Intimacy: Today, the man I have been in a long-distance relationship with...

By Sadginger - 21/12/2015 23:45 - United Kingdom - Redhill

Today, the man I have been in a long-distance relationship with for 2 years told me he has been cheating on me for 6 months, and that he's leaving me for her. I'm due to fly out to see him next week on a non-refundable ticket. He insists that, "we can still hang out, just not have sex". FML

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By BritishDates - 22/08/2018 13:00

Today, my long-distance British boyfriend of 7 years canceled his plane ticket to visit me in the USA. He claims he "doesn't have enough money" to stay for 2 weeks. As I began canceling all the reservations, he called to say he bought a new car and a house. FML

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By izhamilton - 20/02/2010 05:30 - United States

Today, after flying halfway across the world to see the man I love, he admitted cheating on me several days before I arrived, not only with someone I know, but with someone I hate. FML

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By lonelyinlondon - 21/08/2009 02:06 - Canada

Today, my boyfriend threw me a going-away party. During the party, I caught him in my bedroom hooking up with my friend because "you're leaving soon anyway so it doesn't matter." I'll only be gone for 6 weeks. FML

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By #winning@life - 27/12/2018 16:00

Today, the guy I've fallen for and have been dating on and off for 2 years told me that he kept contacting me to re-connect because he missed hanging out with me, but didn't actually have any feelings for me. I already paid for a non-refundable weekend away as his Christmas present for us both. FML

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By Aninta - 12/03/2023 03:00

Today, I found out my long-distance boyfriend was trying to pick fights with me and start pointless arguments because he wanted a ticket out of the relationship. He wanted to find a reason to break up with me, rather than confess he has a local girlfriend. FML

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Tuesday 22 December 2015 11:11

I could just say "you deserve better" but OP that really just sucks. Think of this as a mini vacation. Treat yourself and forget this loser.

Warmonger_Smurf 29

Tuesday 22 December 2015 11:18

Well if you can afford a hotel, make a holiday of it.

Comments

Jachin357 28

Tuesday 22 December 2015 13:34

Did he really have the nerve to say you can come visit and expect you to be friends? What was he doing to do? introduce you to his new girlfriend? You deserve better than that trash OP.

Tannasgh 22

Tuesday 22 December 2015 14:06

What a jerk

vikky538 28

Tuesday 22 December 2015 14:10

These are the things which makes you stronger

KayPlay 19

Tuesday 22 December 2015 15:00

Oh this is terrible. I'm really sorry OP. It's guys like him that make me sick

Cerebral_Origami 5

Tuesday 22 December 2015 15:30

I agree with those saying make a vacation of it. I wouldn't even see the guy as that would just make for an emotional storm that would ruin the rest of the week. Do your best to have some fun and move on.

MariaGiovanni 25

Tuesday 22 December 2015 15:34

Cut his...?! You literally rolled the dice, passed go and didnt even collect $200. Men take note looks can be deceiving. Here we have a beautiful woman who is crazy as ****.

LPac5295 27

Tuesday 22 December 2015 15:39

What a douche. I don't understand how people can cheat on someone. It hurts a lot. I'm sorry OP. Hope it gets better!

RitaRenne 21

Tuesday 22 December 2015 15:46

What a jackass. You need better than someone who'll do that to you. Use that plane ticket and treat yourself to unexplored places and new adventures! Wish you the best!