Your vulva feels like shit compared to a waxed one, why don't I say you're all disgusting for not waxing instead?

Applause to 24... Well enough said.

Well that's why it's usually advised not to jump into bed with people you don't know.

People who know you are more likely to be accepting while a stranger on the street.. might not.

I'm a girl and I personally feel really gross when I don't shave down there. Especially during that time of the month.

i can only imagine how it was down there

Maybe next time don't have sex on the first date.....

Haha, look at all those people who want girls to be ready for a one night stand. When you love someone you can get over stuff like an unshaven vagina, so the reason you guys expecting girls to shave is because you don't love them, you just use them for the night.

For OP: I don't care if you shave or not, I got my preferences but I'm not sleeping with you. But you deserve it for having sex so fast: he doesn't love you yet, love comes later in a relationship, it takes time. So I think you should not had expected too much respect from him, you should had seen something like this coming... It wasn't nice from him to say that, but that is what is going to happen if you give your intimacy so easily to someone else. If you play with knives, expect to get cut one day.

Any guy who demanded that I shave completely before he went down on me, would not be getting any from me. I wouldn't go down on him, unless he was completely shaved in that case.

Luckily for me I've only dated guys who genuinely liked me for who I am, and aren't put off by neatly trimmed hair down there. I'm trimmed, not shaven. Having some hair is more hygenic, and speaking as a bisexual woman, I'd rather the girl I went down on myself had a bit, than the frankly scary bald look

..#64 nuff said
seriously lol but yeahh i agree.

oh who cares! that's rude, and i don't understand how this is a FML unless you also think pubes are gross and forgot to shave. if you do think pubes are gross, that's pretty stupid. some men prefer unshaved or trimmed to porn-star smooth. personally, i think my vag looks like an alien when i shave.

i hope you left after he said that. since this was just a booty call, perhaps you two should have filled out a little questionaire beforehand.

I shave my balls, and i expect a shaven pussy in return. End rant.

trim yo bush guuurl! it's practically common courtesy.
especially if you knew you might have a possibility of getting somewhere with this boy.

I'd expect him to do the same.

FUCK YOU #19 & #30, your lucky to be getting any AT ALL.

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAH!!!!!! But that's still nasty, yo... or atleast wax it... trim it even, jus don't go as she-man wit a jungle down there.

some people have snesitive skin and are prown to ingrowns.. and waxing doesnt help this

shoulda walked outta there. beggars cant be choosers.

ii think women everwhere should boycott it :D

um, this guys an asshole. he could have told you in a nicer way. i really hope you slapped him or at least left his ass. but i would start shaving or waxing down there...just a suggestion.

no need to shave. girls that wanna go through that hassle, God bless them, but guys dont need to be any more spoiled. we spend so much time and money on makeup and hair products trying to beautify ourselves but its never enough. now were obligated to shave our pussies? and we have such great motivation too... "shave that shit". jeeze.

You shouldn't have to shave, unless it's incredibly thick. If it's really thick then just trim it with scissors. Believe me even a trim makes it much better and more comfortable.

cleanshaven pussies are a privelage not a right.
men dont have no respect these days

you gotta keep the runway clear of obstruction. or at least trim
its common courtesy

you knew there was a date and didn't trim? don't think much of yourself do you?

bushes are gross. take care that.

YDI for having sex on what you describe as a first or second date.

Also, for not shaving.

Take his suggestion, clean that up.

Why is looking like a nine year old girl so attractive?
Kinda weird, don't ya think

It's kind of funny to read all of the FMLs that turn into arguments over whether or not a woman should shave her nether regions. I stopped participating in them after the first couple ones. The arguments always follow the same pattern, and there are always the same ignorant assholes in every debate. Ho Hum.

Although I will say the people in this one have been more polite than in debates past.

Ok so anyone who's saying shaven girls are like little prepubescent girls is an idiot. It's not that, I wanna see what I'm workin with.

Saying it's too difficult to shave or hurts, learn to do it right. All the girls I've slept with in the last 3 years have been completely shaven without any bumps or irritation and they do it either every day or every other day. So shut it and learn. I shave myself (sack and all) daily and only have irritation if I am hungover or drunk and fuck it up.

Also anyone saying she's a slut because she has sex without "love" (as some of you call it) fuck off and grow a pair. Sex is for more than just making babies or showing someone you care. Sometimes it just fucking rocks and gets a good time in. All you fucks need to either find someone who knows wtf they are doing and/or take yourself and sex less seriously, it's damn fun and a great workout if you do it right.

Shaven is more visually appealing because you can actually see something more than a disgusting rat's nest of hair. This goes for both male and female.

ugh, all these people saying it's easy and all these other people saying it's difficult/annoying to shave.
Has anyone considered that it's different for different people? I think not. Why? Because we like to argue.

