Today, I was a bit upset to learn that my 13 year-old daughter had a boyfriend. When she noticed, she assured me that I shouldn't worry, because "it's just for sex anyway". FML
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A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I found out that my daughter not only has a boyfriend, but that they're trying for a baby. She's barely 15. FML
Today, my daughter's 14-year-old boyfriend confessed, in front of her, that he only went out with her so he might have a chance to date me. My daughter isn't speaking to me. FML
Today, I picked my 12-year-old daughter up from school after her first sexual education lecture. She burst into tears on the way home explaining her fears of being pregnant with her boyfriend's child. As if that doesn't sound bad enough, I've met her boyfriend before. He is imaginary. FML
Today, my 15-year-old daughter told me that she's pregnant. To make matters worse, she doesn't know who the father is. She told me not to worry though, because she has it narrowed down to "like, only 3 guys." FML
Today, I walked into the living room to find my 11-year-old daughter about to kiss her "not my boyfriend" on the lips. When I asked what she thought she was doing, she peeled a piece of scotch tape off her lips and said, "It's okay! We're using protection." FML
Today, I found out my 20 year-old daughter has a 46 year-old boyfriend. She met him at her job. When I objected, she told me that I can’t tell her “heart” what to do because she’s “grown” and “in love.” I had to teach her how to wash and she still leaves dirty pads on the floor, but sure, she’s “in love.” FML
Today, my 15-year-old birth daughter asked if I've ever had sex. FML
Today, not only did I find out that my 13 year-old daughter is pregnant, I found out that she did it on purpose "to prove that she’s responsible." FML
Today, I overheard my 14-year-old daughter telling her friend that she's saving money to get her hymen surgically removed so her first time won't hurt. FML
Today, my boyfriend's 13-year-old daughter called me a "stupid f**ing b****" on Snapchat because her dad wouldn't go on the trampoline with her. I had nothing to do with any of it. FML
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pratikp03 22
Time for sex talk with your daughter
stillalive33 14
At that age, she barely needs to know what sex is…
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Comments (147)
keiNan_fml 35
OP you need to teach some lessons.
DjeePee 25
A first relation shouldn't be 'just for sex', man, how depressing is that? I'm happy I grew up without sexual pressure, that shit began to start at age 16. Talk with her, let her know that sex can be aweful, good, and great if you wait for the right moment. And if she thinks the right moment is there, be aware that you can't stop it. So talking about contraception is definitely necessary.
teyyoshi 19
totally surprised。。。or am I too conservative ？
Fou_Lou 20
#12 said it. Talk it over with her and make clear how important Contraception and protection against STI is. As for legal stuff. In my country you arent really allowed to have sex when both parts are under 14 but they cant be punished for it either because there under 14. So you should have a look into that too and explain that to her.
NostalgiaFreak9 43
It's just about time to have a serious "talk" with her.
teentee401 37
That sucks but I feel like OP could've done more when it came to teaching her about sex (the appropriate age to do so, sexual health, etc.) Not gonna say YDI, but the fact that she was so casual in telling you means OP didn't seem to sit down with her and talk to her about sex. I'm guessing she found out on her own, was curious, and made her own conclusions.
emilyjgraham 34
I agree, but if they haven't spoken to the daughter about it yet it may be because they never thought something like this would happen or didn't think she was anywhere near mature enough to think so casually about it. Saying that in the culture we live in today where we should be prepared for this type of thing. I'm certainly not condoning it and I'm not saying everyone should expect their kids to become promiscuous at a young age but maybe it's time we did have a talk and try and get our children to talk to us if they think they're going to do it or are scared of something etc. I think sometimes people forget they were kids too and some of them had 'fun' under the age of 16 (or whatever the age limit!) It's quite obvious that sex is no longer a taboo subject so maybe we try and make the conversations easier so that if young teenagers are going to do it we can help and give guidance where needed rather than them go through the feelings alone. :)
Fmlreadermostly 20
I agree. I definitely think this is a YDI case of not thinking of having a sex talk earlier. Children aren't stupid, and need the world explained at different times repetitively. I preached protection to my 13yr old girl at different times since she was 10. I've always used Google to help me explain what I didn't have words for. Please teach her like a human and give her respect enough to take your time out and talk to her as an intellectual being.
xx000o 27
Maybe grounding her for the next 6 years could be one solution.
TallMist 32
If she's 13, then she'd be 19 in 6 years. The longest a parent can ground a child, unless said child decides to stay at home with their parents by such age, is 18, which will be when most people would be clamoring to get out of their parent's home.
vivaellefashion 14
If she's already having sex, you can't stop her. You can teach/inform her about protection, pregnancy and diseases that you (May) get if not being protected. Also have the "sex" talk like everyone said.
val_is_lame97 12
that sucks.. probably time to have "the talk". dont want her to end up pregnant :/
worldclassrager 41
That should make you even more disappointed