Whereas my partner can't get a decent night's sleep unless I have a firm grasp on his genitalia (just kidding.... kind of). Different couples have different boundaries and all that.

Yes, but boundaries need to be discussed. I'm hoping that op's bf said it was okay..

People are kinda saying she is violating him without consent. Which just goes to show it's nothing to do with man problems and more to do with not realising other people's relationships might not be the same as their own.

Yes. But it would be more along the lines of 'THAT'S RAPE!' and 'OP'S A RAPIST' instead of 'Well, you shoudln't do that...' Y'know, much more blatant instead of nibbling around the edges.

I think it's because women talk with each other about their experiences of genuine lack of consent, knowing it happens on such a scale probably helps them fill in rapey blanks in otherwise harmless situations. FML submissions hardly have enough space for important details about the state of a couple's relationship. What they're trying to do is protect each other from harm, not vilify an entire gender.

I wouldn't say it's creepy if you know that your partner will like it or if you've done it before