I'm 100% Sure Jesus Had Pubic Hair. I See No Complains About It In The Bible.

Seriously People, It's Just Hair. Get. Over. It.

Why not have women born hairless from the neck down, it would save a lot of time from shaving it all. Anyway, trimmed is the minimum requirement. Shaving is your call, since its your body. The guy doesn't like it, he can go fuck someone else. I myself have very sensitive skin (especially down there), so trimming it is for me. I've tried shaving on several occasions, but it never ends well. I already shave my arms, legs, and armpits. Seriously, I'm not going to stress over one area that can be optionally shaved. It's all about preference!!!!!!!!

When I've tried to shave my pubic hair, I've gotten large, painful, pus-filled ingrown hairs within a day. I don't think I'm doing it wrong. I just think people's skin sensitivity/hair texture is highly varied. And waxing, leaving the entire issue of pain out of the question, is too expensive for some people to do consistently. I'm not against discretionary grooming for aesthetic purposes, but no girl deserves to be made to feel deficient for something that is a matter of personal preference and possibly not entirely under her control.

Sex is not some Purelled, standardized activity, and if you think too hard about any of it it's not too difficult to get unnecessarily grossed out (proximity to pee/excrement, sexual discharges getting on things). If you don't make hair an issue, it doesn't have to be, and to me at least it's less disturbing than really bad ingrown hair, which frankly looks like some sort of rare STD.

ROFL agree with #2

what color panties were they?

thats because the bible is a fictional story 241.

I said that once to a girl that I'd known and liked for years after we finally got together, but I said it as a joke and was trying to make it lighthearted...she didn't react like she was too offended, but I felt bad and apologized later saying I was just trying to make a possibly awkward suggestion less awkward...maybe that's how he meant it and just didn't really know how to put it...

Most american males get circumsized at birth in the name of hygene, but WASHING does the same thing. Uncircumsized men aren't inherently dirty and the same goes to people who have pubes. Shaving is something that is fashionable right now. That's all there is to it. It only became popular in the late 80's because of pornography. Before then, shaving was done as a fetish ritual. You can find it in a lot of Victorian sex novels.

simple as this:
shave you cattt.!!

YDI for knowing you had date and being lazy and not shaving.

As long as you dont have an afro between your legs, theres nothing wrong with a little hair, its natural. So unless this is the case tell him to fuck off.

Thats so rude.

Don't expect oral when the man gets a mouth full of hair. If you're ok with that then it really doesn't matter if you shave or not.

I don't get why people are still so ignorant as to be calling shaving more "hygienic." The hair is there for a reason--quite a few reasons, actually. For one, it makes sex feel BETTER because the hair reduces friction; so, unless you like "Indian Rug Burns" on your crotch, you should probably refrain from shaving. Secondly, as many people here have said from experience, it can result in ingrown hairs and rashes, both of which are more unsightly than normal hair, not to mention the itching that you have to deal with from hair growing back in. Also, being "bare" allows for an easier transfer of STD's. Shaving is only really for vanity's sake, but that doesn't really go so well when you've got all of that to deal with, does it? Plus, once you start shaving, all the stubble that grows back makes it look so unkempt that it practically nullifies the purpose of doing so in the first place.

By the way, not even porn stars are perfectly shaved: it's called AIRBRUSHING. It's sad that girls now have to hate themselves because they can't be something that doesn't even exist...well, doesn't exist after the preteen years, anyways.

asshole D:

YDI. Everyone should shave. Ew.

#254:

- How the fuck does hair reduce friction? That makes absolutely no sense. If anything, it increases it.

- Rug burns are caused by rubbing on a rug, so how the fuck does the lack of pubes cause rug burns?

- If you shave properly, you get neither ingrown hairs nor rashes. Plus, those things can be taken care of. And honestly, I can count the number of times I've got ingrown hairs on one finger. It's really a negligible figure if you know what you're doing.

- Actually, the itching is a result of the hair, not the hair growing back in. The more you leave it, the more it itches. The itching from hair growing back in only happens the first time or couple of times.

- Dare I mention that STD's like crabs can be avoided by shaving?

- Unkempt? Lol. If you don't shave, THAT'S unkempt! You should shave regularly. Yes, hair grows back, wow, magic!

- I really don't think shaving is for girls only. Stop talking about the poor "girls" who can't keep up with artificial standards. It's just fucking disgusting, for both guys and girls. A guy who doesn't shave and expects his partner to shave is just a hypocrite.

Also, shaving prevents sweat and smelliness. So yes, it is in fact about hygiene.

241, jesus also wouldn't do girls with hairy bushes (or have razors).
break out the razors women, its what jesus WOULD do :)

To everyone saying it's disgusting if someone has hair there, STFU. It's hair. Hair isn't gross. It's just dead protein. Also, the hair is indeed there to help keep dust/random crap out of your pussy.

