Miscellaneous: Today, while grieving over the loss of my Grandpa, I called my...

By SadPuppy - 22/05/2013 07:14 - United States

Today, while grieving over the loss of my Grandpa, I called my girlfriend for comfort. After I had cheered up, she said, "Don't worry, he went to Hell anyway." FML

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By WronglySad619 - 26/01/2011 10:31 - United States

Today, after mourning and making my girlfriend cancel her big birthday party, I found out my grandma didn't actually die. FML

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By Anonymous - 13/10/2013 16:20 - United States - Bessemer

Today, after holing myself up in my room for the day, I eventually turned my phone back on and told my girlfriend that my grandma passed away today. She replied, "Ask me if I fucking care," then accused me of not caring about our relationship because I went offline all day. FML

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Me me me

By perfectmoment - 30/11/2009 00:47 - Canada

Today, I called my boyfriend to have a shoulder to cry on because my grandpa died. As soon as I told him, he started crying and telling me how much he missed his grandmother, who died six years ago. I spent the majority of the phone call listening to him wail. FML

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Foot in mouth

By Anonymous - 15/06/2009 04:48 - Australia

Today, my grandpa died. I called my grandma to make sure she was going to be fine. After talking over the phone for 30 minutes or so, I told her goodbye and said, out of habit, "Say hi to grandpa for me". FML

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By good job bf - 11/01/2013 04:06 - United States - Southampton

Today, my boyfriend broke up with me at my grandma's funeral. FML

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Goodbye squared

By Lyingboyfriend - 24/07/2009 05:11 - Canada

Today, my boyfriend said he couldn't come to my grandfather's funeral because he was at his cottage and couldn't make it. Later that day, when driving home from the graveyard I saw him walking down the street, with another girl. FML

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By Anonymous - 15/07/2009 02:17 - United States

Today, my girlfriend broke up with me because I didn't call her in the last few days. I tried to explain to her that I was out at my grandfather's house in a remote place with no cell service to stand by him on his death bed. She thought I was making excuses and called me a lying bastard. FML

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By JessBaby - 04/05/2009 20:44 - United States

Today, I found out my grandmother passed away. When I told my boyfriend I began to cry. Instead of caring, he said "you're getting my bed wet," rolled over, and fell asleep. FML

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By Jeff G. - 23/01/2012 00:31 - United States

Today, I had to send a picture of my Grandma at her funeral to my girlfriend, because she thought I was out cheating on her. FML

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By Anonymous - 06/07/2013 16:13 - Lithuania - Vilnius

Today, I poured my heart out to my now ex-girlfriend over the recent passing away of my grandmother. Her eyes glazed over multiple times, and when I said that I don't know how to cope with everything, her advice was simply, "Shotgun. Mouth. Blam." FML

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Pleonasm 35

Wednesday 22 May 2013 12:09

That's awful. Some people don't know what to say when others are in pain, maybe, or maybe it was a joke you didn't quite catch and was at an unfortunate time. If she really is being so disrespectful to your grandfather and so careless about your grief, confront her about it. It's not the kind of thing you can just let slide in a relationship.

laurenlovesjb 20

Wednesday 22 May 2013 12:08

what possibly made her think that would comfort you... Unless she thinks you're going to hell too?

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Sarahcastic 7

Wednesday 22 May 2013 17:35

I don't even understand what would possess her to say that? Did she think it was a joke to make you laugh? Is she a religious nutcase who thinks everyone is going to hell? What a terrible human being.

journeytotheend 16

Wednesday 22 May 2013 17:47

In what tone was this said! Lots of people don't know how to handle death, and some make inappropriate jokes without thinking about what they are saying

Zebediabolical 39

Wednesday 22 May 2013 17:55

Well, OP. Did he do things that would traditionally send him to Hell? It's a legitimate question.

samanthamaebee 6

Wednesday 22 May 2013 18:21

How exactly is that gonna comfort you!!!

oxygenius 14

Wednesday 22 May 2013 19:19

Perhaps she said "heaven" but you misheard her? Sounds contradictory to me if she tried to cheer you up and gave you a listening ear, then told you that your late grandpa is going to hell. :/

jkjorn 15

Wednesday 22 May 2013 20:40

OP's girlfriend might be a Jehohvah's Witness- when my wife passed away, I actually got a condolence letter from a nearby Kingdom Hall, which basically said she'd gone to hell & I would too if I didn't join their church. They have a lot to learn about winning people over to their side, let me tell you.

Cookierules1995 4

Wednesday 22 May 2013 22:51

#88- JW's don't believe in hell. I'd know, half my family members are one. They were probably telling you about how you'll see her again or something.

jkjorn 15

Thursday 23 May 2013 20:16

That's interesting. True, they didn't use the word 'hell' but it sure sounded like that's what they meant. As I recall it said things like "she's not in a good place now" and "nothing can be done to help her." Then went on to warn me I was on the same path and I should come to them if I wanted to avoid the same fate. I'm guessing they were basing all that on the fact that her obit mentioned we were members of a Catholic church; I know the JWs don't like Catholicism much.