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By  Pleonasm  |  31

That's awful. Some people don't know what to say when others are in pain, maybe, or maybe it was a joke you didn't quite catch and was at an unfortunate time. If she really is being so disrespectful to your grandfather and so careless about your grief, confront her about it. It's not the kind of thing you can just let slide in a relationship.

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  lilhellian  |  26

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By  Pleonasm  |  31

That's awful. Some people don't know what to say when others are in pain, maybe, or maybe it was a joke you didn't quite catch and was at an unfortunate time. If she really is being so disrespectful to your grandfather and so careless about your grief, confront her about it. It's not the kind of thing you can just let slide in a relationship.

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  Danielle7994  |  18

She just doesn't know when - or how - to show compassion. If my boyfriend happened to lose someone close to him (thankfully he hasn't!), the first thing I would do is support, comfort, and help him cope with his loss. She unfortunately lacks that ability, which could ultimately end that relationship :( Op I'm so sorry for your loss. That was really insensitive of her to say. You should definately talk to her and see why in the hell she thought that would help ease your pain

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  jess1987  |  13

I just lost my mother... I had to deal with her mom, her aunt and someone who was supposedly her best friend calling me on the day of her service asking for her belongings. I am sorry but this hit my heart in a bad way. no one should have to deal with such idiotic, rude people. and I'm sure his grandpa did nothing to the extent that hitler did.

By  Vidrill  |  22

That really depends on her tone... I mean I personally believe all the rockstars will be in Hell, so maybe she meant, "Don't worry, he's with the cool sinners, rocking out in the lake of fire."Since you had cheered up a little, maybe she was going for the inconsiderate joke.

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