Today, my husband finally admitted that he squandered the last three months of my share of the rent on booze. He then blamed me, demanded more money, asked for a divorce, and stormed out. When he returned he asked, "How am I the bad guy?" FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, my husband said he wouldn't be talking to me for weeks, because I didn't buy him weed. Yeah, I paid all the bills and the rent this month. FML
Today, my husband admitted to getting his side chick (who I didn't know about) pregnant. If that wasn't bad enough, he actually had the nerve to call me a "selfish bitch" for wanting a divorce and refusing to help raise the kid once it's born. FML
Today, my husband got paid. I checked our bank account and was shocked to see we'd only received $300. I called him, insisting that there was some mistake. He said he'd started a new bank account in his name so he could manage our money on his own, and the $300 was my "allowance". I now want a divorce. FML
Today, I found out my husband of one year has been renting his old batchelor's apartment in secret, because he is unsure if he wants to stay married to me, and we are broke. FML
Today, I asked my husband to be a little more responsible, pick up after himself, and spend a little less. I earn more than he does, so it's usually my money that he splurges. He has gone on a non-stop tantrum for the past 5 hours, giving me the cold shoulder, and shouting at me. What have I gotten myself into? FML
Today, a guy I went out with twice, and slept with once, came knocking on my door, hysterically crying. Apparently his wife found out about “us” and kicked him out. He’s now asking where he can put his stuff, since he’s now homeless. I had no idea he was married, and she’s now looking to fight me. FML
Today, my husband of 3 weeks told me he doesn't want to be married anymore because I suggested getting a joint bank account. FML
Today, my fiancé and I had a fight over household expenses. He's never had a job in his life, but this didn't stop him demanding that I get another full-time job to pay for video games and beer. FML
Today, my husband came home drunk off his ass at 2am. He started crying on my shoulder because he couldn't go home with some beautiful woman who hit on him, because sadly for him, he's married to me. FML
Today, my husband just told me that he no longer loves me but keeps me around to handle his finances. FML
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Top comments
MDoremis 38
I could name plenty of reasons he's the bad guy.
Eliiara 11
Addiction (I would assume) can unfortunately do that. It's a terrible thing to have to deal with for everyone involved.
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Comments (103)
DoomSkuller 28
And you married him... why?
worldclassrager 41
Swap rolls?
gracehi 33
This is spooky because this sounds so much like my ex husband. He used that phrase almost verbatim, but he would say, "I'm tired of always being the bad guy." How about you stop doing shitty things! And he too would waste my money (I was the only one working) on alcohol and then demand MORE money from me because he hadn't bought groceries or what have you. If I argued, he'd demand a divorce and leave, saying he was never coming back, but then come back anyway because I was his meal ticket. Give him a divorce like he wants. You will be much happier without that deadbeat. Believe me. I know from experience.
douglas123 3
we dont know his perspective so no one can say hes the bad guy rly
dyscomonkee 12
He could use an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting asap
leogachi 15
He can't see why he's the bad guy because his judgment is clouded. Have a conversation with him and find out if he wants to get help. In the meantime, take control of your finances. Don't run away just because things are difficult right now. Your husband needs you.
rpitre99 12
Why do you have a share of the rent if you are married at that point you just pay the bills there are no parts
kotaro66 10
I feel bad for you since you are married to him. But to be honest if he asked for a divorce don't waste your time! You only got one life.
dannnngthatsux 19
My reply, how are you the good guy? If someone else did what you do to me, you'd beat them, but not when you do it? Give him a chance but if there's not any real change soon, fly far and fast!!!
jackxzie 11
Typical alcoholist behaviour. I feel bad for you :/