Today, the guy I've recently started seeing confided that he's relieved I'm on the heavier side, and that he has a thing for watching chubby women eat. I just reached my ideal weight after losing 40 pounds. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Same thing different taste
Today, I was talking to my boyfriend about how I'm self conscious about my weight. He looks at me and says, "Don't worry babe, I've always been kind of a chubby chaser." FML
Today, I learned that my husband is attracted to obese, unhealthy women after celebrating my weight loss of 175lbs and improving my overall health. FML
Target goals
Today, I officially completed my weight loss journey, only for my wife, who'd previously threatened to divorce me if I didn't lose weight, to tell me that she realized she liked me better when I was fat and that "you don't know what you have until it's gone." FML
Thanks, honey.
Today, I noticed that I've been gaining some weight. Don't worry, my boyfriend doesn't mind. His new favorite thing is putting my boobs on his head and saying he feels "safe". FML
Red flag
Today, the man I've liked for so long asked me out on a date. Three years ago I fell for him and he denied me unless I "lost 100lbs” Now I've lost about 85lbs (not because of him, but for myself) and he wants to give me the time of day. I still like him, but I feel like I have to watch my weight to keep him if I say “Yes.” FML
Today, I told my boyfriend that I gained a few pounds and thought I looked fat. He replied that I looked the same and that I shouldn't worry because he likes fat girls. I never thought I was fat before this. FML
Today, feeling confident, I asked my boyfriend what he thought of my new body, since I had lost 16 kilos over the past month. He told me that he missed the old me and wanted me to gain weight again. My boyfriend was the one that encouraged me to lose weight in the first place. FML
Today, I finally met the guy I've been talking to online for a year. I'd dropped 10lbs off my weight. He'd shaved 20 years off his age. FML
In the eye of the beholder
Today, I'm in the best shape of my life after losing 2.5 stone over 2 years. I never got any female attention when I was overweight, so I was quite surprised when at the gym an attractive woman came over and started flirting with me. It was going great, until she said, "You'd be perfect if you had a dad bod". FML
Today, I got to see my best friend for the first time in months. Her first reaction was to say, "Wow, you gained a lot of weight." I actually lost a fair bit. FML
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socalledbliss 0
As long as you're comfortable with the weight you're at, don't worry about what he says! :)
philitron128 0
He just likes to pretend hes the food;)
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shadowch 4
Bitch slap him with a cold turkey then continue on with life naking yourself better. Maybe even lose some more weight if you wanted and see what he says then.
cntryiscntrywide 0
my boyfriends a big guy. I'm 'thick' but I have a ****** so I obviously think I'm a fatass like every other girl in the world. but my boyfriend absolutely despises skinny girls he thinks it's disgusting. and i love it cause I feel better about myself lol. just be grateful hes not looking at other girls.
Daralea 21
Not being attracted to skinny girls is one thing...but if he needs to "despise" them to make you feel better you're really not that comfortable in your own skin.
mandaboo 8
But you've lost the 40 pounds you wanted to lose and he is attracted to you. He wasn't trying to insult you, he wants you! That's great for both of you, so....Work it, girl!
perdix 31
That's like hitting a home run at a football game. You can dump him and pick from among the vast majority of men who prefer thinner girls, or have a great time packing the weight back on for his sexual pleasure.
ilovebigtimerush 0
Aww. That's really sad. Don't listen to him!
penguinazul 13
The thing about chubby chasers or fat admirers (FA) is that a lot of them try to feed their girlfriends/boyfriends in order to make them fatter; she doesn't want all of that hard work to go to shit simply because he bf likes fat chicks. It'd piss me off, too. I'm all for a guy loving my body and what-not, but if I feel like I'm unhealthy, I'd want to be able to become healthy without worrying about upsetting my SO and not feeding into their fetish.
Wayne913 13
It is kind of weird how he brought it up all of a sudden though. That I would watch.
NPN_Scorpio 16
Feeder Alert! (Captain Obvious to the rescue) That way lies madness and immobility. Get out while you can still run, walk or waddle.
perdix 31
Plumpa humpas are geniuses! You can have a stable of fatties and hardly any competition for their affections. It's niche marketing brilliance!
rogo35 0
Lol you lost 40 pounds and your still fat
ImDB8 0
It's good, you prolly lose more when you get rid of the xtra skin