Today, and every time I don’t feel like having sex with my boyfriend, he audibly jerks off, and passively aggressively moans to try and guilt trip me into doing it. FML
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Today, my boyfriend told me he’d rather masturbate than have sex with me, and that sex with me is a chore. FML
Today, my boyfriend would rather jerk off than have sex with me. Even if I'm next to him in bed. FML
Today, my boyfriend hasn’t asked for sex in a while, like months, and when I asked him about it he admitted that every day I shout at him, snap at him or act bitchy about anything not his fault, he has a wank and goes to sleep rather than bother asking me for sex. FML
Today, I realized my boyfriend uses sex as a way to get me to stop talking. FML
Today, I caught my boyfriend masturbating, again. Meanwhile we haven’t had sex in weeks. FML
Today, my boyfriend said he was too tired to have sex with me because he'd spent the whole day jerking off. FML
Today, I tried to have sex with my boyfriend three times, but every time he insisted that he wasn't in the mood. I left to get food and when I came home he was masturbating. FML
Today, I tried to have sex with my boyfriend three times, but every time he insisted that he wasn't in the mood. I left to get food and when I came home, he was masturbating. FML
Today, I overheard my boyfriend of two years saying he only dates me because "sometimes jerking off just ain't good enough". FML
Today, the only way I can get my boyfriend to do anything is by telling him it's a turn on. FML
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Top comments
Earl_KarmasBitch 36
He has every right to jerk off, but he has no right to try to guilt you.
justwanttobesocial...butalsonot 9
This is a huge red flag. Coercion, manipulation, and all the rest he's displaying are forms of mental/emotional abuse. Seriously, this is not ok. There are people out there that respect your boundaries and don't play these mind games. If he's guilting you into intimacy, he is taking away your ability to consent.
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Comments (10)
D J's MOM 17
manchild, how old is he?
RichardPencil 32
Why? Are you interested?
D J's MOM 17
maybe you're the one interested in him. I have NO use for a man child.
Earl_KarmasBitch 36
He has every right to jerk off, but he has no right to try to guilt you.
slhiggx 17
Moan back. Or leave him. But seriously, you two need to have a talk about this. If you already have and he’s still doing it, he won’t change.
Hangryko 32
Give him a fleshlight, saying "Here, use this."
Anderling 33
Buy the biggest ***** you can find and tell him to go ahead and **** himself.
wrenavery90 12
Ignore him.
SJKatt 15
Dump this man. If he wanted to jerk off he'd do it on his own time without being super ******* obnoxious about it. Dude is doing it to be a shit to you. Leave and never look back.
justwanttobesocial...butalsonot 9
This is a huge red flag. Coercion, manipulation, and all the rest he's displaying are forms of mental/emotional abuse. Seriously, this is not ok. There are people out there that respect your boundaries and don't play these mind games. If he's guilting you into intimacy, he is taking away your ability to consent.
core01 30
Yes, this! 1,000% this. It will get worse over time. This is not healthy
Sonotsuave 37
Yeah it’s time to dump his ass. It’s perfectly fine to want to be intimate more with your partner, but it’s not okay to not understand their boundaries and needs, and it’s especially not cool to be manipulative or a petty, obnoxious a-hole about it. He can take a seat in the back and be single until he learns what “no” and healthy boundaries mean.
emmalou 19
eww break up with him immediately... and see a doctor ur disinterest could maybe be something
Nightbird827 15
sounds like you need a real man to satisfy you.