Today, the guy I've recently started seeing confided that he's relieved I'm on the heavier side, and that he has a thing for watching chubby women eat. I just reached my ideal weight after losing 40 pounds. FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Same thing different taste
Today, I was talking to my boyfriend about how I'm self conscious about my weight. He looks at me and says, "Don't worry babe, I've always been kind of a chubby chaser." FML
Today, I learned that my husband is attracted to obese, unhealthy women after celebrating my weight loss of 175lbs and improving my overall health. FML
Target goals
Today, I officially completed my weight loss journey, only for my wife, who'd previously threatened to divorce me if I didn't lose weight, to tell me that she realized she liked me better when I was fat and that "you don't know what you have until it's gone." FML
Thanks, honey.
Today, I noticed that I've been gaining some weight. Don't worry, my boyfriend doesn't mind. His new favorite thing is putting my boobs on his head and saying he feels "safe". FML
Red flag
Today, the man I've liked for so long asked me out on a date. Three years ago I fell for him and he denied me unless I "lost 100lbs” Now I've lost about 85lbs (not because of him, but for myself) and he wants to give me the time of day. I still like him, but I feel like I have to watch my weight to keep him if I say “Yes.” FML
Today, I told my boyfriend that I gained a few pounds and thought I looked fat. He replied that I looked the same and that I shouldn't worry because he likes fat girls. I never thought I was fat before this. FML
Today, feeling confident, I asked my boyfriend what he thought of my new body, since I had lost 16 kilos over the past month. He told me that he missed the old me and wanted me to gain weight again. My boyfriend was the one that encouraged me to lose weight in the first place. FML
Today, I finally met the guy I've been talking to online for a year. I'd dropped 10lbs off my weight. He'd shaved 20 years off his age. FML
In the eye of the beholder
Today, I'm in the best shape of my life after losing 2.5 stone over 2 years. I never got any female attention when I was overweight, so I was quite surprised when at the gym an attractive woman came over and started flirting with me. It was going great, until she said, "You'd be perfect if you had a dad bod". FML
Today, I got to see my best friend for the first time in months. Her first reaction was to say, "Wow, you gained a lot of weight." I actually lost a fair bit. FML
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socalledbliss 0
As long as you're comfortable with the weight you're at, don't worry about what he says! :)
philitron128 0
He just likes to pretend hes the food;)
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TheSuperSpicer 6
Sounds like a win-win. You're both happy about your weight, just in completely opposite ways (:
faysophie 2
No way he could know you dieted. But the likes to watch fat girls eat is a bi freaky I would certainly investigate his other kinks and what turns him on about a chubby person eating exactly. Sounds like your body image is a little fragile without some freakshow input. As for being chubby aren t we
Ranimal 12
Yeah, so what is the problem here? You're happy that you're at your ideal chubby weight and he is happy that you're chubby and eat food. Good job.
BitterRoses17 4
:(
purple91 8
Am I the only person who thinks it is creepy that he has a thing for watching chubby women eat...?
wriptidez 0
heck with him ... ask a doctor
Joey44 15
Yeah, most people seem to be missing the point of this. The problem isn't that he called her fat, the problem is he's a 'feeder'. OP, it sounds like you haven't been seeing him too long, so I'd get out of there if I were you.
cooljcool 0
Don't listen to that asshole. You know how many people can't lose 10 pounds? You lost 40. You go girl!
luckyducky_7sq 10
D-d-d-dump him!
Arivien 3
Honestly, he sounds kinda creepy. But if you guys are happy together then, hey, go for it!
PYLrulz 17
Look at the bright side, at least he isn't some pig that expects to date a skeleton with a couple of balloons on her chest.