By mmvv - 08/02/2010 05:41 - United States

Today, I found out the hard way that my boyfriend occasionally wets the bed. He's 25 and we're moving in together next month. FML
I agree, your life sucks 29 416
You deserved it 3 841

Same thing different taste

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FYL but even more FHL. Be supportive and go see a doctor together. I bet there's something that can help him.

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Well if you love him then, you'll find a way to work it out. Go see a doctor, get advice.. do whatever to help your boyfriend. :)

some people have tht problem, no need to bLame them for it! everyone has dif. probs in life anyway

perdix 29

You're in a bad position, You're in a bad relationship. Urine trouble. If you found out "the hard way," the fluid he wet the bed with wasn't pee. Have a nice day.

They sell pills for bladder control. Or just tell him to not drink any liquid two hours before sleeping.

AntiChrist7 0

You wanna move in and you didn't knew that. How long do you know him actually? Within 2 months you're seperated I guess. 200% YDI

mmvv 0

I've been with him just under 2 years and as I said in my original post it's only occasional. I stay over at his only 1 or 2 nights a week, if that. It's just too much background information to add into an FML.

I am a terrible wetter. When it comes to night time wetting, I wet like an infant. My girlfriend was really supportive and actually the relationship grew that much more personal when she first put me in diapers. My advice, go buy Prevail Adult diapers (or something similar, but NOT DEPENDS!!!), a plastic sheet to cover the mattress, some baby wipes and some A+D diaper rash cream (the one with Zinc Oxide). Shouldn't be more than twenty dollars. When you get home, sit him down and talk to him about it. Make sure you've diapered him before bed and that the mattress cover is on. Trust me, if you diaper him, rather than he do it himself, you get WAY less leaks. Waking up in wet diapers is WAY better than more laundry and a reactive/embarrassed boyfriend. I think the thing that got me past all the embarrassment is the fact that my g/f said she didn't care, and that she loved me no matter what... and she thought the diaper made my ass look sexy. :P Best of luck and feel free to ask me questions... I've got a LOT of experience in this area. -Cam

My boyfriend is a diabetic, genetic not from being a fat ass. They wet the bed sometimes, never in the three years I've known him has he though. You need to be supportive, there is probably an underlying medical condition. Def not fyl, fhl, and if you're gonna turn the pity party on yourself then you need to do him a favor and break it off. He deserves someone who isn't going to make something so personal and embarrassing about themselves.

honestly, it happens to more people then you think, its pretty common and usually you grow out of it. feel free to see a doctor but deff be supportive

95% of the time, bedwetting is incurable. Doctors will give you scripts like DDAVP or something and it will give you side effects, like it did for me. I would get really whiney in the morning... it sucked.