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By Jane - / Thursday 28 April 2016 03:58 / United States
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or, he could have OCD. Often I need repeat my words four times. His could just be more severe, if so.

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Exactly. If you can't talk to him about this and don't feel comfortable bringing it up or feel like you can't bring it up, then you shouldn't marry him.

Doesn't sound like you are giving him what he needs so he is over compensating. I would definitely figure this out prior to marriage or you will just end up walking out on him at some point.

There are some people who were rarely told they were loved as a child and when the grow up they say it often to their partner or children in an effort to make sure they never feel that void. Not sure if that's the case here, but maybe you should talk to him about it and tell him that you know, and there's no reason to say it so much. If you love him and are planning on marrying him, you should be mature enough to communicate rather than just not wanting to talk to him because he's annoying you.

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I wish I could upvote this a thousand times. Perfect summation of what a lot of people deal with, and it also explains why I clicked YDI. Instead of telling him her feelings, she comes here to passive-aggressively bitch about him.

maybe he's insecure talk to him about it my boyfriend does the same thing cuz he has anxiety and trust problems and it makes him insecure

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