I personally keep mine short but don't shave. Why? It's really thick. It gets stubbly in less than a day. It's extremely sharp. To get good results, I'd have to wax. Fuck that. It's not worth the time, pain or money. Plus, I have a boyfriend who doesn't care what I do as long as I'm following my own personal preferences.

Do what YOU want. Shaving isn't sexier to everyone. In fact, I think shaved pussies can be uglier in some cases. If whoever you're doing it with has a real problem with your personal choices, they obviously don't care about what you want enough for you to be doing it with them.
EDIT: Don't let the media influence your choices. GODDAMMIT.

#254
I totally agree and I totally know what you mean by rug burn.
Imagine you shaved your pussy and you're on top of a guy and he doesn't shave. Imagine how his hair feels on your freshly shaven-already-sensitive skin. Ouch.

Why is it that girls are expected to shave down there, but guys aren't? I don't feel like having to deal with the Viridian Forest when fucking a guy.

I'm with 24. Nearly all men are expected to shave their faces or at least keep their beards from becoming tangled nightmare messes on their faces. You'd better damn well not have any preference about a guy's facial hair (or chest hair or back hair or pubic hair) if you're going to get upset about his having a preference for your pubic hair, and you'd better be just as willing to put your mouth on all those places if you expect him to put his on yours.

Personally, I have a really strong aversion to hair -- when I was a kid, I was eating Cheerios and I had to pull a big, long hair with Cheerio bits stuck to it up from my throat. So if I get a hair in my throat, I'll start gagging and dry-heaving. And hell, most people don't like getting hair in their mouth in general. So it's either fun, comfortable, uninterrupted oral thanks to shaved or trimmed pubic hair or oral punctuated by gagging and spitting because it's some weird matter of pride to have your genitals covered in shag carpet.

I'm a guy, I shave my balls, I keep my body hair trimmed, and what little of it grows on my back I make a determined effort to keep removed. I'd expect any partner to want to take care of their bodies in the same way. Just because it grows there doesn't mean it needs to grow out as long as possible -- just look at your fingernails and toenails. And while yeah, it helps retain odors and pheromones and such, you don't need giant fucking ratking mats of it.

To each his own.. or whatever.. he doesnt deserve you then if you 'arent good enough' cuz you got pubes... wow

I shave mine, I think you should at LEAST take CARE of it. I mean, I'm not going to fight a hairball to get in there. And guess what? Guys hate going down on a mouthful of hair. At least, I do.

Whatever, girl. Keep it natural, who freakin cares? And whoever does care you shouldn't be with in the first place. I wouldn't want razorblades or hot wax touching that area.

#258, Your Response Has No Evidence. He Was A Virgin. (Or So It's Claimed )

WTF? Yeah, In 12 B.C.E. They Had Razors. B.S. Back Then They Didn't Care About Hair.

well, i guess you need to shave that shit!

yay bushes :D

wow i think you should have just shaved it

+1 to #261 for the Viridian forest reference

I'm a guy who keeps it shaved. A woman with hair down there is disgusting to me, and obviously many agree with me. YDI
And shaving a jayjay is no more difficult than shaving a scrotum.

266 if he didn't shave, THATS the reason he stayed a virgin...

Look, do not pay attention to any of these unhygenic apes telling you that it is ok to have a big bush down there because it is not. It is dirty and ugly and no guy with amy taste will tap that if it has a hairline. You people out there still insist that "it's personal preference" blah blah blah? Tell me, if I grew my facial out indefinitely, without even trimming it and barely cleaning it, do you think that you (assuming that you are female) will want to even kiss me after, say, 18 months? I can bitch and whine about personal preference and free will and whatnot, but that changes nothing. You still won't want to come in contact in amy way with that beard and 'stache for any reason. So you cannot complain about this guy being an asshole for being disgusted by something that he rightfully should be. In conclusion, YDI 500%. Shave. Now.

Oh, and @ 3 - I hardly think that us guys don't know how hard it isto shave when we have to do way more than you chicks do. Get ur facts striaight.

+1 to this entire conversation about pubic hair. It's been very effective.

I really think people should do whatever is most comfortable for them. Just like you don't have to shave/trim your pubic hair, your significant other doesn't have to give you oral sex. I really think people should be okay with just trimming though. It's practically the same as far as not getting in the way. I dated someone once with really sensitive skin and if she shaved completely the area got irritated and sometimes hairs got ingrown. To me that was a lot grosser than hair itself could ever be, plus it was painful for her. It seems shallow and selfish to force your gf to go through that if it's like that for her.

I'm really disappointed jandersoniii isn't posting on here.... lol

#1: "Can you say insensitive"?

No, but I can say slut, whore, tramp, slag, cum dumpster, Paris Hilton, etc. And the same for her bf.

