By ghost? - 16/12/2012 08:31 - Australia - Perth

Today, my boyfriend told me he couldn't spend the day with me as he had his grandmother's funeral. Lonely, I went shopping and I bumped into his mum having lunch with his 'dead' grandma. FML
I agree, your life sucks 39 543
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Same thing different taste

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That's pretty damn low to use a relative's death like that as an excuse just to not have to be with you for a day. And was he foolish enough to think you'd never find out later? I'm not a complete fan of "dump him" but I don't really like your boyfriend OP

jaylaufers 13

Maybe it was his other grandma?

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razzledazzle21 23

Why wouldn't you have gone to the funeral to support him? I know it ended up not being true, but I just find it odd.

LudicMonster 22

Some families prefer to keep funerals a family matter only, etc etc I know in our family that's how it is, in our culture it's disrespectful to bring people who aren't part of the family or didn't know the deceased in a close way

Well, at least you found out he's a passive-aggressive liar.

Giluh 19

Oh you must have not heard. He has a grandmother that no one knows about. You know, the one that comes up when someone is mad at him for some poor excuse.

Maybe it was his other grandma's funeral?

Experience tells me that when a guy lies to his girlfriend about where he's going and what he's doing, he's probably cheating. Sorry, OP. :(

sweetmama88 6

All I can say is what goes around comes around .

Maybe he was off buying you a really special gift for Christmas. Of course ,the grandma thing is far-fetched , but don't quickly look to cheating.

Or he could have just said, "Sorry, babe. Can't hang out today. I have to go Christmas shopping."

Where in the OP does it say she thought he was cheating?

66, Because when a guy tells his girlfriend he was somewhere he wasn't, it means he was doing something he didn't want her to know about. I would think most people's first thought is that he was with another woman. That's MY first thought in these situations, anyway.

He obviously doesn't see you as 'forever' thing if he thought you'd never meet his grandma.