FYL but what did you expect? Did you think he might say he's been missing you, didn't have the courage to call, and can't wait to be a real family of three? Time to put your big girl knickers on, dear. Grow up. You don't have the luxury of lounging in self-pity at the moment since you have some big decisions to make. I hope things work out well for you. Don't count on anybody giving you a "happily ever after" ending.

That sucks. Be glad you're not with him anymore, he sounds like a prick.

duh. you sound a little desperate

A smart girl knows when a guy isn't her... Serves you right for not practicing safe sex and for not having enough common sense to take a hint from a guy.

he'll regret it someday . look back say oh shit that really is my child and never have a good relationship with him .

I get where he's coming from b/c there are desperate chicks who actually lie & say they're pregnant when they're not...but he's a douche for speaking to you like that...sorry, be thankful that you're not with him!

if its true paternity test his ass when you can and he can spend the nest 18 years or so, working really hard for a pay check he cant keep. Condoms people condoms

Thank God Mary didn't have to go through that crap

YDI OP because you ARE a pathetic liar. So easy to see that you are using this "baby" only because you are "still in love with him" which I'll point out you told him first...and when he rejected that then you told him about the baby to make him care....which he did not. So go cry in a corner...you're still by yourself.

#242... I'm nine months pregnant and on bed rest. I have no life :P

#243... I would like to start off by bitching at you for not reading what I said. I ended my last comment asking people to READ before they make stupid arguments and you didn't even do that. I did NOT say that people who disagree have no decency or morals. I said they do not have the decency and morals THAT THEY HAVE. "Yayy!! I feel so...not alone!! Why does the rest of the world not have the decency and morals THAT YOU DO? Sheesh!" I did NOT say "Why does the rest of the world not have decency and morals?" AND I've already made that exact argument to a previous poster. Do your damn homework if you're going to jump into the middle of a conversation! Ignorance does not have to be willful, although it most certainly can be. The fact of the matter is, whether it is on purpose or not, it is a lack of knowledge. Period. End of story. Now, I'm not going to go back and look at if I ever mentioned my religious beliefs in this thread, if I have then okay, you can bring it up. However, I had such viewpoint BEFORE I was ever of my current belief. The fact of the matter is, if someone CARES enough about having children, contracting an STD, etc. They will NOT have sex. It's really not that hard to figure out, why on earth FML is filled with idiots who cannot grasp that, I do not know. I do not make that statement just based on one person, that would be, as you said, quite moronic. I make that statement based on every person I have ever met. Sure, I do not know every human being on the planet, but it is perfectly understandable to take a census of the part and apply it to the whole. That's how most every study is conducted nowadays anyways. Honestly, the last paragraph just reminds me that I am obviously dealing with a person who does not listen. You both defined a word that I was already fully aware of the definition of and was using correctly. And you both keep repeating the exact same information If I wanted to deal with a child's mentality, I would speak to a child. I don't see any point in wasting any more of my time on this.

Doesn't this type of thing happen to a lot of people? They break up and the girl ends up finding out she is pregnant!