@273 - I wouldn't come into contact with that beard of yours because of your attitude, not the actual beard (though if you didn't even wash it, I would stay away because if you don't clean your beard, who knows what else you don't clean). As long as the guy has a good personality and keeps the beard clean, I wouldn't care how big and bushy it was. Hell, I like a man with stubble.

You're also living in a fantasy world. Newsflash: humans are mammals. Mammals are characterized by being warm-blooded and having hair. Therefore, humans, being mammals, are naturally hairy. It's human culture (particularly that in North America) that demonizes women who have hair other than on the top of their heads.

This whole conversation is rather depressing. Not only for the angry mob going after women having body hair, but everyone saying she deserved it for opting to have sex early on in the dating relationship. What about the guy? They've both been on the same number of dates together, so why shouldn't he deserve it for putting out "too early"? Not that I expect any reasonable answers, considering that the attitude is so ingrained and this is the internet, after all.

Sometimes I really wish we went the road the bonobos went and became a matriarchal species. Just look at how they settle fights, say hi, and deal with tension. That would be so much more desirable. Instead we had to follow along the road of chimps...

To Zarc: speak for yourself you knuckle-dragging, godless, depressed slave. You always have the choice in how you respond to fights, tension, etc.

wow. all these comments are real intense!

shave. no one likes hacking through the amazon to find the lost treasure. as we know from indiana jones, lost treasures are usually filled with hidden dangers as well

Lies 272! If He Wasn't A Virgin He Would Be Sinning! Never Sinned In His Life...

#3 yep. And it's no hassle. Balls area is pretty tricky but no hassle. Get with the program.

girl, SHAVE.

fucking get over it and shave! and I don't think guys are hypocrites for wanting us to shave..balls aren't the most attractive things in the whole world..I can live without seeing them hairless kthnx.

and guys aren't pedos for wanting girls to shave, youre fucking retarded if you think that. it makes sex way more enjoyable and makes oral sex even more enjoyable.

lotion will clear up the itchyness too..so no excuses.

Friggin men. I want to see what they say after they go through a session of shaving/waxing/plucking their legs, armpits, and pubes. I bet they'd shut up then.

asking you to shave down there dosent mean he's into 7 year old girls , then if u had a man with a huge beard and u ask him to shave it , wouldn't that mean your into gay men since they re all soft around the face area?

some people call it hygiene u know.

@273 I don't disagree with what you're saying, except the last bit - guys have it harder?

Um, girls have to shave/wax their legs, pits, eyebrows, etc - that's a lot more area than just your face. We also have to worry about losing weight and starving and dieting (I'm sure someone like you hates fat chicks). Do you know how long it takes most girls to put on make up and get dressed when they go out, every single time? It can take hours, yet you just have to put on a shirt and leave. Sorry you have to shave your facial hair every few days, but try going to the salon to get your whole body waxed all the time.

Girls have to be hot to get a guy's attention and spend lots of time and money trying to be that way. Someone like you would probably never go anywhere near a girl you think is ugly, and that's fine, it's your preference, but don't say that guys have it harder.

Well, I'm a girl and I shave because the hair doesn't feel comfortable, but that guy shouldn't have been so insensitive. I'm sorry girl. You know...you don't have to shave if you don't want to.

Wow. What a Romeo. So suave, so smooth, so sophisticated.

That said, if it looked like a lion's mane was growing out of your crotch, the polite thing to do would be to trim it up. Bald vaginas creep me out, but there's nothing wrong with a neatly trimmed one. Likewise if his junk looked like wild kingdom, you should've told him to clear the damn jungle. It goes both ways, folks.

you better fucking shave that shit, its fucking gross, no one likes to fuck sandpaper so shave that fucking bush if you want any real dick

@286: The solution to this is to stop trying to gussy yourselves up so damn hard just because you feel it's expected of you. Stop allowing yourselves to be manipulated by all these cultural and social influences that only ever came into being because it's so much more profitable to make a person feel insecure about themselves and inadequate than to tell them they're really not that worse off looks-wise than most everyone else. I know it's a lot easier to say than to do, but I mean... guys need to be trained to stop expecting all this needless makeup cake-on dress-up garbage from women.

Sure, maybe you won't get as many guys pounding down your door or whatever, but:

a) hell, why don't YOU take the initiative of pursuit instead? There's no rule saying guys have to be the aggressive force in a courtship ritual and that women have to be some passive entity whose job is to pretty herself up enough to be pursued.

b) do you really want a guy whose only interest in you is the result of all this fake crap that you put on that's as complicated as a suit of armor and forces you to spend hours just changing clothes? Why? What can he possibly bring to your life other than flattering your fakery?

c) just going with the flow accomplishes nothing but prolonging these useless and unfair rituals, and until women put their collective foot down and stop buying so much makeup and worrying so much about looking like unattainable ideals that we've been conditioned to believe represent "beauty", you're going to be stuck doing the same thing you're complaining about.

