By hannah - 14/04/2013 15:21 - United Kingdom

Today, my boyfriend of 17 months, the first guy to tell me he loves me, the guy I lost my virginity to, the only guy whose parents I've met, told me we should stop 'hooking up' because it's weird that I was telling everyone we were a couple and it was ruining his chances of finding a girlfriend. FML
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hi, i'm the girl who wrote this originally (i've since got an account so changed my name- maybe some people won't believe that but whatever) and i just want to say in response to some people that it was VERY clear on both sides that we were a couple, we were not friends with privileges.. also i am not a stalker, i just wanted to specify exactly how long we'd been together because it emphasises just how shitty what he did was.. like someone else said, a year doesn't really explain that fully. maybe he was using me for sex and i was practise, but i'm not as young or naive as some people here seem to think... this isn't my first relationship, but it was my first really serious one hence meeting parents, having sex etc etc.. i thought what i felt towards him was mutual, and i think if many of you had known us as a couple you would be very surprised about what has happened, most people were always commenting on how much he seemed to adore me. right now i have no idea what his motivations were, but everytime i speak to him i want to stab him.. so im refraining from speaking to him or seeking an explanation at the minute SO thanks to everyone who's been supportive, **** knows what his problem is but im getting over it seeing as he's been such a dick to me, and i just posted him this link, so any extra abuse toward him would be welcome.. ha

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lnm701 0

What an asshole. You're better off without him. Good luck on that girlfriend search, buddy.

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sleepingprincess 0

wooooooow what a jerk! hes a douche. im sorry =(

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peace1234_fml 0

I'm sorry hun. That really sucks. Look at it this way - at least you can hate his guts now. My ex is like perfectly nice and we're trying to be friends - reminding me just how much I love him and why. Hating your ex makes getting over him that much easier/quicker. :) It'll be okay. Screw him!

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stfuplz_fml 0

# 14: you're an idiot, it's easier to say it in months espcially since it's only one year. you wouldn't wanna keep saying "one year, 5 months, 2 weeks, and 3 days". haha what the ****?

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bamfx2 0

ya so i def. know how you feel, i mean at least he told you and didnt cheat on you and then say that stuff like my boyfriend well ex boyfriend did

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samiisSatan 0

I'm sorry that happened, but this is not the same. The whole point of her fml, is they were never together in the first place. Your ex-boyfriend probably just said similar things to you after you broke up to hurt you. The man in OP's life never considered them together in the first ******* place. He was with other women well with the OP, guaranteed. Sad to say but this whole senario happens way more often then people realize. Some women really don't realize it, and some realize it but just don't care. Then they just bury it, it's called denial. Sad but true.

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samiisSatan 0

Oh and also, nobody ever really knows how someone else is feeling, so don't say you do. Somewhat similar feelings and experiences, of course. But you could never really know how they feel. I learned that one, on the table, in countless operating rooms. I hate when people try to tell me they know how i feel. When someone's in pain, it's the worst thing you can say...And i know i probably sound like a bitch now cause all this girl was trying to do was make OP feel better, but i saw points that needed to be made here and things to be cleared up.

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makjon86 0

not gonna lie, I chuckled at this. But it was an asshole move.

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ohhhhshizzz 0

#14: It is a lot easier to say 17 months than to say a year and some months. There is nothing stalkerish about it. And yeah, I agree with everyone who commented. He is an asshole, and I hope he catches some disease from his next "friend with benifit" That will teach that ******:) You deserve better.

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vee_baby 0

And this is why you don't have sex with the first person that tells you he loves you.

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OMGQueenB 0

I'm agreeing with #15. Clearly not just hooking up if he said he loves her. You so didn't deserve that though, really. Jerrrrrrk.

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BigLord 0

Agreed with #23, it's just stupid to criticise someone for that :/ And #22............. I can so fill your shoes right now :(

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woahcomments 0

awww poor thing :( that's terrible!

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