Today, my girlfriend told me that once you love somebody you can never truly fall "out of love" with them. She wasn't talking about me, she was talking about her ex. FML
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A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I fell in love with a girl who used to love me. She doesn't anymore. FML
Today, I told the girl I've been seeing for a while about the strong feelings that I have for her and that I was falling in love. She told me my words made her realize what it felt like to be in love. My words were so powerful, in fact, that she ran right back into the arms of her ex boyfriend. FML
Today, I realized that I might be falling for a girl. She's fucking beautiful. She can't love me, I'm not good enough for her, and she's in love with someone else. Besides, I have a girlfriend but it never seems like we're close and I don't even know if I had a crush on her before, but I still love her as a friend and can't break her heart. FML
Today, I found that the only two people I've ever been in love with fell in love with one another. FML
Today, my girlfriend told me she loved me for the first time. Unfortunately, it was her way of saying that she didn't want to lose me after cheating on me yesterday. FML
Today, my ex-girlfriend told me that she can't live without me, but she has another boyfriend. FML
Today, the girl of my dreams, the one person I've met in my life that I could see myself spending the rest of it with, told me she loves me. She then specifically added "...but not in that way, so we could never be together." FML
Today, a girl that I've been falling for told me that she's married. But not to worry, that "won't get in the way of 'us'." FML
Today, my girlfriend confessed that she'd leave me for her ex in a heartbeat. Tomorrow is, or should I say "was", our wedding day. FML
Today, I found out the girl I like is in love with someone else. Five weeks ago, she told me she's never been in love. FML
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Cynt3r 19
Not true though, but the only advice I can give you is just try moving on, and you'll eventually find yourself falling for someone else
Wizardo 34
Apparently you can fall over and break it though. My advice is **** loving her and move on. You just got saged.
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Cynt3r 19
Not true though, but the only advice I can give you is just try moving on, and you'll eventually find yourself falling for someone else
xx000o 27
That was the first line, the last line will be "we can always be friends"
Wizardo 34
Apparently you can fall over and break it though. My advice is **** loving her and move on. You just got saged.
carllyo 19
Is that your response to everything?
Wizardo 34
Pretty ******* much since I'm a ******* wizard. **** it.
15Erik 21
So that means she never 'loved' you in the first place :(
daddysgirl243 21
sounds like a piece of work
worldclassrager 41
Then why do we have such a high divorce rate? Sorry OP...but you'll find someone better (:
JohnTheDonJuan 11
Just playing devil's advocate, but one could argue that those people weren't in love to begin with...
juturnaamo 29
It depends on the context. I'm not in love with my ex, but I still love him in the sense that I want what's best for him.
FMLusername969 21
But that's not "love". When i met my husband i found out what "love" truly is. I remember having that feeling earlier on in life but when i really fell in love I realized i never loved any of my exes. True story.
WhatsMyLineAgain 8
Loving someone is not wanting whats best for them. You cant call that love.
LuckBeNimble 19
I don't want to speak to every situation, but 41, people often feel the way you just described due to hindsight bias.
LeashaJoy5595 28
I think for me, it was being in love with the memories and who he was then. But people change. I think it's impossible to currently love an ex unless you spend a lot of time with them. I mean, I don't know about you guys, but I haven't talked to my ex in years, I don't even know who he is anymore. But really, you'll know the difference from loving someone, to being INlove with the right guy.
lenehey 7
It's not romantic love, but it is exactly the kind of love you have for a family member
Karinrinkashi 9
that double crossing definition. only ones who blind side and break up the other one usualy hold this definition.
AninOnin 24
My ex broke up with me, and I still love him... Just not in a romantic sense anymore. I'm with someone else now, and I may be IN love with him (not sure yet xD) but I know that if I do fall in love, if we ever break up, I'll still love him. Just, again, not necessarily romantically.
Michael903 18
Time to let her go back to her ex so you can find somebody worthy of your time. He was an ex for a reason. She'll remember soon enough...then you can have the last laugh!!
_guy_j 12
That's a bitchy thing to say, OP. don't let it get to you
JayGatsby 25
To be honest, I don't think OP's girlfriend is being really bitchy. Breaking up with someone is hard and there is no pleasant way to do it, and although I do sympathize with OP, his girlfriend wasn't rude about it. I don't agree with her logic, but I still think this was one of the better breakups (still, my condolences and FYL, OP)
odamaliekh 26
Before you break up with her over this, please talk to her. If she really still is in love with her ex, that is a dealbreaker. But she could have meant that you never forget the people you have loved in the past. Oh, who am I fooling.. Dump her.
KawaiiPinkie 11
You have a good point. You never forget someone you have loved in the past, weather it's because someone bullied the poor guy because of you or if it's because the ****** ruined your life.
Silk_Routes 14
you must prove her wrong..try out op