And chances are, you already have tons of guys' attention, but everyone's all so wrapped up in ourselves to really notice.

However, when you break it down to just shaving, there are definitely cases where guys have it worse. Like back hair, for instance -- at least you can reach your legs and armpits and pubes and (sometimes) mustache. And your hair is normally not nearly as thick as ours. So it depends on the individual, really: I can see a guy with thicker hair and more hair coverage (say on his back) having it harder than a woman with sparse puffs under her armpits who can make a few quick passes up her legs and get all the hair.

In reference to 173, and because it's June, I'd just like to let everyone know that apparently I am a homosexual because I enjoy seeing the labia and not having anything get in the way (or stuck between my teeth) during oral sex. A heterosexual man would want hair to cover everything up, hide it from sight, but that is not what I am, so I will not try to sell you lies.

My question is, who really does like a shaved vulva then? If a lesbian likes her partner shaved, is she really thinking about dick in porn and clearly a heterosexual in denial because of this? So obviously she doesn't really like shaved vulva, since she's clearly not a real lesbian, just as no heterosexual guy would like his women shaved.

He is a dick. He should have said it in a more nicer way, but yeah.. shaving is definitely better.

#3 it's not that simple for us either.

And for OP: You probably do. Shaving is common courtesy nowadays.

#276 FarSide, or should I say, Far Right Side, whoever brought god into this conversation?? I know some pretty shitty Christians who don't give a damn about anyone, and some pretty awesome athiests who are in the Peace Corp or other humanitarian efforts. Also, you're right, everyone does have the right to make their own decisions, so why are YOU criticizing hers for wanting sex? My guess is that you're bitter and have a lot of pent up sexual tension from not getting laid (ever) and use your "it's b/c i have better morals than u" crap to justify your shitty life.

#275, I would totally love to be a bonobo. "Hey was up? Let's screw." "Who are you? Let's screw." "Let's settle this peacefully... let's screw." Homosexual activity? Totally ok. Oral sex? Awesome.

And to everyone saying shaving is more hygienic.... false. Bathing in general is hygienic. I assume that when you shower, you wash ALL of your body, including between the legs? Including your beard, however long it may be. Do we say women with super long hair on their heads are dirtier? No, because they wash their hair (at least hopefully). Why should it be any different for pubic hair length? As for the "it feels better during sex" argument, that's personal preference. I've had guys brag to me about how they made their last g/f scream in ecstasy when he did X, she loved it, etc, then he tries it on me and i'm like, uhh is that supposed to feel good?? Everyone's different. Get over it.

how rude!

@289: LOL touché I guess... But it's not like is guys don't understand what a hassle it is to shave. And that goes for any body area. I'm a racing cyclist myself, and a lot of my fellow racers and I actually like to shave our legs even though we are guys. Don't anyone jump on me and call me gay or anything cos I actually can't think of a singe gay racer I know of. We shave our legs because of you go down in a crash, you often will get huge shallow abrasions where the skin is completely gone. I've seen folks with their entire sides missing (skin-wise). These "road rashes" are usually on you legs, and if you got leg hair, you are in for a painful recovery. Also, it makes the after-ride massages feel better ;)
And allow me to revise my hyperactive post #273 slightly: it's ok to give it a trim too, as long as it is maintained. I mean it's ok to have a little hair, but there is a certain point where you must draw the line. And if your bf is telling you to shave that shit, I would hazard a guess that you have way crossed that line. So the verdict stands: YDI

I think it's a bit pedofilic to want your partner to be shaved. It's just not natural for a grown up man or women to be lacking of pubic hair. If you want to trim your bush it's fine by me, but shaving it all of is just a sick ideal which shouldn't be encouraged. Second of all it's unhealthy and can lead to fungalinfection and/or urinalinfection.

to #299 and tons of others:

little girls don't have armpit hair, yet women shave all that off. leg hair too. how is pubic hair any different? i'm not trying to encourage it, but saying that it's sick and calling it pedofilic is rediculous.

personally i would say a little landing strip or something. also i think both guys and girls should do at least some trimming.

To everyone saying "suck it up and shave it, it's not THAT hard": Not EVERYONE's body reacts to things the same way others' do. It's been said here multiple times, but still I'm seeing comments about that. Fuck off and go learn a little more about people and how we're not CLONES (most of us).

I'm starting to wonder if I'm the only one who even likes body hair anymore. On guys, I think the sexiest damn thing is a beard. Not to mention I love chest and underarm hair. But that just goes to show that preferences do exist in this world. I think it's pretty disgusting when guys refuse to tend to you just because of some hair. If his face is submerged in it then I can sympathize, but LAWD FORBID a woman's body working the way it's supposed to.

FBYL for neither of you waiting long enough or bothering to discuss it before hittin' the sack.

something i would say

don't expect girls to shave if they never get head

Agreed.
Hairy muff is horrid.

