Your crush is a shallow douchebag. You deserve better!

I don't agree with a lot of people here. Just because someone wants to be in a relationship with someone they find attractive doesn't make them superficial. I bet most people saying that are single. (But it doesn't mean I won't be friends with someone who I don't find attractive). There are always other fish in the sea OP, hard to believe until you've already caught one. But it'll happen if you give it a chance.

So, your friend is much prettier than you and has much better comedic timing? Why are you trying to compete with her? You should just bask in her radiance and hope to catch some of her rejects.

U had a bad breath most probably

Maybe your crush is an idiot, and therefore did not get the joke at first. It had to sit in his dinosaur sized walnut of a brain. That is the thing about crushes. You don't really know them. You think you do, but not really. Your perspective is clouded. And he might not have gotten the joke the second time either, he just has a crush on your friend. Q

He's definitely not the right guy for you. You shouldn't have to change yourself to get someone to like you. Also, tour model friend is a bitch if she knew you liked the guy.

Maybe your delivery sucks?

It hurts now, but it will get better. Honestly, if he likes your friend more, let him go. If you're insecure about your appearance, work on that. Either find a way to be more comfortable with your looks, or do something to change them. Develop your personality. Get better at telling jokes. And seriously, don't waste your time comparing yourself to a model, dude.

You guys are great. If I was broken up about this at all, I'd feel much better from a lot of the comments. I'd been flirting with this guy for a while, and this was the coldest he'd ever been to me. He met my friend that very night and wanted to get laid is all. But joke's on him--the friend's engaged! As for the whole maybe my friend told the joke better thing, it's not the kind of joke that needs a bunch of buildup and then a big punchline. It was more of a sarcastic comment-type thing. She didn't tell it any better than I did.

Thats f'd up