If she wanted grandkids so badly she should have had more actual children. Screw her, she isn't the one that's going to be pregnant or getting up all night.

Your mother-in-law should have had more kids.

Do what you want with your life. If you and your husband don't want kids then don't have any. Kids aren't for everyone. With time hopefully your mother in law will see how happy you guys are and respect your decision.

You know what's really selfish? Trying to pressure someone into a life-changing decision just so she can have something to spoil and cuddle.

Tell her, you cannot make a butt baby...

I applaud you!!!

Gotta love the parents who desperately want those grandbabies so they can have a 'second chance' to prove they're not as horrible as you remember them to be all throughout childhood, teenhood, and adulthood. Been there. It's to the point where if we DO decide to create hellspawns, it's going to purposely after both sides are gone so they won't have the satisfaction. Currently, we can barely take care of ourselves, so we have a long ways to go.

Just stand your ground with this woman Op. My mother-in-law did the same thing to me for quite a few years, even after my husband and I told her to politely stop with her very obvious and subtle words. She finally got it through her head awhile ago after I became really pissed at her and went off. Now she doesn't say a word to me about the subject at all. Sometimes this works with those kind of women but there are other ways of making them stop.

I just had an argument the other day regarding to this topic. It's your body, your life, and you can do what ever you want with it. I absolutely hate when others put pressure on you to have children. It is not their choice.

She is not your mother in law until you are married.