If you want to sleep with him, you'll shave. If you don't want to shave, find someone else.

Shaving is a personal choice. Personally I don't see what the deal is with hair unless you're going to eat them out. It's just...hair.

Very funny and for those who say the skin is too sensitive will find the skin will toughen up if they continue to shave/wax it. And for those who say to tell him to get lost, well good luck finding a guy who really wants full grown 1970's bush in 2009. If you ever want to get laid you gotta shave that shit or at least ask the guy his preference or maybe don't sleep with someone you don't know or who is a total prick, ya, this is totally your fault.

If nothing else, get some clippers and at least shave it. Personally, I feel it's my duty to help the guy out, and keep the plate nice and clean for whoever is coming over for dinner. Just sayin.

And furthermore, I think my wrinkles, sagging boobs and stretch marks speak louder of my age and maturity than a batch of ugly pubic hair.

I love you #5. Nice to know there are guys out there who don't follow absurd double standards...

if it gets to be a jungle, shave that shit.
most guys trim their pubes every once in a while so it doesnt get that long.
and i think nowadays most girls shave it too.
from now on i call you "lion mane"

#5 is the best. Nice to know there are still some decent guys out there.

PUSSY IS PUSSY, IDIOTS!

As long as it's clean, it's all good.

Here's your red flag:

"He invited me over to make dinner at his place." Why didn't he make dinner for you? You were his guest!

FREAKIN SHAVE!!!! Any guy in his right mind will only fuck shaved pussies!!

lmao! @ # 19 i give you props thats funny shit yo

HAHAHAHHAHA as my bestfriend tells me
"How do you expect someone to eat it if it's not shaved?" LOL!

get over yourself 282...

One last thing I'll say: you can say all you want about you big bush, but I can guarantee you noting you will say can change the fact that virtually no guy will do it with you as long as it's around. The unspoken law stands that if you're gonna get laid the shave. Trim will do too, but it better be a TRIM!

Just trim. duh.

WOW 319 comments and i saw maybe 5 that actually discussed what a moron the poster is. seriously, having sex with a guy you dont even know just because he's "cute". stupiddddddd.

true love waits.

@292 (DoctorManhattan)

I knew someone was going to say all that, and completely agree with what you're saying except you're talking about an ideal situation, not how our society actually is.
"guys need to be trained to stop expecting all this needless makeup cake-on dress-up garbage from women" of course! But it's far from that in society today - and this FML proves it. If girls don't do all this crap then guys say things like "you need to shave that shit" or "ugly bitch" (as shown in other FMLs) and they don't get asked out to prom, and that hurts. Of course most of this changes when we mature at older age, but that's not what this FML is about.

a) Yes, there IS a rule. It's certainly dying out in society today, but it's still there and we can't ignore it (unless you're attracted to feminists).

b) Of course not, but how often do these guys exist? It's extremely hard to find a guy who thinks you're not attractive but still loves you. I was only speaking for the general population, I certainly don't mean it for myself. I personally have never put on make up or shaved, and was once overweight... and I have the sweetest man in my life who loves me for who I am. But I certainly can't say the same for 80% of everyone else at my college, and the girls in so many previous FMLs, I'm one of the lucky few. If one of the cheerleaders at your high school and a fat girl both asked you out to prom - who would you have said yes to at first instinct? Be honest. If you really are one of these nice guys, then all my respect is for you, but I was talking to #273 who I'm sure isn't.

c) So you're blaming women and saying it's our fault that guys only choose the hot girls first? Really? And that women should be the ones to put our foot down first, not guys? I had a lot of respect for your opinions until I read that. You say it's our fault for being manipulated by these rules. Shouldn't men be the one to stop laying down all the rules in the first place? That's like telling someone to do something and then getting mad at them for listening to you.

If you want to live in a world where all women are bra-less hairy legged feminists who refuse to cook and clean then, well, have fun with that hahaha.

And nowhere was I complaining about any of this that women have to do - most girls have fun being sexy and looking hot. All I said was that saying men have it harder with appearance is ridiculous!

Thats rude. You needed a comback like: "I suppose I could shave if I decided to, but you can't grow another inch if you wanted"

lol @ 273 thinkin he smart.....in MANY cultures men ARE judged on the size of their beard lol and it IS prefered to be longer and thicker. also LOL @222 Questionare....priceless!!!! 243 well said.

OMG


everyone should just do what they want

if u wanna bush, have a bush
if u dont, then shave it

if wanna fuck only shaven girls, fuck only shaven girls

haha 312 ur hilarious!!!!

Gross! Shave that bush.

men have dealt with bushes for 100s of thousands of years.

now look at the pussies (pun intended) we women have to deal with these days

jesus had a bush btw.
throwing it out there.

