Love, Broken and Virginity: Not the one

Not the one

By Anonymous - 11/04/2021 23:00

Today, the guy who told me he “wasn’t looking for a relationship” started being in a relationship with another girl. I lost my virginity to him and went on a few dates with him. He’s actually confused as to why I’m upset about this. FML

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You deserved it 472

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By the other woman - 26/06/2018 01:30

Today, I found out that the guy I lost my virginity to a few months ago was in a relationship the whole time. How did I find out? His now ex-girlfriend called to yell at me. FML

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You deserved it 517

Testing the waters

By Anonymousss95 - 10/12/2011 12:03 - Sweden

Today, I lost my virginity. Afterwards, he told me that he was only doing this because he wanted to know if he still truly loves his girlfriend. FML

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You deserved it 13 383

Last dates

By Anonymous - 19/06/2020 17:00

Today, a guy I've been dating for a year asked me to meet him for dinner and a couple of drinks. After dinner, he confessed that he's been seeing another woman and has decided he wants to seek a relationship with her. He then told me how sex with me is great, but he didn't want me to continue being "the other woman." FML

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You deserved it 227

Nothing but red flags

By Jullii - 27/08/2021 08:01

Today, my ex of 5 years began dating the girl he told me was, “One of the guys”, “Don’t worry, she’s like a sister to me” and, “I would never see her that way.” We broke up a couple of days ago because my “paranoia” and “assumptions” about her were putting a “strain” on our relationship. FML

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You deserved it 146

Is it magical?

By Patricia - 20/10/2022 12:00

Today, I found out that the guy I slept with on our first date and bailed on me the next day is dating a friend of mine. In fact, they’re still together after sleeping together on the first date. Nice to know my vagina couldn’t make him stay with me. FML

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You deserved it 1 268

Serious business

By UglyNakedChick - 09/02/2023 22:00

Today, the guy I was hooking up with said he wasn’t “looking for anything serious.” That’s not what he told me when I agreed to the hookups with a promise of becoming something more. When I mentioned this to him, he said, “Well, that was before I knew what you looked like naked.” FML

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You deserved it 532

By Laura - 17/09/2010 00:35 - United States

Today, my boyfriend of three years decided it was finally time to have sex. After we did, he told me that he was sleeping with another girl. He wanted to have sex with me to see who was better. FML

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You deserved it 6 220

Stalker much?

By NotEnuff - 13/06/2023 00:02

Today, I found out the guy who rejected me just two days ago, and who told me he was “asexual” and “incapable of feeling romantic love” is in fact very sexual, and very much in love, in the backseat of his SUV with another girl. FML

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You deserved it 247

Twice error

By rkaneki - 09/11/2019 20:00

Today, the guy I've been seeing told me he did not want to pursue a relationship with me after over 2 months of talking. He did the exact same thing to me 7 years ago. I fell for him twice. FML

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You deserved it 1 477

By unengaged - 14/11/2009 18:19 - United States

Today, my boyfriend of six years broke up with me for a girl he's known for less than 72 hours. Why? He wanted someone pure. I lost my virginity to him five years ago. FML

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You deserved it 4 219

QueenSaru 28

Monday 12 April 2021 0:05

"I'm not ready for a relationship" almost always translates into "I am not ready for a relationship WITH YOU", regardless of who it's coming from. It's a gentle way of saying, "This thing between isn't working/I don't see us having a future." Don't think too deeply on it and keep looking.

Hempseed 26

Monday 12 April 2021 1:19

So, just move on and find someone who wants to be in a relationship with you. I'm assuming you two weren't official; in which case, he's free to date whoever he likes. He's also free to express his disinterest in pursuing a relationship with you if he feels there's no compatibility. You aren't entitled to a relationship with the guy just because you had sex and a couple dates with him.

Comments

Jon Tessler 14

Sunday 11 April 2021 23:59

no need to be upset about it. consider this a learning experience. you obviously dodged a bullet with this guy.

QueenSaru 28

Monday 12 April 2021 0:05

Hempseed 26

Monday 12 April 2021 1:19

VnD 10

Monday 12 April 2021 11:37

Why did you lose your virginity with a guy who told you he didn't want to be in a relationship?

Jon Tessler 14

Monday 12 April 2021 12:36

it's obvious she lost her virginity to him prior to this happening. basically he hooked up with her, then here idea he didn't want an official relationship

VnD 10

Monday 12 April 2021 12:47

How pathetic do people have to be to do this to someone

CowgirlWithHeart 15

Monday 12 April 2021 16:52

It could be that he meant it but then he just clicked with someone and it happened.

Levi2411 41

Monday 12 April 2021 19:17

Not to defend him, but you chose to sleep with him despite knowing that he didn't want a relationship with you. He wants one with her, and that's just how it is. It sucks and it stings but he never lied to you-- he didn't want one with you. If he didn't promise to be with you later, and you weren't exclusive, he can see whoever he chooses.