By hannah - 14/04/2013 15:21 - United Kingdom

Today, my boyfriend of 17 months, the first guy to tell me he loves me, the guy I lost my virginity to, the only guy whose parents I've met, told me we should stop 'hooking up' because it's weird that I was telling everyone we were a couple and it was ruining his chances of finding a girlfriend. FML
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hannah321 0

hi, i'm the girl who wrote this originally (i've since got an account so changed my name- maybe some people won't believe that but whatever) and i just want to say in response to some people that it was VERY clear on both sides that we were a couple, we were not friends with privileges.. also i am not a stalker, i just wanted to specify exactly how long we'd been together because it emphasises just how shitty what he did was.. like someone else said, a year doesn't really explain that fully. maybe he was using me for sex and i was practise, but i'm not as young or naive as some people here seem to think... this isn't my first relationship, but it was my first really serious one hence meeting parents, having sex etc etc.. i thought what i felt towards him was mutual, and i think if many of you had known us as a couple you would be very surprised about what has happened, most people were always commenting on how much he seemed to adore me. right now i have no idea what his motivations were, but everytime i speak to him i want to stab him.. so im refraining from speaking to him or seeking an explanation at the minute SO thanks to everyone who's been supportive, **** knows what his problem is but im getting over it seeing as he's been such a dick to me, and i just posted him this link, so any extra abuse toward him would be welcome.. ha

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lnm701 0

What an asshole. You're better off without him. Good luck on that girlfriend search, buddy.

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baby_love 0

I'm sorry hun, you need better communication. You know he could just be saying that to hurt you because he's an ass or if that really was the case than forget it you're better off. don't do anything stupid most people don't marry the first guy they make love to.

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Spl4sh_D4m4g3 0

girls have to stop thinking that when you get together with them, they are automatically in your life. It's only messed up if he actually acknowledged that you were his girlfriend throughout the time you thought you were with him.

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destinymh101 0

17 months of just hanging out? and saying i love you. having sex. meeting ur parents... that is one hardcore FWB.. i am sure they were together he just punked out..

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Babsipoodles 0

Hey AssHole! The is a completely stupid thought process. Girl are human be

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morgangriffiths 0

you're an ass

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klovely22 13

Are you kidding me? Did you even read what she posted?? Who the hell raised you to think like that?

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Thekbking 11

I agree with u completely. ive had fwb before and ive told one that I loved her but made it clear then and there I loved her as a person but wasnt in love with her which she understood. the guy in this situation may have not done that and assuming one thing over another without getting the story from both sides is only jumping to a conclusion. its probable he meant no ill harm and didnt realize the misunderstanding while its also probable he just used her

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fantasy_factory 0

he is the man

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MercWithTheMouth_fml 0

Kudos to #7 for calling out what I was thinking. If you didn't realize that you weren't dating the dude after 17 months then you got problems, and that's probably and indication whey he broke up with you. Also you're probably less attractive than a girl who has expressed an interest in him recently. So yeah, I guess your life is ****** too.... but still YDI

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BigLord 0

#32 wtf man, think about it: he said he loved her. How's that not saying he wants to be together with her and be her boyfriend? #33 this one's for you too. If some girl did that to me (or some boy, whatever) I think I'd kill her/him.

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cheer_me_up 0

How could something get so misconstrued?? I mean he said I love you and he met your parents, where I am sure you introduced him as your boyfriend. I just dont get how he can act like yall werent in a relationship after over a year together. Something seems off about that! You need to ask him that question, then kick him in the nuts as hard as you can, and then walk away. What a total ass!

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RadioGaga_fml 0

WHAT AN A-HOLE!!!! But seriously, that's a dick move, I say move on and forget him.

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Spl4sh_D4m4g3 0

#34 i tell some friends of mine that are girls that i love them. for example, "wow, you're really funny, i love you!". Don't act like you've never said that to a friend before.

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NatzSwifey 0

#38 well r u sleeping with them too? I tell my friends that I love them but I don't sleep with them

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morgangriffiths 0

but did you have sex with those same girls

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doseofreality 0

hon, someone has to tell you the truth - I've seen it happen to many a girls. A guy's first "relationship" is a usually just for practice and for sex. He said "I love you" so you'd have sex with him so he'd be good for the "real girlfriend." Any nice things like meeting his parents was so he could keep you around for sex insurance. Now he's ready for the real girl and you're no longer needed. You probably liked him so much you were blind to the warning signs. I think you need to stop being naive and you won't get hurt so much.

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jasef 7

Okay. Just no. Not all guys do that, in fact, I'd be willing to bet that most guys don't. That's just a vast generalisation, out of all of my male friends, not one of them has ever used a girl for sex like that.

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Mr_Smile 0

And that would be the guy that ruins it for the rest of us good ones.

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