Wow, I can't believe the immature posts here.

OP: It's your body, and you should be obligated to do whatever you want with it. I don't see why people freak the fuck out when this topic pops up (ie: OMG SHAVE THAT SHIT!!!11 GROCE~!), I guess apparently they've never gone through puberty themselves or something. (Then again, I won't question some of the people's age here, because I know.) Those who are hatin' probably never got pussies IRL... only shaved/waxed pussies through tv and computer. ;)

Anyway, bottom line is, it's your choice. Don't be ashamed or embarrassed that you don't, because you're not the only chick on earth who has hair there.

Wow @ the immaturity level.

OP: It's your body, therefore, your choice. I don't see why people freak the eff out because of this topic (ie: OMG SHAVE!!! THAT'S SO GROSS!), because it apparently makes it seem like they've never gone through puberty themselves either. (Then again, I won't go questioning some of the ages here, knowing that there are kiddos/teens here.) The people who're hatin' probably do so because they've never got any IRL... just shaved ones on tv and computer. ;)

Bottom line is, it's your choice. Don't feel obligated to, nor embarrassed/ashamed because you don't. It's not like you're the only woman on the face of the earth who doesn't.

agreed ^^

guys who say that not shaving is gross have clearly never had a girlfriend

pube FMLs are really annoying.

how do they keep getting posted on this site??

fuck our lifes for having to read about ur hairy ass!
honestly..
nobody cares.
ditch the rude dude, or shave.
that simple.

He's right. Shave it. I do too.

thank you, i just snorted.

in all seriousness though...fuck him...keep your under-area hair however you want to. shaving gets to be a pain in the ass, so i understand not wanting to do it all the time.

all you that say just be natural, dont shave, its your body... have fun pleasuring yourself cause hardly any guys will touch that, its gross

Well you must be a total forest...
You must not get laid often, or else you should have known better.

I'd prefer it trimmed as well, but I wouldn't turn down sex. As Gore Vidal says, "Never turn down an opportunity to have sex or be on TV."

lmao!!! 336

He sounds like a complete and utter douchebag. I hope you told him he had to shave his too if he wants you to bring a razor blade down there.

i guess you need to shave problem solved LOL

Did your date have to pull down your hot air balloon size panties to get a look at that afro? Seriously...how old are you? In today's day and age there is no reason for pubic hair. So friggin' gross. We are not cave dwellers. We no longer need hair to protect us from the elements. Shave that shit girl. If you want a man to stick it I am sure the amount of hair is of no consequence. But, if you want a man to lick it you had better take a razor to that shit. Pubic hair on the lips is just inexcusable. Probably the only thing worse than visible panty lines and gym sock titties.

OH MY GOD! YOU DESERVED THE SHIT OUT OF THAT! having a jungle down there is just a turn off to 90% of guys

I agree with #2. As long as I don't need to work my way through a jungle, it's all good. I also shave my pubes.

You need to shave that shit... lol

You need to shave that shit... lol

damn thats harsh but now u know thats not the dude for you

damn thats harsh but now u know thats not the dude for you

Wax can be your friend.

Daaaaamn. Sorry.

lmaoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

ROFLROFLROLFLROFLROFLROFLROFL

I'm in love with #5.
Haha jk. xP

Just because a guy doesn't want to put his mouth all over some jungle that probably has fluids stuck in it doesn't mean he is gay. And YDI. If I were a guy I WOULD NOT put my mouth on that. Honestly I think pubic hair is gross, that's just my opinion. And the people who are calling the guy a pedo, how would you honestly know that a kid has a hairless area unless you looked? Assuming that all kids start growing pubic hair at different times...

Im a girl and i personally think its gross
dont do it for him do it for u its all bushy ugh gross like #347 said "wax can be your friend"

That is very rude and retarded of him regardless of the status of your pubes. I REALLY hope you left. What kind of a lover would someone that tactless be, anyway? Probably a shitty, selfish one. Fuck him.

I think as far as whether one should have trimmed, shaved or natural pubes, it's up to them and their sexual partner(s). A real man who wanted you to trim/shave down there would have some nice sex with you, then bring it up later in a diplomatic way, such as, "I would really like to go down on you, how do you feel about trimming/shaving/waxing for next time?" or "It turns me on to see a naked pussy, how do you feel about trimming/shaving/waxing?" A sexy motherfucker (the kind I would date) would ask me if he could take me into the bathtub and shave me. Then he'd run a bubble bath, get a nice sharp triple blade razor, and gently shave that shit, after which he would compliment my naked pussy. Then we'd both be happy and get what we want - he would get a shaved pussy, I would get some respect. Which is what everyone DESERVES.

Although I have to say, I really like curly, clean natural pubic hair, I think it is really feminine and old-school. But also like looking at nekkid pussy... yummmm on both of them!

to number 301..
YOu are probably one of the few who like the feeling of hair... How can under arm hair possibily be "sexy" its scratchy and gross and you my friend are a little odd for thinking the sexiest thing is the feeling of hair on a mans body...

What's with all the YDIs? She didn't even say he was going down on her, nor did she say that she asked, so this stuff about not wanting a mouthful of hair is silly. And she didn't say it was a jungle, either; for all we know, it could have been trimmed. He said shave it, not clean it up.

Women should be able to decide whether or not they want a hairy vagina, and if your lover has a problem with it then it should be brought up politely. If I were on a first date with someone with a beard I found unattractive, would I tell him he needs to "shave that shit"? No, because it's fucking rude. Same deal downstairs.

Also, am I the only girl with extremely sensitive skin who can't shave fully? If I shave, I get itchy and sore. If I don't shave, the hair pokes my skin and makes me itchy and sore. So I have to meet it halfway by keeping it short.

so shaving makes it super uncomfortable when it grows back.

which i dunno if its the same for a guy's face BUT

it is hella a lot easier to scratch your face than scratch your crotch in public..

JUST Sayin.

Anywho try shavin in a downwards direction so its not so horribly uncomforatable when it grows in.

what an insensitive asshole. Sure, a good trim would be nice, but to say that it's needed... wow

what a douche.

idk about waxing, but shaving makes it itch like a bitch.

so #273, i dont think guys have to worry about the whole itching, pokiness deal, but it definitely makes it one HELL of a pain for girls. probably cause pussy skin is a lot more sensitive then for guys.

so why dont you get YOUR facts straight please.

Every hole is a goal

gay, every chic is not a porn star, he needs to watch less porn. You deserve better.

Oh man hairy pussy is a turn off for me. main reason is most the time it smells. on a different note i would not refuse a hairy kat,i would just fuck her and tell her shave next time after am finished lol

ahahahah !!!!
omg how long WAS it woman?

OK girls, IK we all hate to shave, because it IS hard to shave we can do more damage with a razor down there if we're not carful than a man can do. SO if you ever have this happen to you, tie him down and shave him, or tell him he can get out. It is not gross if a girl does not shave, it is gross personally for me when you can't find a guy through his bush. SO boys trim your's up, girls trim yours up why not it's easy. shaving? leave that to a personal choice. The guy was a dick, he had one he is one. All of you are just sexist.

you shouldn't take that!.the hair there is there for a reason.if it wasn't for the hair there you could get STD's easier and no one wants that!.
he's definitly not worth it!.

dangggg , it may be a hassle , but just be clean ... its best .

Don't listen to that dick head, or anyone else trashing you.

Why should it matter if it's shaved or not? I'm a woman, and personally, I don't like to shave. I agree, trimming is just more convienient overall, but it's a PERSONAL CHOICE.

What is wrong with today's world? You have sex with people you LOVE. If the person REALLY loves you, they won't give a fuck. The fluids that your genitals produce chemically bond you and your sexual partner, and it just screws everything up if you don't love each other! Sex is a gift, it feels good AND it produces infants. And all these people keep abusing it.

Also, it's extremely UNHYGENIC to shave/wax it. In-grown hairs, rashes, disease, infections, STD's... The list goes on and on. Why do girls even risk it? Is pleasure more important than health?

The world is SO fucked up these days...

Mabye she just didn't shave because she didn't except to be having sex with him on the first date in the first place? For all we know she could be a shaver that was just caught unawares.

i find it hilarious that guys would prefer girls to look like undeveloped 10 year olds when it comes to downstairssss. who really cares if a girl shaves or not? its her choice.
and from experience, it is a bit of a hassle. really uncomfortable too. but i guess if u want to please the guy then u shuld ask him.

Personally, i like them shaved or trimmed accepting also with different shapes like a mohawk, etc.

but i have friends that they really like the bush, the feeling of it and how it looks.

so by that, i can way the everyone has their own taste.

so whatever you want to do is OK, as long as you want it, not because someone else tell you to.

don't worry and better luck next time.

im one lucky female... I don't need to shave thank god... my pups looked permed(straight)feels baby soft n looks freshly trimmed even tho I have never touched them n I'm still a virgin... I'm also 17 so yes I'm developed lol...

All the people who are saying that it's MORE hygenic to shave are delusional. As many have pointed out, hair makes it less likely to get infections, and its only become expected in the last 10-20 years or so; its not like everyone's been getting less STD's since it became a trend. You will not find a single medical professional who will advise you to shave in order to become more hygenic.

Do you shower everyday? Do you use soap? Then you're clean.

that guy is my hero hairy pussy is gross

shaving itches

A few days ago I came across an FML about a guy who didn't shave his pubes, and the hair got stuck in his girlfriend's braces. There were a LOT more FMLs than YDIs. Why the disparity?

natural is best

shaving is to please pedophiles

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